Fast -eye comments 丨 The grandfather asked the 10 -year -old granddaughter to change his surname, but he was afraid of "啃"!

Polar News commentator Wu Shuangjian

Recently, an old man in Shanghai Chongming insisted on changing his grandson and his surname. It turned out that the old man's daughter, son -in -law, and granddaughter, a family of three, eats and live in her own house. The granddaughter does not feel the old man feels very bad. (According to "China Business Daily" on July 17)

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No wonder the old man had an idea. He had just raised a daughter, and now it seems to have become a "two daughter". He has a high pressure on housework and a heavy economic burden. If the granddaughter is with her surname, there will be motivation for giving, and the psychology will be balanced.

The old man's idea can be understood, but the law does not support it. Because who the child is with the surname is mainly because of the friendly consultation of parents. As far as the current status quo is concerned, the child is more with the surname of the father, but the situation of the mother's surname has begun to increase, and the society is not surprising. There are also families to achieve their goals through the way the parents' surnames are superimposed. Others have two children, one with the surname of the father and the other surname. All in all, it is to discuss well, home and everything.

But what is the reason to follow the surname of the grandfather? In fact, it is the surname with the mother. It is reported that the idea of ​​grandfather confuses the child's mother. Indeed, who the child is with the surname is easy to cause contradictions. Now that the grandfather inserts a bar, isn't it increasing the contradiction between husband and wife?

However, the old man's idea was unanimously approved by netizens. "The shareholding system, whoever pays too much will have the right to decide" "Shouldn't the title of the news be called‘ son -in -law entered the rejection of the child ’s surname’? ”Netizens believe that who eats who eats and surnames, there is no problem.

It can be seen that the opinions of netizens do not mean that the child is the question of who is with, but a question of old age. Young people have hands and feet, eating and living in the old man's house. Is this time to say? Therefore, netizens mocked the young people in various ways.

The old man's thoughts did not get legal support, but received sympathy from netizens. Because now, there are so many young people who have no bottom line, eat and live in the old man's house, and be a shopkeeper themselves.

Perhaps the old man did not want the grandson to follow his surname, but his face was thin. It was difficult to say, and it was impossible for finding a reason to issue a "drive order".

In fact, in the face of the old man, the elderly may wish to let go of their love and talk to their children. After all, the child is an adult, and he has no responsibility for breeding. Helping the little family is love points, not helping is a score. As a big family, it should be helpful to each other, but there are principles and bottom lines. It cannot be just endless endless effort.

Because such a family looks very harmonious on the surface, in fact, the foundation is not stable. Once the wind blows the grass, it is prone to conflict disputes. In the end, the family may tear the face and make trouble.

Now, although some elderly people are old, although they are unhappy, most of them have chosen forbearance. On the one hand, in order to maintain a harmonious family atmosphere, on the other hand, I am afraid that one day I get old, or I still have to rely on my children's elderly. In fact, the elderly must adhere to the bottom line for the old behavior of their children. It is not impossible to live here, living here, but economically and housework must be shared. Everyone lives together, and things are tedious. Everyone shares it. In fact, it is also a good thing. The big family also has the advantages of a big family.

If a family of three lives here for nothing, if you don't do anything, the old man may really "break the supply". As for the support of children, it is the obligation stipulated in the law.

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