Learn these 5 "love language", my partner loves me more

Author:Simple psychology Time:2022.07.17

"I feel ta doesn't seem to like me so much"

"I did so much, why didn't TA appreciate it?"

If you have similar doubts in the process of love, it may be because your "love language" is inconsistent! The language of love is: In your opinion, what is the expression of love?

We can divide it into 5 types:

Affordinated language

The "language of love" as TA is some of the positive words, and TA feels that "expressing love is very important."

When I hear the other party expressed "I love you" (especially the reason to love you), I feel very moved and cherished.

TA likes to receive the "small note of love" and likes to be recognized and praised from time to time.

If you hear criticism, you may feel particularly harmful.

When TA does something for the other party, he will look forward to getting the other party's gratitude. The other party said, "I am very happy," it will make TA feel that I am paying attention.

High -quality companionship

TA requires the partner's "complete" and "present" companion.

When watching movies or eating together, don't want you to be distinguished because of other things.

For TA, it is important to create memories and spend intimacy together.

If you have carefully planned a date and take the initiative to watch your mobile phone in the date, even if you are busy, you can accompany TA, TA may be particularly happy.

Physical contact

Sexual intimacy will make TA feel loved, and thus feel deeper with his partner.

TA likes to embrace and kiss. When the partner does not have a physically intimate manifestation, TA will feel lonely and not loved.

Of course, the intimate performance in the body is not limited to "related to sex."

Maybe you just put your hand on the back of TA when you pass the TA; give TA a kiss at work; touch TA's hair and so on.

Some behaviors to take care of TA

For example: When you are sick, bring soup for TA, cook coffee for TA in the morning, and help TA running your legs to pick up courier ...

When you take care of TA in some trivial matters, TA will be loved.

Most of these things are simple.

But for TA, this is the expression of love.

Send a Gift

It sounds a bit utilitarian. But TA really cares about the emotional symbol behind the gift.

When you travel alone, TA will expect you to bring a souvenir to TA.

TA attaches great importance to birthdays and anniversary, and may even remember them on the calendar.

Gifts make TA feel love and feel seen, cared for and cherished.

Everyone expresses and feels the way of love.

Using what the other party thinks of "love" can make the other party feel our love better.

So, what will make you feel that the other person loves you? Leave a message to tell us.

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