Talk like this, no children who have not taught well

Author | Cola Mom

Source | Boys' original

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In life, many parents have experienced such experiences.

Seeing that the child is sick, it is obviously distressed than anyone else, but one mouth is:

"Let you wear more you don't listen, now you know uncomfortable?"

Seeing that the child's grades have regressed, it is obviously more concerned than anyone else, but as soon as he speaks, it becomes:

"It's delicious and delicious all day long for you to read, and in the end, who can you do so?" Who do you can afford it? "

When I found that the child had made a mistake, I only wanted to make him a lesson, but what I said was:

"It's not a way out, you can only do this for a lifetime!"

I always think that I am a knife -mouth tofu heart. Although I do n’t listen to it, I ’m finally for the sake of children.

But I forgot that there is no knife -mouth tofu heart in this world.

New Oriental founder Yu Minhong pointed out in blood:

"All the knives are the heart of the knife."

Each of the seemingly fluttering words of the parents stretched into the child's heart like a sharp blade, leaving only a bloody hole.

In the end, the child who was accustomed to being ridiculed, denied, and threatened learned to give up a little bit.

Obviously suffering from countless grievances and pressures, but when facing parents, he never mentioned.

Just say:

"That's it, forget it."

Subsequently, rushing away towards the dislike of his parents, he really became stupid, bad, and unproductive.

Because you scold your child, he will not stop loving you, but he will stop loving himself.

How many parents get up early and make money, and work hard day and night, just to let their children win on the starting line.

But in fact, the best starting line of children is hidden in their parents' mouths.

The following is 12 scientific methods recommended by the People's Daily to communicate with children efficiently. It is worth collecting and learning.

There is a saying good:

"Every child is dancing on the tip of the parents."

The appreciation and praise of parents are the bright lights that guide their children to the right way;

The derogation and blow of parents are tumors deeply rooted in their children.

In a happy and harmonious family, the communication between the family is always as gentle as the spring breeze. In the good words of their parents, the child learns to be active and optimistic and has the confidence of overcome difficulties.

On the contrary, the more unhappy and uncomfortable families, the more they are full of quarrels and criticism.

Gradually, children will become inferior, cowardly, and lose the courage to face life.

Therefore, if you want to cultivate a warm and happy child, parents should start with learning good words.

Learning to speak well is a compulsory course for parents' life.

The source of this article ｜ Boy School (ID: Boy666DJ), about the dry goods of the boy, here are all; about the bitterness of raising boys, you know here; there are little boys at home, welcome to follow the boy faction.

Editor in charge ｜ Wang Jiashi

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