Sister has no standard answer

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We planned a new column, named [Sister Never Know]. I have found some sisters who are in line with your imagination and beyond your imagination.

They may not give you the answer you want, but can show you some possibility.

In the first issue, we invited her 我们

@eleven

41 years old, single

12 years alone / Changju Hangzhou / There is a house and a car

After the age of 35, he only fell in love with his younger brother

"I hope all love will end the love period"

Bleak

@Zou Yu

Have you been in love recently?

@eleven

It's talked about ... There is a boy who is dating,

But the relationship has not been determined yet, only to eat and drink coffee.

@Zou Yu

Or brother?

@eleven

Yes, 14 years younger than me.

Say funny:

I told him a few days ago, I hope he practice,

Linking into his university in the basketball school team,

The best muscle.

He didn't say anything, running on his knee pads, running,

"Exercise for a while, come and chase you again."

@Zou Yu

This is not very cute!

@eleven

But how to say, let's not go up.

I have dated a minority brother before,

That time it was really up.

He will go to him suddenly to see him.

I won't do this kind of thing when I am young.

@Zou Yu

How do you know?

@eleven

I am the guide when I travel to the mountains,

28 years old, handsome.

After a few days, he came to confess to me.

He said he had seen many people from big cities,

I think I am different.

He said, seeing your smile every day,

I'm so happy.

@eleven

By the way, I later learned,

His father is only four years older than me.

@Zou Yu

Shouldn't you be together for too long?

@eleven

Less than half a year.

The love with my brother is generally maintained for three months to half a year.

I mentioned it.

I hope all the feelings will end in the period of love.

@Zou Yu

What about the end of love?

@eleven

When I was young, I would be sad to break up, and now I won't.

I heard that he got married in less than half a year after breaking up.

It's normal, after all, he looks good.

@eleven

But I actually want to say that my brother is not so cute.

Maybe compared to middle -aged men,

The taste on them smells better,

More sunny and more positive.

But the shortcomings of the shoulder, the younger brother.

@Zou Yu

Then why do you have to find your brother?

@eleven

Men who can contact me to be middle -aged,

Whether you are in your body or living habits,

I am not very satisfied.

Many of them have the desire to control,

I don't like good teachers.

@Zou Yu

for example?

@eleven

A long time ago, I had an ex -excess,

Will you send me a movie DVD regularly?

I also want me to write back.

@Zou Yu

This……

@eleven

At the age of 30,

I have been in the past ten years old.

Very delicate and very self -disciplined.

It was later discovered that he could do so delicate and self -discipline,

It is because he only pays attention to himself.

I am just a dispensable adjustment to him.

@eleven

Think of something funny:

Once, we went to watch the exhibition on weekends.

After lunch, I recommend going to the flower and bird market together.

He said, "Next time. I'm going to go home to sleep."

I:"???"

@Zou Yu

I can't help but want to ask a question,

My brothers are to you,

Can it be regarded as an optional adjustment?

@eleven

let me see.

In fact, what I said earlier,

"I hope all the feelings will end in the love period."

It has something to do with my current state of mind.

It's hard to enter a long -term relationship now,

Whether it is sister -in -law or older man.

I think I just need to bring me in love,

The feeling of heart.

@Zou Yu

Have you tried to enter the long -term relationship?

@eleven

I tried it and almost got married.

@Zou Yu

Intersection

@eleven

At that time, 26 years old,

Consider whether to marry that person.

The houses were bought.

I was particularly anxious after being separated from him,

You can't imagine anxiety.

I want to get married, I especially want to get married.

That state is very problematic,

It will let you release a signal,

Just like a person casually,

It will look like the son of heaven.

@Zou Yu

As a result, I did not encounter the son of the candidate, right?

@eleven

That's right, but encountered the "scum man".

He told me as soon as he came up,

I got married.

After knowing it, I just cater to me.

From his social platform access record,

I accidentally found that he was cheating.

@Zou Yu

What year is this?

@eleven

I'm about 30 years old.

After that, I felt,

Don't worry, even if it.

Maybe most girls have experienced such a stage,

Am I right?

@Zou Yu

Then I want to know,

Did you give up to marry after that?

Or understand a little more understanding,

Are you "unmarried"?

@eleven

There is no need to use "doctrine" to restrict yourself.

In fact, I have had such a stage,

I like to prove that the single is very good in a ruthless way, "I don't need a man."

But I have experienced a lot,

Just understand single, marriage, childbirth, divorce,

It's just an active choice after adulthood.

No one is more advanced.

@Zou Yu

Understand, you still have to enjoy your heart.

@eleven

right,

If you can still enjoy the happiness brought by the hormones,

Just enjoy it.

@Zou Yu

Then we talk about love,

In fact, I am particularly curious how you get along with your brother.

For example, will you spend money to your brother?

@eleven

I am actually the kind of sister who does not spend money on my brother.

(laugh)

I spend money on my friends to be generous to my boyfriend,

Because friends are longer.

I have never lived with my brothers,

It may occasionally a day or two.

There is one more person in life, and I will feel disturbed.

@Zou Yu

Do you have always lived alone?

@eleven

I have lived alone for 12 years.

In the last ten years,

The length of life alone exceeds the time of love.

I still lived in the house I bought for marriage.

Will spend a lot of time to draw and exercise.

When traveling was convenient, I would travel alone.

@Zou Yu

It sounds so comfortable, and it will not look lonely at all.

@eleven

Hmm ... actually still lonely.

Think of it, when I woke up this morning,

I suddenly had a very nothing feeling.

I can't tell what kind of state it is.

Every day's life is repeated,

There are few waves and surprises.

@Zou Yu

You need waves.

@eleven

Yes, it is too needed.

If I let me be in a state that no one can like it,

There will be a little bit of emptiness.

@eleven

So say a word that sounds less "chic",

I'm afraid of getting older.

Afraid of menopause and menopause.

I have a few old friends around me,

Describe me before and after menopausal.

They said,

I clearly feel that I no longer release hormones.

I don't have that kind of younger brother,

"What do you want to happen?"

I'm not sure everyone will do this,

It is natural to fall in love to old.

@Zou Yu

I have never thought about this problem ...

@eleven

I also joked with my friends,

Saying that the back zipper of the dress is really good at heart,

Always remind women to find a companion.

Anyway, if physiological reasons,

There is no urge to love, it is a pity.

@Zou Yu

What else is not "chic"?

@eleven

You will also worry, a person is sick and the like.

Don't worry about being deceiving.

Some time ago, when I measured the curtains,

I forgot to step on a tall stool,

Step on the ground with one foot.

I almost thought I was fractured.

Fortunately, standing up, there is no major.

@Zou Yu

You mean,

Will this make you want someone to take care of it?

@eleven

Not.

Just let me make up my mind,

This is a bit dangerous in the future,

Still spending money to find someone to do it, haha.

@Zou Yu

At the end, I asked even more "chic",

How did you plan in the future, do you want children?

@eleven

Actually hesitated.

There was a medical examination, the doctor reminded,

Don't miss the age of fertility.

@Zou Yu

Did you listen to it?

@eleven

how to say,

This reminds me of the last year or two,

It's funny.

I have a ex -boyfriend who split together for 20 years.

There was a chat, and suddenly chatted,

"Otherwise, let's have a child,

Anyway, you know each other. "

Of course, this is just a joke.

In fact, I like children very much.

But if there is a sudden more person in life,

Can I still be as consistent as I do now?

I have no answer.

Bleak

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