Chen Jingwei: In the age of not confused, the heart of the heart -the sick couch realizes the five of life talks

For a few days in a row, high temperatures have not retired, but learned from the doctor that the body has not been a big deal for the time being, and it is also a matter of relief. Today, although the dynamic monitoring instrument, although it disrupts the mind from time to time, he still insists on the topic of "mental skills" according to what he thinks and thoughts, and discusses from the two aspects of mind and mental skills. The reason why this topic is to choose is because we often encounter this topic in real life from entering the social environment, and often think about how to get along with the two types of people with mental skills and mental skills. It is necessary to talk about it.

Heart technique refers to the method and function of thinking, or the principle and function of thinking. "Tube. Seven Methods" says: "Real, sincerity, thick, Shi Ye, Du Ye, forgive, and the heart of the heart." Use the principles or rules of mind. The minds referred to in the tube refer to the kindness behind the mind, and the use of heart skills in later generations can be good or evil. Xunzi believes that the mental skills not only refer to the method of thinking, but also refer to the vastness of Si Yu, the good and evil of motivation, and the correct or evil of the character.

"Ci Hai" interprets the incorrect heart of the mood, mind: ingenuity. The incompetence of the heart refers to the infidelity, unjust, and bad heart, and also "not disagreement". Some people summarize some characteristics to those who are not in mind, such as good faces, cheap love, not losing money, like to talk about the privacy of others, jealous and admiration for right and wrong, and do not know how to be grateful ... This is just some appearances that require deep analysis and research.

"Qian's Family Training" says: "Mindization cannot offend the heavens and the earth." It means that the human mind is positive. Only "mental skills do not offend the heavens and the earth" can there be a big deal. This sentence puts on demands on how people are based on society and how to live. Our parents and teachers have taught since childhood that no matter what, no matter what they do, we must be a honest and sincere person; must not be a person who has a good intention and a good calculation, because it will not be respected by others, and it is even more than others. It is impossible to achieve great success in career.

In fact, the many values ​​we recognize are coincident, such as the excellent quality such as honesty, loyalty, humility, and degree of excellent quality. The quality of the quality is often regarded as a "bad" mental skill. French writer Balzak said: "A clear life, a honest and not deceiving personality, no matter which class, even the worst people of the heart will respect it." This sentence tells us that the mind is right. Heart technique is not at the same moral level. One was respectful and pursued, and the other was shameless and spurred.

The ancients evaluated a person, and there was a gentleman and a villain. During the Warring States Period, the thinker Xunzi had a well -known saying: "Although the shape is evil, the heart is good, and the harm is the gentleman." Harm is for villains. Today, people often say that this person can make friends with a good mind; otherwise, this is a person with incorrect minds, and he will deal with it in the future.

When people reach middle age and move to work in many places, they also have countless people. People who have more minds around they work together, or become confidant friends, and provide a lot of concern, support and help for their own growth and progress, career development, and letting their career development. People are grateful, even unforgettable. I have encountered many good leaders in the troops. Among them, Director Wei Huairun is most impressed. He is humble, righteous, cares about the subordinates, and cultivates talents. The character and morality are the example of our learning and the good head of everyone. At that time, our department was particularly good, with vitality and combat effectiveness. Everyone just wanted to work well, and most of the units to compete for the red flag. They rarely considered personal gain and losses. As a result, everyone made progress. Essence Although he had never met with Director Wei for a long time, he often thought of him and missed the days when he worked with him.

As the saying goes: The person near Zhu is red, and those who are near the ink are black. In fact, everyone who is upright and kind is willing to associate and work with a gentleman who is in the minds. If a team and a group are composed of people with positive minds, then this team must be clear, concentrated, and heartpower, heart power Strong, various undertakings will be flourishing. Director Wei is such a gentleman with a righteous heart. His quality is always nourishing me, and it will also become a long -term study and persistence.

But in daily life, we will also encounter individual mental injustice. These people are basically ruthless and unbelievable. They are very good at making conspiracy and tricks. When they are in front of people, they are sweetly talked about, and they often hurt people behind people. They have traps, stumbling, fiddling right and wrong, making rumors, selling others, and so on. Even these people often use the most mean means to greet others to achieve personal interests, and dare to pay any costs for the small grievances. When encountering such a person with mental illness, he hurts feelings, and destroys his career. Therefore, although there are a few people with mental illness, sometimes the harm is not small. Do not despise it, let alone.

In the "Three Kingdoms", in the late Eastern Han Dynasty, Cao Cao was arrested for being stabbing Dong Zhuo. Zhongmu County ordered Chen Gong felt his righteousness. He wanted to follow, and saw Cao Cao killing the Lu Bohe family, so he left angrily. Later, although Cao Cao unified the Central Plains and laid the foundation for the establishment of Wei State, he left an eternal reputation in history because of "mental absence". This historical example tells us how powerful the person who is afraid of mental skills and how much success is achieved, and he has been shameless and scolded for a long time. Everything is suffering. Man is a social animal, and the most important attribute is social attributes, so Marx said that people are the sum of various social relations. Human minds also have a certain socialist, and it will also change due to changes in the environment. But we must adhere to the good quality of integrity, kindness, helping others, and loving the country, because being a person with a righteous mind is the truth of the ancient times. Of course, people are in the rivers and lakes, and they will encounter anyone and everything. How to get along with various people is a great test of a person's mind.

Zhuge Liang wrote in the "Teacher's Table": "Dear and sage, villain, this first Han is also prosperous; dear villains, Yuanxian ministers, then Han is also enlightened." History tells us that we must have a mental skill. Positive people, those who have more minds, try to stay away from people who are not righteous. Because, when you are close to a gentleman, the road of life will become wider and wider, and your career will become more and more successful; stay away from villains, you can avoid many right and wrong, just like escape the road tiger and stumbling blocks on the road of life.

About the author: Chen Jingwei, a member of the Xinjiang Writers Association, now lives in Urumqi.

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