A strong logo in the heart: not afraid of being hated, not worried about changes in the world

Author: Insight · Annabe Su

Every cattle have a determined core.

Writer Feng Tang said that each cattle have a determined nuclear, so that it is not easy to be blown by the wind in the universe.

A person is truly powerful and strong.

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Don't be afraid to be hated

I have seen such a story.

Ronald K. Hofferine ranked among the top three on the American IQ ranking.

However, the genius with a IQ of 164 eventually was embarrassed. He lived in a cheap rental house all year round. In the room, there were only a few old furniture picked up, and three cats accompanied him.

Ronald said that his desperate life originated in elementary school.

In elementary school, a female classmate invited her classmates to her house to attend a birthday party.

When she saw everyone smiled, when she saw Ronald, she said with a disgusted face: "I didn't expect you to come."

Ronald was extremely embarrassed and fled.

Along the way, he remembered the eyes of female classmates, imagining the ridicule of others, and his mood was even lower.

Since then, he has been trapped in the quagmire that is "not liked by others", and has not been able to get out of the shadow of his childhood until the age of 55.

Philosopher Schopenhauer said that the most special weakness of human nature is to care about how others think of themselves.

Many times, others have a look, and a word of inadvertent words will set off a huge wave in our hearts.

We lowered our wealth to please, abandon ourselves to cater, and finally could not get a vision and respect.

Therefore, instead of being used by others' words and deeds, it is better to cultivate your own courage.

When Yang Tianzhen participated in the recording of "The Story of Qi Qi", he mentioned his experience.

For a while, she gave up the glorious career of the agent and became a large -size women's blogger.

At that time, some people spoke sour, saying that she couldn't mix in the agent's circle, and some people questioned that she was forced to transfer because she had offended some people because of her straightforwardness.

Yang Tianzhen never regarded these claims as one thing, but was carefully selected and lived hard.

She said, "People care about the views of others, either because they are too idle or weak. When you have more important things to do, you will not care about these evaluations."

Interpersonal relationships are always a complex game, and no one can master all the clearance of customs clearance.

Don't be abducted easily by others' judgment standards, let alone self -degrading because it is not liked.

In this drama of life, we are the protagonists ourselves. We must never let a passerby to disturb your drama.

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Don't worry about changes in the world

There are many people around me, always complaining that they do n’t meet, and I do n’t treat it, but in fact, all the nostalgias are not encountered because they are not enough.

Since the media person@自, when he was a taxi, he met a master who was almost the same age as his grandfather.

When he was chatting, he asked, "You are so old, do you need to go out so hard?"

He thought Master would vomit bitter water at him, but he did not expect the master to talk about his resume proudly.

The master said that the sports car has been doing for most of his life.

When he was young, he did not go to the unit team, others suspected that there was less money, only he was willing to go.

Later, the unit layoffs, because he was practical and diligent, he stayed smoothly.

During the reform and opening up in the 1980s, although the current life was stable, the master still chose to go to Shenzhen sports car to pull the goods.

After a month, I earn more than the original unit a year.

The master proudly said that his two sons were married, and the wedding room was bought by himself. Now he has nothing to do when he is idle, and he still has to run.

Zhang Lei said enviously, Master, you are really the winner of life, the master grinned:

"I always feel that the days should not be mixed. The hardships should be eaten, and the danger of rishes is to take the risks. Because you have been working hard, you are not afraid or in a hurry."

In the era of big waves, you must have sufficient skills and courage, good speculation and judgment to make your life be more upper.

Ni Ping had been an actor for 9 years. Each scene was the protagonist. He won various awards, but when he felt that he had no growth, he chose to go to Beijing to be a CCTV intern host.

In the past few years, it has grown all the way to a well -deserved "CCTV Sister".

Writer Li Xiaoyu has been the director of the traditional media advertising department for 12 years. When most people are still mixed in the original company, she seized the new media style, wrote articles, publish new books, and turned to short videos.

Liu Run once said that time has investment attributes. When you are willing to spend time to accept challenges and improve your ability, this is just like getting money to invest, not to consume.

Life is always fair, just like spring planting and autumn harvest, just like the cooked pheasant.

At any time, the only way to worry about the changes in the world is: to strengthen your strength and dig deeper your moat.

Where do you spend time and where time is, one day, one day, it will grow into a towering tree and shelter you safely.

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Writer Yishu said that people must fight for themselves. As long as they make achievements, the whole world will naturally treat you and Yan Yue.

You don't need to take time to mediate with the outside world, you just need to concentrate on cultivating your strength.

When you are strong enough, the ability is big enough, so why fear the wind and frost of others' eyes and life.

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