Who said that mother -in -law is "natural enemy"

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In life, the best relationship is to understand and tolerate each other. However, many people say that the relationship between mother -in -law and daughter -in -law is the most difficult housework, but this pair of mother -in -law is like a loved one. The mother -in -law understands the difficulty of the military and the soldiers, and the military son also knows the sincerity of her mother -in -law.

Tonight's "Guan Shanyue", let's listen to the story of this pair of mother -in -law.

Who said that mother -in -law is "natural enemy"

Author: Kong Zhaofeng anchor: Zhu Yong

In the summer vacation of that year, my lover sent me and my son back to his hometown in Shandong to accompany his in -laws. That day, after he sent us, he had a lunch at home and went on a business trip.

At that time, my lover and I had been married for 10 years. Because I have always lived in a barracks in Guangzhou, and my lover has only had a visit to relatives for 4 years, I have not had a lot of opportunities to get along with my in -laws. I have always been close to each other. Each time I returned to my mother -in -law's house, the housework was greatly packaged by my mother -in -law, and I did not know how to intervene. When my family Zhang Luo meals, I can only symbolize the onion beside me and mash the garlic. Understanding the local dialects, I have to smile and accompany it ... More often, I am a person hiding in the room and reading books, trying to not join the mother -in -law's chat. Fortunately, there are lover to avoid many embarrassment.

In this case, let me bring a naughty "bear child" alone to live in my mother -in -law's house. However, my mother -in -law advised me on the phone that as a daughter -in -law, you must slowly integrate into your mother -in -law. I can only listen to her, and learn to slowly integrate into my in -laws in the bit of eating and wearing.

In those days, there were only four in -laws, sons, and me in the family. Breakfast mother -in -law, I occasionally "acting" for lunch and dinner, northeast dishes or Cantonese cuisine. The in -laws ate in their mouths, warmed in the stomach, and praised everyone: "The daughter -in -law in the city of my family is filial and diligent, and it is difficult to find Shili and Eight Village."

In fact, it is not my daughter -in -law difficult to find, but that I am fortunate to meet a good mother -in -law. At home, the father -in -law with high prestige, in order to make me less restrained, every meal is a bowl of stew to get a steamed, and I simply fill my stomach in the kitchen and walk out. In the evening, I was not used to bringing my son to sleep alone, and the father -in -law asked our mother and son to sleep with my mother -in -law, and he slept directly on the simple bed under the door. The main reason for the family because of the arrival of my daughter -in -law in my city turned into a "gatekeeper". The fragments of life made me remember so far, and my eyes were still wet, and my heart felt very warm.

In those days, the father -in -law did not go to the table for dinner. The son's meals were eaten quickly and went out to come out. Only I and my mother -in -law kept chewing slowly with the dining table. At this time, my mother -in -law will take the opportunity to talk to me about the triviality in the village, and talk about her sweet and bitterness of her "daughter -in -law" for many years. The old man is a wise woman. Among these parents, she integrated into the family training with the wind and drizzle.

My daughter -in -law from the military camps, in that summer vacation, was collected as a "student" by her mother -in -law who had never entered the school gate. Care and hard rice with hardcore. People regardless of young and old, and regardless of rural cities, only when they are full and drinking, can they work hard and study? " After home, you must drink a bowl of noodle soup to clear the stomach and stomach to ensure that you do not accumulate food. "" Children do not have to scold the discipline. As long as the parents accumulate morality and do good, they can cultivate their own children and grandchildren. " In my heart.

Not only did her mother -in -law not only "speak", but also always "taught" by action. Every morning, when my son and I were still asleep, she quietly got up to prepare breakfast. I rubbed my eyes and wanted to help the kitchen, but she insisted on pushing me back to the house to sleep for a while. She said she was used to making breakfast with her father -in -law.

As early as the spring of that year, my mother -in -law was calculated that the summer vacation of that year was our relatives. So she bought 40 chicken chicks early in the yard. When others buy chicken chicks, they can choose a hens. When they grow up, they can have eggs, but their mother -in -law picks up the rooster. When the neighbors asked, the mother -in -law took the opportunity to show loudly: "The son of the soldier of the soldier is going back in the summer vacation, the rooster's meat is thick and fresh!" In this way, the mother -in -law proudly imagined the happiness and happiness of the gathering.

When we arrive at home in the summer vacation, the chicken has grown to about 3 pounds. It is when the meat is tender and delicious, but my lover comes to hurriedly sip a chicken. When my mother -in -law regrets it, I can understand that this is "commonplace", and I have more heart to handle every meal at home with my son at home.

During that time, her mother -in -law would change her cooked chicken every morning, and she would definitely give her grandson bowl with two chicken legs. The child is very filial. Every time I remind me, I will divide the chicken legs to my grandma before eating. Later, her mother -in -law said, "The grandson who grew up in the army courtyard was sensible."

On the morning of our return journey, my mother -in -law slaughtered all the remaining eight chickens. She had a pot of chicken nuggets, and called the brothers and nephews who lived in the village to have a group meal. She also coded 16 chicken legs in the steel basin and placed it on the table. These chicken legs are yellow and oily like glaze, and the appearance is very tempting.

Before leaving, my mother -in -law put the chicken legs for the ancestors, all of which were put into my suitcase. I refused to cover my suitcase hard, but I didn't want to lead my mother -in -law's series: "Take it, how can I have the chickens in Guangzhou. Alas, it is not easy for you to marry your children. In the familiar troops, the in -law family can't care about you, the maid's family can't go back, and the man can't often be a helper. Also, the child who is a soldier is also bitter, and you have to eat and drink Lazar to sleep. I ca n’t take care of his father, and I ca n’t enjoy the love of me and his grandfather. If you look at me as a mother, I want to raise a few chickens to make up for a rare son to replenish my body. Just take the chicken leg back to the army to taste it. When he was young, he didn't eat enough chicken legs ... "Listening to his mother -in -law's voice tremblingly, I put the chicken legs in the suitcase with tears. Who said that her mother -in -law is "natural enemy"? At that moment, between my mother -in -law, it was obviously a relative who was difficult to divide. We all hold fireworks and treat our loved ones as part of our own life.

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Author | Kong Zhaofeng

Kong Zhaofeng, a retired employee of the Military Academy Library. I like to refine text in chai oil and salt, and I am good at writing poetry in daily trivial.

Anchor | Zhu Yong

Zhu Yong, who has explored vocal and language and art for many years, served as commentary and hosting on many radio and television stations.

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