Take your mother -in -law to teach
Author:Cangzhou today Time:2022.06.14
Wang Yanhui originally lived in Haixing County County. In order to take care of the sick mother -in -law, she received her mother -in -law to school and lived together in the dormitory.
This dormitory is only a dozen square meters in Banqiao Middle School in Zhanghui Township, Haixing County. Put two single beds, and you can only put a table in the aisle. Here, she has lived with her mother -in -law for more than 5 years.
Over the years, she has worked hard to teach and has never delayed the study of students. She explained the life of a ordinary teacher with professionalism and filial piety. She therefore Rong Deng's "China Good People List" in the first quarter of 2022.
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Wang Yanhui is the teacher of Banqiao Middle School in Zhanghui Township, Haixing County. He is 47 years old. Her mother -in -law Xing Jinhuan was 83 years old and was sick in bed all year round.
The room she lived with her mother -in -law was not large. Two single beds, a small table, oxygen maker, ventilator, etc. occupied most of the space inside the house.
Oxygen -making machines are constantly working, and the mask of the ventilator will only be removed when Xing Jinyuan eats and drinks water.
At the time of eating, Wang Yanhui helped her mother -in -law from the bed to prepare for dinner.
"My mother -in -law is not good now, so my family's vegetable base is cooked by water, soft and digestible, so that she can eat comfortably." Wang Yanhui said.
Xing Jinhuan was a bit difficult to take off the ventilator mask. Wang Yanhui found her a relatively comfortable posture and began to feed her to eat.
Looking at her mother -in -law chewing and swallowing, Wang Yanhui fed the second.
"If the mother -in -law does not need to have a ventilator, she will be a little bit angry. I feed her to eat, so that she can save her a little bit." Wang Yanhui said.
In order to alleviate the pain of the elderly, after consulting the doctor, the family was equipped with oxygen -making machine and ventilator. In order to prevent the unable to work in the oxygen controller, the home is also equipped with oxygen tanks.
Oxygen making machines need to work uninterrupted, and now it has been broken.
More than 20 years ago, Xing Jinhuan found a variety of chronic diseases such as pulmonary heart disease and hypertension. Due to dyspnea, he needed to be hospitalized four or five times a year for treatment. Every time the elderly are sick, Wang Yanhui and their families will be carefully served.
In the years of Xing Jinyuan's illness, Wang Yanhui and her husband rushed back to the county's home after get off work to take care of her.
Wang Yanhui said that in 2017, the father who had a tough body died suddenly, which brought a deep blow to the mother -in -law who was sick in bed all year round. The mother -in -law lived in the hospital's intensive care room.
After more than a month of treatment, the doctor snatched the old man from the hands of death. But after discharge, the old man's body was weaker, and he could not take care of people.
Wang Yanhui's husband Yang Lianqing worked in Banqiao School District, responsible for the academic affairs and safety of the entire school district, and busy with work. Wang Yanhui wanted to give students classes, and they couldn't return to the county to take care of the elderly during the day.
My mother -in -law has 5 daughters. Some of them are outside, some are not good, and they cannot take care of the elderly for a long time.
Considering these situations, Wang Yanhui discussed with his lover, submitted an application to the school, moved his home from the county to a rural school, and began the days when his mother -in -law went to work.
The school arranged a dormitory for her to take care of the Wang Yanhui family. The dormitory is not large, and he can only live in Wang Yanhui and her mother -in -law. Wang Yanhui's lover temporarily live with other teachers.
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"I have been married to my husband for 25 years, and I have never had a red face with my mother -in -law. I have my own magic weapon to" coax her "and" Shun "to her. The old man is not an old child, and it is filial piety." Wang Yanhui said.
Wang Yanhui taught two courses: morality and legal system and history in the school. Before going to class every day, worried that her mother -in -law would be bored, she would find Hebei Xunzi on her mobile phone and let her mother -in -law listen.
On the table, Wang Yanhui will put on the cube and abacus, and Xing Jinhuan can reach it. These "small toys" can make the elderly brain and do it, but also make her physical and mental pleasure.
Because he was sick in bed for a long time, Xing Jinhuan would inevitably be unhappy. Wang Yanhui enlightened her patiently. Wang Yanhui will give her one of her children's affairs and new things in the village, and sometimes she will deliberately tell a few small jokes to tease her happy.
Since moving to school, in order to take care of her mother -in -law, the two fell asleep in a house.
The dormitory is closer to the classroom. After the get out of class, Wang Yanhui returned to the dormitory quickly. See if your mother -in -law goes to the toilet. If her mother -in -law stood her pants, Wang Yanhui quickly replaced her.
After living in the same house, after dinner at night, Wang Yanhui will prepare lessons on the small table, and the mother -in -law lying on the bed will say something to her from time to time.
Watching the time is almost 8 o'clock, Wang Yanhui will stop his work, talk to her mother -in -law or play cards to relieve boredom. When the old man lay down, Wang Yanhui started to prepare lessons and prepare for the teaching tomorrow.
In the evening, Xing Jinhuan woke up with a ventilator mask and woke up almost an hour. Wang Yanhui had to get up to help the elderly pick up ventilator masks and drink water, and serve the elderly to urinate.
Over the years, Wang Yanhui has formed a habit, as long as the old man rolled over, she woke up. Because she stayed up late for a long time, she took off her hair a lot, her face and bags under her face were very serious, and she looked much older than her peers.
Several aunts will come to serve the elderly when they have time, but the old man is still used to Wang Yanhui beside him.
Xing Jinhuan said: "Whether it is eating, taking medicine, or living, Yan Hui knows that as long as she is by her side, I will be down -to -earth."
Xing Jinhuan has been hospitalized in the hospital for two or three months a year. It is often accompanied by a daughter of Wang Yanhui and the elderly.
Wang Yanhui is very careful when taking care of the elderly. When infusion, she will often ask the elderly if she is uncomfortable; when eating, she will ask her if she is delicious; when urinating, it always depends on whether there is a leak. Patients in the same room need help, and she also helped run before running. One night, Wang Yanhui brought a pot of warm water as usual to massage Xing Jinyuan's feet. The patient who had just entered the ward and said, "You see how filial you are, you can also wash your feet and massage."
Xing Jinhuan proudly said: "This is a daughter -in -law, not a daughter."
The patient gave a thumbs up and praised: "Your daughter -in -law is really intimate, you are really blessed!"
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What made Wang Yanhui unexpected was that when she took care of her mother -in -law, her father was also seriously ill.
In the summer of 2017, Wang Yanhui's father suddenly suffered from cerebral infarction, paralyzed in bed, and could not take care of himself.
Her father weighed nearly 95 kilograms, and her mother was difficult to take care of. Her brother and sister were not around, so Wang Yanhui took class during the day and took care of the mother -in -law on the bed. After get off work, when his lover returned home, he asked him to take care of the old man and hurried to his mother's house.
As soon as she arrived at her mother's house, she was busy massing for her father and rehabilitation training. When the weather was good, she and her mother worked together to carry her father on the wheelchair and pushed her out of fresh air outside.
Due to the long -term bed, her father's prostate had a problem, difficulty in urination, and after surgery of bladder fistula, she needed to change the ureter frequently.
In order to reduce the pain of his father to go to the hospital for ureter, Wang Yanhui deliberately asked the doctor to learn to change the ureter.
When taking care of his father, Wang Yanhui still remembered her mother -in -law. In the evening, she rushed back to school to take care of her mother -in -law.
Someone asked Wang Yanhui to be tired, and she always smiled and said. Wang Yanhui said that whenever she saw her father's expectation, she heard her mother -in -law tell her that "slower and earlier on the road" was full of strength, because she was the backbone of two families.
In 2020, Wang Yanhui's father died. Wang Yanhui was sad. She pressed her thoughts in her heart and took more careful care of her mother -in -law. What moved her was that every time she visited her mother, her mother urged her to return to school quickly, and her mother -in -law was still waiting for her.
"My mother is a particularly filial person and is very good for the elders. I have seen what she has done since she was a child." Wang Yanhui said that her mother was her role model.
Wang Yanhui's daughter also became a teacher last year. She was very sensible and filial. She helped wait for her grandmother and bought a delicious one for her grandma.
In the school, Wang Yanhui's filial piety and the elderly also subtly affect the students.
Over the years, Wang Yanhui not only picked the burden of the two families on his shoulders, but also worked hard for teaching. She has never delayed classes for her family due to her family burden. She treats students like her children. The students she taught loved to listen to learning and won the first prize of high -quality courses. She said: "I am a people's teacher. Teaching is my own post. I am a heavenly position for the elderly to honor the elderly.
Last year, Wang Yanhui was named "Cangzhou Good Man". This year, Wang Yanhui was selected as the "Time Newcomer · Hebei Good Man" list in January to February, and at the same time, he was listed in the "China Good Man List" in the first quarter of 2022.
(Correspondent Zhang Lanying reporter Li Xiaoxian photography report)
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