When the night is quiet, tell himself: Sorry!

Yi Shu said:

After all, a person can trust, but it is himself that he can tease him, and it is himself.

After years of years, I have seen sadness and joy, so I know many people and things in the world, but the eyes of the eyes.

Only you can accompany you to the end of time.

But too much, we are always not good enough to ourselves.

Either he aggrieved himself or treat himself at a loss for others.

Looking back at the way when he came, a person experienced too much and suffered too much. He never owed anyone, but owed himself alone.

When the night is quiet, I want to tell myself: I'm sorry!

Do you have such a time in life?

Obviously he had arrangements, but he couldn't hold the invitation of the people around him, and participated in the party entertainment illegally. He could not feel fun throughout the process, but he still had a smile on his face.

Obviously I am not full of time, but in the face of the request of others, the rejected words always can't open the mouth. I can only sacrifice the short rest and go to the request of others.

When there are too many times, they are worried about the feelings of the people around them, for fear of causing others to be unhappy, for fear of their words and deeds, causing others to dislike or even hate themselves.

As a result, he is always moving, forbearing, and grievances.

But do you know?

You are considerate everywhere, you may not be able to get the gratitude and sincerity of others.

I care too much about the feelings of others, but I am destined not to feel good.

You know, in this world, there are very few people who are really worth bending down and bowing their heads.

I have heard a word:

In the world, you may be just a person; but for someone, you are the world.

For your parents and loved ones, and everyone who loves you, you are the only one in this world.

If they know, how sad you should be for yourself for yourself?

You are the only protagonist in life, but others are just passengers. What you should care about most is your feelings and mood.

Saying "sorry" with himself, because he was sad for others and made himself wrong.

someone said:

The biggest regret in the world is not to lose, but when you have it, you do not cherish it.

Indeed, compared to the loss of loss, I can have the most sad and unforgettable.

We may always think that we are heroes with colorful clouds, but in the end, most of them have fallen into ordinary dust.

It is not the bumps of fate, nor the tricks of heaven, but not cherishing time.

I always think that the days are longer and the time is enough, so in the valuable Chinese year, I have been in the past and lived up to themselves.

When I looked back, I found out that those rushing time was like flowing water, and it was gone.

Just like the sentence in Tao Yuanming's writing:

The prosperous year does not come back, it is difficult to get in the morning for a day; encourage in time, and the years will not be treated.

It turns out that the time that was close at hand was the time we could never go back in our lives.

Waiting for it, it will make us live as the appearance of ourselves; letting it pass into a regret in memory.

There are also those who are scattered in the sea of ​​people, or those who are childhood, or their lovers, or the most bloody relatives.

I thought it would never be separated, but later discovered that all the gatherings were just a miracle of the years, and the world was separated everywhere.

How many people have scattered in the torrent of time, and they can't even say goodbye. If they are too late to see the last side, they will have each other.

We all owed ourselves sorry, because there were too many things, and when we had time, we couldn't cherish it attentively. It was not until we lost that I could regret it. We could only watch those tentacles and transformed into distant past.

A while ago, I saw a tearful news.

A 27 -year -old indoor designer in Shenzhen has stayed up late for several months in order to spend his performance.

Then, dizziness, weakness, and short tinnitus appeared.

I thought that it was just a bad rest, and it could recover for a while.

However, after the hospital, the doctor asked him to surgery immediately, because according to the test results, he was suffering from the hearing nerve tumor.

The only way is to remove it through surgical, but the brain nerves can be densely distributed, and accidents will occur during surgery. Even if the surgery is completed, sequelae such as facial paralysis may occur.

In the comment area, there is a message that is most concerned about:

If there is no burden on the body, who will bet on life tomorrow.

This young designer brother, why isn't it like you and me who work hard for life?

If it wasn't for the crushing silver, who would like to push a cup with others on the wine table, and who would like to enter the dream when he entered the dream hometown?

The world of adults is really difficult. Parents' pensions, children's education, car loan mortgage, and illness accidents. There is almost nothing to get around.

So many times, in order to make money at work, I always think about doing more, and it doesn't matter if you are tired.

But ignoring the body is the biggest capital, less healthy, no matter how much things outside the body, it doesn't make sense.

The old saying is good:

Leave the five lakes and the moon, and don't worry about gold hooks.

Having a healthy body is the prerequisite for having all happiness.

I'm sorry to myself, because I couldn't take care of my body before, and treated myself.

There is a praise on the Internet:

The reason why you are unhappy is because you don't love yourself enough, so you often consume yourself for some people and things that are not worth it. If you think about it, it seems that this is really the case.

Or for some trivial things, it breaks my good mood for a day;

Or for the sake of a final game, they are worried and hurt;

Or if someone else wrote and figured it out repeatedly, letting emotions fall into a downturn.

Because I do n’t love myself enough, I am willing to worry and annoyed for those who do n’t need to be unrelated.

But the mouth is others, but the heart is his own.

We can never decide on others, and what we can do is to manage our hearts.

I agree with a classic line in "My First Half Life":

Anything in this world has another way out: that is to go with it.

People who can't keep it better than give up chic; things that can't be changed, instead of concern.

Good things and bad things will become stories. There are no people and things. It is worth you to torture yourself.

Hug yourself, say sorry, life is not easy, please don't make yourself sad.

I like a word very much:

Life sea, mountains and rivers, but Err.

In this life, I have met many people and experienced many things, but the final destination is yourself.

Thorns of those life only rely on you to flatten; the waves of fate only rely on you to resist.

At any time, only yourself can be redeemed from the abyss of suffering.

You don't owe anyone, just owe yourself a happy look.

For the rest of your life, please treat yourself as the first priority in life. Don't be embarrassed and reluctant for anyone.

Take care of your body and mood, cherish the time.

No matter how busy the days are, don't forget to do yourself, and give yourself the best reward within your ability.

Please believe that you are enough to love yourself and match everything in this world.

Light [watching], I hope you live as your own harbor, can cover the wind and rain for yourself, support yourself, and live a poisonous and free smile in this world.

Author | Su Yan, want to cure the desolation in your heart in words.

Picture | Visual China

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