Night Reading | 7 bad mentality that affects happiness, have you recruited?

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Author: Cheng Zhidan

Edit: Liu Qian

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1

Over -comparison

Comparison is the common sense of people. Proper comparison can stimulate the inner strength, thereby bringing a good cycle.

Excessive comparison will make people blind, just stare at others, ignore their own own, and will not experience the happiness they have.

Everything only compares for comparison. When you think that the more you have, the happier it will be, but ignoring the real happiness is not how much you have, but you know how to cherish and just right.

Everyone has their own efforts and flowering periods. You don't have to use others as a reference, and live with yourself every day.

Always remember: a person who puts his eyes on others cannot live his own life and realize his happiness.

02

Faith

Belief is the foundation of a person who lives in the world. What kind of person wants to do, what kind of life and what kind of achievements to create, all need belief guidance and support.

And a person who is swaying in faith will ride, hesitant, loses himself because of a little change and comments from the outside world.

How can such people really listen to their own hearts and feel happiness.

Only by adhering to your own principles can you grasp your happiness!

03

Ignore the beautiful things around you

We often make a mistake, a little blessing to the tentacles around us, and running to pursue some nihilistic beauty.

If you really ask what is beautiful, it is often something described as something you have experienced.

Therefore, beauty is actually buried in daily life. As long as we take care of and feel attentively, we will find that we are in the happiness.

"And a person who doesn't know how to appreciate, no matter how many individuals have, may not be happy. Because what really determines whether we are happy or not is the personal standards and mentality of life."

04

I just want to get it and don’t want to pay

Doing anything is gained by one point.

Sometimes, the harvest we want will not appear in the way we want, but the process of giving is full and hopeful. How can this be a kind of happiness?

Sometimes this trip in life is to care about the scenery along the way and the mood of watching the scenery.

Don't want to take shortcuts, it will make people enjoy short -term happiness and fall into larger abyss.

05

Not satisfied

Contentive Changle is the truth that the elders teach us, but when you really grow up, you will find:

If you want to fill it out, the more you have, the more you want, and the more people want to move forward blindly in this chasing, losing their spare time and ability to taste happiness.

There is a saying: The so -called happy person is a person who is satisfied in his life; and the so -called unfortunate people only remember the opposite content.

6

lack of trust

"Only one person in the world hinders your growth, that is yourself."

A person who lacks trust does not believe and relieve himself, no matter whether he is or to be at ease, he will naturally pass through the tangles and doubts all day.

07

Easy anxiety

Anxiety refers to an unpleasant complex emotional state of tension, uneasiness, and troubles that may cause danger or threats that may cause.

But in fact, there are almost no or extremely small probability events in danger or threats in life, but the whole person is lost and peaceful and peaceful due to unnecessary concerns. How can he grasp the stable happiness!

Sometimes, he is in happiness, but runs away from happiness because of bad habits.

It is better to try all personnel, listen to the destiny, adjust the mentality, develop good habits, accept the imperfect life, and live every day of a good life.

Finally, share such a paragraph:

People must be the master of the soul, to perceive their psychological activities, and be able to close or open the door of the soul at any time.

There is no doubt that those who let the mood and cannot control their psychological directions are not their own masters. They cannot grasp their happiness!

Author: Cheng Zhidan, the attending physician of obstetrics and gynecology, wants to use words to cheer the dreamer for life! You have a story, I have a story, welcome you, WeChat: TT150410love. Public public account: Tree's hope (CZD841519); Weibo@你 你.

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