What is the technique of controlling people?See how Liu Bang's supporting assistant Chen Ping did it, one by one relaxation

There are many people in Liu Bang's Deli Group, such as Chief of Staff Xiao He, General Cao Shen, Wizard Zhang Liang. Among them, Chen Ping may not be the most prominent person, but it is definitely a very intelligent person. A person of people.

How did Chen Ping climb up?

When Chen Ping was young, his family was poor, and he could not marry his daughter -in -law. The rich people were unwilling to assign his daughter to him. The poor Chen Ping looked down on. How to do it? Chen Ping found an opportunity.

There is often a mourning thing in the township. It is about the poor of Chen Ping's family. It often helps in the past. It is estimated that it can get some benefits from it. However, when Chen Ping was working hard, he was very hard, and he always went to the earliest and returned at the earliest.

His move was noticed by a rich man. The rich man named Zhang Lang. He had a granddaughter who had married five husbands. As a result, the five husbands died. The villagers felt that she was obscure and no one dared to marry her again.

Zhang Lang felt that the young man was good, so he secretly went to the house with him and found that Chen Ping's family was very poor, but he had exchanges with many officials and nobles, so he thought about it to marry his granddaughter to Chen Ping.

This shows that although Chen Ping is very poor, he is very ability at a young age, and he knows how to find opportunities for himself.

Why do you go to do a funeral occasion to help? Because of this large occasion, many people who have status and status in many villages will often come to the opportunity.

Sure enough, Chen Ping’s efforts were appreciated by a rich man. Although his granddaughter had married five times and died five times her husband, these are not important. What is important is that people like Chen Ping need steps to go to steps to go to the steps to go to the way Climbing. Chen Ping found it.

This rich man not only funded Chen Ping's money, but also tried his best to create a stage for him. Soon after, Chen Ping's communication became wider and wider.

How does Chen Ping get the trust of Liu Bang?

Later, Chen Xun's uprising and stood Wei Mei as King Wei. Chen Ping took a group of young people to him to go to him. People ignored it, and Chen Ping switched to Xiang Yu again. Xiang Yu rewarded Chen Pingjue and named him as a letter.

Later, Yin Wang Sima betrayed Xiang Yu. Xiang Yu asked Chen Ping to bring the original Wei Qi's troops to the ground. Chen Ping defeated the king of Yin and returned after surrender. As a result, it was not long before Chen Ping got it for a long time, and Liu Bang took people to attack this place.

After Xiang Yu knew about this, he was angry and said that he was going to kill these rebellion generals. Chen Ping was afraid that he was implicated and fled overnight. Before leaving, he also packed Xiang Yu to his gold, seal and other packages to send someone to Xiang Yu, and he only took a sword with him.

When Chen Ping ran to the Yellow River, he wanted to cross the boat. Who knew that a fisherman hit his idea. The boatman saw that he was extra dressed. Unlike an ordinary person, he must be a running general. Want to search for the treasures on him.

Chen Ping saw the thoughts of the boatman, thought about it, unbuttoned his clothes, and he helped him to support him like a boatman. The boatman saw the person's red stubbornness. I didn't care about him. Chen Ping escaped.

Although this is a trivial matter, it can be seen that Chen Ping is a very clever person. He knows what he wants. He was a deserter and ran out of Xiang Yu's army. If he was obsessed with the money and was insisting on bringing them on, there may be many rights and wrongs.

Later, Chen Ping came to Liu Bang's army. Liu Bang was very polite to Chen Ping. He probably knew that Chen Ping came from Xiang Yu's tribe. Talent, the comer does not refuse. Liu Bang asked Chen Ping where did you originally do, Chen Ping said that I was the captain.

Liu Bang said, okay, then give you all captains. Seeing Liu Bang's approach, a number of generals around him were stunned. A person who escaped from Xiang Yu's army was unclear, and Liu Bang gave him a captain? Why? Everyone was very dissatisfied, always saying bad things about Chen Ping in front of Liu Bang.

However, this incident may have a lot of touch on Chen Ping. Chen Ping has always wanted to find a sage, to find Wei, and people ignore him, find Xiang Yu, and Xiang Yu is unwilling to reuse him. Moreover, Xiang Yu is suspicious of his heart. Brothers may be a relative and others, he values ​​it, but he is not very eye -catching to others.

Chen Ping saw this, so when he met Liu Bang, when Liu Bang was willing to give him an official position and was willing to fight with him, Chen Ping's heart was touched.

Liu Bang actually asked Chen Ping, you see, I do this, everyone has opinions, how can you convince me and let me trust you?

Chen Ping said in 151. He told Liu Bang to come alone, asking for money without money, a terrible one. If the strategies I said are useful, you will adopt it and appreciate my money.

Chen Ping's frankness has been trusted by Liu Bang, and it turns out that the two have been cooperating in the future.

Where is Chen Ping's technique of controlling people?

When Liu Bang struggled with Xiang Yu, the Chu army besieged the Han army in Puyang City. Liu Bang couldn't break through. After a long time, Liu Bang was anxious and wanted to cut the land west of Puyang to Xiang Yu. Xiang Yu ignored it. Liu Bang was very distressed and asked Chen Ping if he didn't know what to do.

Chen Ping told Liu Bang that although Xiang Yu was talking about rituals and loved soldiers, everyone was willing to mix with him, but when he really distributed interests, he was not generous and could not help but disappoint. Although you look rude, when you are really at a critical moment, you are willing to punish the credit to others, so in the end everyone is willing to follow you. The people who can really be out of words around Xiang Yu are nothing more than the sub -father, Zhong Lizhen, Long, and other people. As long as they use the separation, let their monarchs suspect each other, and Xiang Yu's entire group will soon collapse. After hearing it, Liu Bang nodded, well, good, good, enjoying 40,000 pounds of gold, you would do it, and the money did not ask the source.

When Chen Ping saw the people, he was very accurate. When it comes to Liu Bang's heart, Liu Bang was willing to bet on him.

Sure enough, in the end, Chen Ping used the separation plan, which made Xiang Yu doubt about the father's heart. The father was very angry, scolded Xiang Yu, you can watch it, the world was taken away by others sooner or later. On the road.

For six years in Han Gaozu, one day, someone came to reveal that Han Xin wanted to rebel? What? Liu Bang was almost jumped from the chair.

How to do?

Everyone said that we took his troops to bring him a nest. Liu Bang thought about it and wanted to hold back the anger. He still felt that it was better to ask Chen Ping first.

Chen Ping asked Liu Bang, who else knows that the person who was reported to the book? Liu Bang said no. Chen Ping asked, did Han Xin know? Liu Bang said he didn't know. Chen Ping asked again, then who is compared with the Chu army of his Majesty? Liu Bang couldn't compare. Chen Ping asked again, so who is the soldier and horse of His Majesty and Han Xin? Liu Bang said it wouldn't work.

Chen Ping said to say it? Do you think you have a chance to win him now? Liu Bang also made trouble and asked Chen Ping what to do now?

Chen Ping had a trick again. He told Liu Bang that you pretended to be the ancient emperor, and immediately went to the south to patrol. Meet with the princes in Chenxian County. After knowing this, you will definitely come. At that time, you do it again, because he is not prepared, thinking that he really meets, you only need to take a guard with you enough to catch him.

In the end, Liu Bangzhao Chen Ping did it. Han Xin believed that he respectfully waited for Liu Bang in the place in the countryside of Chen County. After seeing Han Xin, Liu Bang hurriedly called the people around him to tie him up.

Chen Ping's trick is really clever, and he will uniform a general general without spending a car and a horse.

Chen Ping also speaks very well. Liu Bang wants to reward Chen Ping and give him a letter, which means that he wants the Chen family for generations to continue from generation to generation.

Chen Ping immediately resigned, no, this is not my credit. Liu Bang also said, don't be humble, it is indeed I have adopted your strategy and won several risks. Isn't this your credit? Chen Ping resigned again, because Han ignorantly introduced the minister, so that I had today. Liu Bang was glad to say that Mr. really did not forget his book. In the end, Liu Bang also rewarded Wei Wuzhi.

Liu Bang fought with the Huns and attacked Chen Yin, Yingbu and others, all used Chen Ping's wonderful plan, and finally won. It can be seen that Chen Ping is really a bit ability.

Later, Liu Bang died, and Lu Hou controlled the power of the DPRK. After the death of the country, Lu Hou promoted Wang Ling as the right prime minister, Chen Ping was the prime minister. She wanted to promote the Lu family and registered her two brothers as Wang. Lu Hou asked Wang Ling to do it. No, Lu Hou asked Chen Ping again, Chen Ping said. Lu Hou is very satisfied.

However, Lu Hou's performance of Wang Ling was very angry, and changed his official position to the emperor, which means that he would not reuse him. Wang Ling finally became angry and became angry, and he did not go to the dynasty, and later died.

Chen Ping's position was retained, but Lu Hou's sister Lu Yan often said bad things about Chen Ping in front of Lu Hou, saying that he drank alcohol all day and joined the good family. Chen Ping knew this, but his behavior was even more mad. Lu Hou was very happy after hearing it, but trusted Chen Ping.

These practices of Chen Ping made Lu Hou mistakenly thought that this person was not above the court, so he would not pose a threat to his regime.

However, after Lu Hou's death, Chen Ping and Zhou Bo and others immediately planned to remove the Lu family and restore Liu's orthodox status.

You want to say that Chen Ping's down to Ge Lu also said that he did it. He did do this, but think about it again. At the time, Lu Hou said that Chen Ping blinded the hard bar. What are the benefits? With Lu Hou's personality, maybe he will not be guaranteed immediately.

Rather than fighting, it is better to leave Aoyama without fear of burning firewood. Chen Ping is really a master of playing with people.

Later, Emperor Xiaowen was in his top, because Zhou Bo killed Zhu Lu with his merits, divided him as the right prime minister, Chen Ping was the left prime minister, ranked second, Chen Ping did not fight and retreated silently, but said that he could not work as well as Zhou Bo. , Make Zhou Bo earn the scenery.

Once, Emperor Xiaowen asked, how many cases of the one -year judgment in the country? How much is the one -year money revenue and expenditure? Zhou Bozhion couldn't say it for a long time. Emperor Xiaowen asked Chen Ping and did not expect Chen Ping to answer.

This time, Zhou Bo's face could not be hung up. After the dynasty, Zhou Bo blamed Chen Ping why did he remind me in private? Chen Ping laughed. This is your responsibility. Don't you know? Later, Zhou Bo felt that he was embarrassed to go on, so he retreated. For a long time, when Emperor Xiaowen was in the throne, Chen Ping was made by Chen Ping.

Chen Ping has a great characteristic, there is the ability and strategy, but he can make the leader feel very comfortable to get along with, without sense of oppression, and it seems to have nothing to fight. In fact Clearly. In fact, with his ability, he had already seen the situation at the time clearly, but he would not say it easily, but he would only wait for the right time to adopt a reasonable method.

Can people like Chen Ping commonly known as Wanjin Oil, can leaders don't like it? At the critical moment, the chain is never dropped, but it is not good for great achievements, and they will not be proud of themselves. They often retreat, but can be reused by leaders.

"Tao Te Ching" said,

"The desire will be solidified; the desire is weak, it must be strong; the desire will be abolished, it will be solidified;

Originally I wanted to conquer you, but let you expand itself first. I wanted to weaken you, but I wanted to make you feel like supporting you and supporting you. I wanted to abolish you, but it seemed to be consolidating your position. Originally I wanted to replace you, but I gave you the benefits first and let you relax the alert.

People who can use these rules are a person who sees the world and is extremely profound.

Isn't it just like Chen Ping!

There is another sentence in Han Feizi's "Speaking of Difficulties",

"Fu Longzhi is a worm, and it is also ride by softly; however, there are inverse scales under the throat, and those who have babies will kill people. The owner also has inverse scales. Reverse scales, then a few times. "

When a dragon is tamed by you and becomes docile, you can also ride it on his neck like a worm. But no matter how docile people are, there will be scales under the dragon's throat. If you touch it, it will instantly jump like a thunder, so the dragon is like a person. He is also alert to the place where he is touched.

Therefore, getting along with the leader must master a scale, not too close or too far. Do not make people feel oppressive, but at a critical moment you have to have the real ability, and there must be a way to deal with the problem, then your next thing is to let it go.

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