Yingze Night Reading 丨 Adults' friendship: Only screening does not change, but only accepts that it is not strong

Famous Gallery ｜ Lou Shibai, a native of Liuyang, Hunan, specializing in painting, simple painting and vitality.

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Getting older, more and more understanding, not everyone is suitable for friends.

The vast crowd of people, some people are together, are lucky; they are not accompanied, and they are not strong. We only cherish the person who can walk with ourselves.

The friendship of adults has always been screened and does not change, but only accepts not forced demands.

I have seen a word: "The fading of all emotions is because the frequency is different."

Those who are not consistent in the three views are difficult to recognize each other. People with inconsistent pace are difficult to accompany the side side by side.

It is always difficult to recognize each other with people of different frequencies.

He can't understand what your heart is; his anger and sorrow, you can't feel the same.

The rhythm of the two people is never on a channel.

Not only can ideas cannot be synchronized, things cannot be the same frequency, but the rhythm cannot be consistent.

In the end, this relationship will only make each other more and more tired and dripping away.

Famous Gallery ｜ Lou Shibai

Everyone's life is different. Everyone has the right to choose their own lives, not everyone is consistent.

The best way to maintain a relationship is: respect each other and accept each other.

Learn to respect the ideas of others, accept the differences between others, and let go of changing the obsession of others.

I heard a word and said, "One of the hardest things in this world is to install your own thoughts into someone else's head."

The saddest thing in life is always looking forward to changing others and living according to their own wishes.

But in fact, everyone has their own lifestyle, and there is no need to follow the wave.

Following the effort will not only destroy friendship, but also hurt people's hearts.

Instead of trying to change others, it is better to follow the same existence, which is the most comfortable mode of getting along.

Famous Gallery ｜ Lou Shibai

There is a question on the Internet: Why are adults become more and more difficult to make friends?

A high praise replied: "Because no one will be wronged at this age, and accept those friends who can not make deep friends at a glance."

The more mature people, the more cautious when choosing a friend. Whenever the relationship that needs to be forced, they will choose to stay away.

In this life, he must follow his heart in order to live the most comfortable.

There is no need to force people to get along with people. If a relationship makes you very tired, you don't need to maintain it barely. If you can't get along with each other, you will go your own way.

The friendship of adults comes together.

Some people say, "We do not want to satisfy everyone throughout our lives, but to find the person who resonates the same frequency as ourselves."

Being with people with the same frequency resonance, getting along with each other, and the heart. With the people who fits the three views, they have a long time and a happy mood.

Finding the same frequency, as if the soul has a destination, no longer lonely.

Real friendship is like -mindedness, not forced integration.

In a limited life, I hope we can all find friends who are in the same frequency as ourselves.

I have survived the suffering in life and enjoy the sweetness in life together.

May you have your wonderful life in the future life, and I have my beauty.

▌ Source: Xinhua News Agency

School pair: Zhao Yanzhu Lanjie

Review: Yuan Yanfang

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