A doctor's self -reported screen: "I dare not save that child without authorization, because his parents ..."

Some time ago, a post of over ten million views made people sigh.

A doctor exposed himself, and one day he was traveling on a train.

On the hard sleeper, the two bear children ran crazy and the flight attendants stopped.

The child's parents' attitude towards the flight attendant is very unfriendly.

Obviously the flight attendant was for the sake of the child's safety, but they felt that their children were criticized and aggrieved.

It didn't take long for the two bear children to happen.

When a child climbed to the upper shop, he suddenly encountered the train shaking, fell down to the railing of the middle shop, then fell to the small table on the lower shop, and then fell heavily on the ground.

The other child may be scared, and it fell off the ladder climbing up and down.

Fortunately, the person sitting on the folding chair next to the aisle was picked up.

The parents of the two children were panicked, looking for the flight attendants to send a broadcast, and wanted to see if there were medical staff among the passengers.

The doctor was sitting in the lower shop at the time, but he did not choose to save people.

Watching the head of the train call, the family got out of the car at the next stop.

After the doctor shared this experience with his own ideas, his choice won the support of many netizens.

"I dare not save that bear child,

Because of his parents "

For doctors, he did not dare to save the bear child when he saw the parents of the bear child.

On the one hand, the risk is too great.

When encountering such parents, everyone is afraid of causing trouble.

The law will not protect his treatment in a non -medical environment.

The child is the medium -to -severe brain damage and the respiratory tract obstruction. Once the rescue is not successful, this pair of parents is likely to make him lose his family and even burial his career.

On the other hand, he had an emergency at night to rescue a 3 and a half -year -old child who swallowed a foreign body.

Children have difficulty breathing, in a half shock state, and have no autonomy.

At that time, the situation was urgent, and he successfully rescued the child with an inverted hug, letting the child spit out the glass ball.

The child turned in danger. He was still happy for this. Unexpectedly, he soon spread out.

The child's stomach pain in the middle of the night, the parents said that he was too hard during the first aid, and the child was treated ...

As a result, after the inspection, it was found that there was no problem with the child.

Doctors and parents explained that it is normal to squeeze the emergency method to surround the emergency method. It is normal for the child to feel uncomfortable. It is good to rest for a few days.

But the parents just didn't listen and blocked him in the office for a whole day.

Director of the subject arranged for parents for free hospitalization and inspection.

In the end, the doctor lost 20,000 yuan.

And the doctor also received the support of many netizens for the choice made by these two aspects:

"In the face of such a parent, I dare not put my hands without authorization, so as not to get in trouble for a while."

"Bear children's behavior, parents should bear full responsibility."

Indeed, whether it is the parents of the two children on the train, or the parent who rescued the doctor who was rescued, they all made a mistake:

I always think that I am protecting children, loving children, for the sake of children, as everyone knows, so that people who really help children have pushed the opposite of themselves and children.

So sometimes, even if you need help, others dare not help it, because the result is likely to be "unsuccessful, and you should be responsible."

Children

Instead

I can understand the shortness of protection and love of my parents, and I can't see people other than myself say their children.

Even if others are discerning, they are accused and criticized in their parents' hearing, and they are "bullying my children."

Once you question, they will still feel:

"They are children, what do you compare with children, what do you do with children?"

Although the child is small, his parents are adults.

Spencer said in the book "Family Education":

"Parents' irresponsible resignation has strengthened the child to strengthen the child in the subtle way: Children, you are right."

In the long run, children will break through the disaster and do not know themselves, and eventually cause a big disaster.

Remember the case of the mother Tan Songyun's mother being hit?

The parents of the perpetrator Ma Minghong were such a pair of parents who caused their children to be in trouble.

The son's drunk driving caused three injuries to death. Their first reaction was not to apologize, but was anxious to clarify the relationship.

There was no appear at the funeral, and no wreath was sent away.

The family members of the victims asked them to negotiate, and they refused to pay for the medical expenses of a penny, and even whispered.

The most angry thing is that the son was killed, but he blame the victim to let his son spend the Spring Festival in prison.

Your mother just loses life, but my son has to spend the Spring Festival in prison!

With such a parent, no wonder the son would drink such a tragedy, and it is no wonder that his son would go to court, and he still looked like a hanging.

Everywhere, arrogant and arrogant, I didn't realize how much harm to others had.

I have read such a sentence: "Children who have no right and wrong are the most terrible creatures on the planet."

Parents who do not have an educational concept are more terrible creatures behind them.

Parents' education for children is not available.

Only when parents pay attention to the education of their children, can they truly love their children and truly protect their children.

Parents' correct education

Is it true to love children

Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said:

"There must be a painful component in education. This is self -evident. After all, children are not adults. Children must discipline and must punish them. He must know that education is not just happy." He has seen such a news.

The 7 -year -old son played at home after school and poured a bottle of ink from the balcony. The neighbors downstairs were all suffered.

Afterwards, the little boy's mother took him to apologize for the first time; and took home the clothes stained by ink and let the son wash it together.

The child's father found the professionals, cleaned up the ink outside the building, and let the son stand downstairs and watch the whole process.

This provides a good demonstration for the behavior of parents.

If a child has a problem, it is actually a problem with the education of parents.

You do n’t want to educate, do n’t know how to educate now, and neglect education. In the future, children will be educated severely. At that time, they can only taste bitter fruit.

Just like Professor Li Meijin said in the "round table":

"In the process of people's growth, there must be some things in addition to love. In addition to love, there must be awe. If the child is illegal, punishment is actually a kind of protection, so that he knows that he is afraid, regrets, and never dare again. It really made him dare to protect him. "

Parents must not be disciplined for their children. Let their children know right and wrong, and to know right or wrong.

Only when punishment can make children sober, as parents, children's guardians, and the first teacher of children, we must not be soft -hearted. Whether we teach or penalties, we will really harm the child.

Only by letting the child know and keep the rules can children really grow.

Moreover, no one will take the initiative to tell you that your child is not educating, and no one will educate your children for you.

Only if you are willing to admit that your child is "problematic" and corrected in time, the child will not take detours.

Therefore, the younger the child, the more you need to take the early tube.

There is a saying in "The Courage of Discipline": "Educate children, he must manage it when he was a kid, and gives him wings when he grows up."

On the road of children's education, parents have to be a person who is so hard.

Only in this way, the child's life will go more and more smoothly.

Clicking on "watching", I hope that each parent can really escort the growth of their children.

Author: CUSH, the source of this article (ID: SDIKID), professional and practical childcare dry goods, before bedtime, parent -child reading, beautiful mother improvement, selected good things. Ten o'clock, care about children, and more care about mother.

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