Why can't you help sending a circle of friends?

As WeChat users are increasing, the frequency of sending friends in friends is also rising. If you are a person who often loves to send a circle of friends, it may indicate that you may be a person who is strong.

Freud once said: People are trying to pursue happiness, want to get happiness and maintain happiness. And people's efforts are mainly to deal with two things, one is to actively pursue a strong sense of pleasure, and the other is to avoid too pleasant or painful things.

So why can't you help sending a circle of friends?

1. Record a good life with a circle of friends

Most people are to record little things in life, and a little happiness can make us happy.

Therefore, when many people feel unfair life and pain, they will also choose to send a circle of friends. Seeing various comments from friends, a little happiness comes.

Jialu is such a little girl who loves a circle of friends. In her opinion, sharing food or good -looking selfies and things that are happy and unhappy today are in the circle of friends. Seeing friends' praise of her beauty photos The soothing of emotions has a lot of happiness in my heart.

Most people should think about Karu. There are also such people who want to show their hobbies by sending friends in a circle of friends, and hope to meet friends who are like themselves.

For example, Xiaoya posted a photo of her circle of friends today. She wanted her friends around her to know that she liked this star.

Her classmate Fang Fang also particularly likes this star. When she saw Xiaoya's circle of friends, the first reaction was surprise, so she started to comment below. The two people opened the topic in this way and started chatting. Come better.

Therefore, sometimes the circle of friends also has a good use of promoting communication between people.

2. The way to spread your own needs

As a group of sends, no one returns compared to the embarrassment of notification directly in the group.

I believe everyone has more or less experience. For example, please help you vote in your classmates. No one asked. Collecting everyone's ideas or life pictures to do group works. The news was put there for a long time and no one responded, which caused a embarrassing situation to itself.

After two days, you did n’t get a response, you want to withdraw crazy, but you ca n’t withdraw it. You can only put it there.

Wu Hao has experienced this kind of experience. As the squad leader in the class, he will forward a lot of news notifications to the class every day. Over time, some students directly block the class group.

When Wu Hao needs to vote for the classmates to participate in the competition, when he is sending to the class group, some students think that the school notice does not care because of blocking the class group, and no one responds.

Wu Hao felt particularly embarrassing, so he chose to send all his needs to send all his needs to see his classmates and friends see it. Whether they see or not, they will not fall into that embarrassing situation, and the friends they see will help themselves more or less.

3. Indirect expressions of their emotions

Because I am lonely, no one chats, I want to make my friends a sense of existence through the circle of friends.

We have a lot of things that we can't figure out in adolescence. These problems make us suffering from pain, so sending a circle of friends to vent their emotions has become a good way. In this way, we hope that our unhappiness can be known.

When I saw my friends commented below and asked about what happened, the unhappiness in my heart gradually disappeared, and I began to share my thoughts with my friends.

Compared to directing with friends, we still want to find them by ourselves.

Two different ways to discover, but the impact on us is also very different. The way to send a circle of friends can deeply feel the care of friends and help to enhance friendship.

Do not meet many old students and friends often. Usually, everyone is busy living with their own lives and will not suddenly talk about each other. But they can see their dynamics every day, and learn about the changes in their lives. By the way, you chat in the comment area.

If Tianya is neighboring, you will no longer worry about the sudden disappearance of your old friends in your life, and you can't know everything about him. It's also very good. I like to open a circle of friends to see various types of dynamics, see colorful and diverse people, and enter the hot world. I hope that we have good days in our lives, confidant and scenery.

Therefore, the circle of friends is because you see a beautiful scene, you want to share, you see bad things, you want to attack everyone to know.

If you want your thoughts, others can feel the same, to perfectly express your needs and not fall into an embarrassing situation. It is a mechanism you want to pursue happiness or avoid pain.

The purpose is to make your brain taste the sweetness of your friends like comments.

So, what is the above?

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