Children's mobile phones do not leave their hands?This lecture supports parents on the spot

How to judge children's mobile phone dependence? How to train children to use their mobile phones reasonably? ... Zhou Mengdie, a teacher of the Department of Administrative Management of the School of Public Management of Jiangsu University of Public Management, walked into the Sanyuhe Community of the Sanyuhe Community of Gulou District, Gulou District, Nanjing to support parents on the spot.

Pictured at the lecture site

Learn to judge whether your child is dependent on mobile phones

Is the child "hugging" the mobile phone all day, is it addicted to the mobile phone? At the event, Professor Zhou Mengdie's parents could judge whether the child had mobile phone dependence from four aspects.

First of all, whether there is communication dependence, such as whether interpersonal communication is mainly through WeChat, QQ, etc. Secondly, whether there is reading dependence, whether the child's reading is mainly performed through the mobile phone. In addition, whether there is entertainment dependencies, and assignment dependence, such as doing homework, do not want to think, mainly complete the operation through mobile phone query.

There is a difference between mobile phone management at different ages

At the lecture site, Zhou Mengdie also reminded parents that children are different in age and the requirements for mobile phone management are also different.

Before the child is 3 years old, parents try not to let their children contact their mobile phones, and they are better not to play mobile phones in front of their children. When the child is 3-6 years old, try not to contact mobile games as much as possible. Parents must actively cultivate their children's reading habits and accompany their children to participate in outdoor activities. When a child encounters a mobile phone problem during the age of 7-12, parents should not be strongly suppressed and can negotiate with the child to agree on the duration and number of mobile phones every day or week. For children over 12 years old, parents should guide their children to make reasonable use of their mobile phones and give play to the positive effects of their mobile phones through appropriate intervention.

The rules cannot only be used to "control" children

At the event site, Zhou Mengdie particularly reminded parents that no matter what kind of mobile phone use rules were formulated with their children, all family members should be complied with, otherwise the child will be disgusted and conflicted.

What if the child does not follow the rules? Zhou Mengdie said that this is normal. Parents must be able to accept. Children are not gods, and they can do it immediately if they have rules. Parents must be considerate when communicating with their children, but they must strengthen their punishment and encourage children "I believe you will do better tomorrow."

Co -construction units help community development

Liang Xueyin, secretary of the Sanyuhe Community, told reporters that when dealing with residents daily, many young parents will be distressed because their children use their mobile phones unsatisfactory. The way to guide children to use their mobile phones correctly.

It is reported that this lecture is also one of the co -construction results of the Sanyuhe Community and Jiangsu Open University. Liang Xueyin said that since the community and Jiangsu Open University last year, many teachers from Jiangsu Open University have entered the community and brought various wonderful courses to residents. Correspondent Zheng Zhiguo Yangzi Evening News/Zi Niu Journalist Xue Ling

Edit: Qin Xiaoyi

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