"You seem to haven’t sent a circle of friends for a long time."

"I feel that everyone has made less and less developments in the past six months."

I thought about it, it was true.

To be precise, in the past two or three years, the expression of the people around him seems to have gradually faded.

In other words, in everyone's life, the glittering mood that will appear frequently in the past is slowly decreasing.

I remember a few years ago, a classmate shared that he picked up a turtle in the river in the circle of friends.

It turned out that the turtle would not eat anything, and worried that it would starve to death and returned to the river to release the whole process.

During that time, everyone watched her circle of friends, and she was chasing more. Every day, someone cared about the turtle "Did you eat today."

I still remember that when there was no epidemic, when everyone could travel everywhere, some people often shared where they encountered Crush.

Now, there seems to be such a momentary momentum in everyone's life.

Things that originally made our hearts seemed to be invalid.

It seems that if life always maintains stable order and is not frequently disturbed, we are already satisfied.

On July 2nd, Henan Kaifeng suddenly rained, and passers -by hurriedly hid the rain, but a man who ate on the open -air stall continued to eat and drink in the rain.

Later, he answered that he was in a bad mood at that time, because there were car loans and mortgages to pay back, and the pressure was too great. It happened to be heavy in the rain, so he continued to eat in the rain.

I think, those who can see the real storms of storms are trivial because they have experienced a more violent storm than they have been in their hearts.

In recent years, many ordinary people have suffered such a storm in their hearts.

There is a post -90s girl who bought a pre -sale house in 18 years, intending to be a wedding room.

The real estate has stopped working in 21 years, and it has passed the time of delivery.

She didn't dare to tell her family that the real estate was bad.

Topping with this real estate is many people's expectations and confidence in life.

A report recently, mentioning that young people who have reduced confidence are eager to reduce their debt.

My sister is one of them. She bought a house in 2019 after her marriage, and then she had a heavy monthly supply pressure.

In March of this year, with the increasing news of the layoffs of various industries, she and her brother -in -law decided to use savings to repay some mortgages in advance.

Because they don't know if they will suddenly lose their ability to repay the loan someday.

In the uncertain life, we always want to seize something first, and then go down a little bit.

It reminds me that the life of many of us is actually such a tilted state.

However, tilt is actually a balance.

The wind and rain of life always want to overwhelm people, but some people always find the fulcrum of life in the wind and rain.

Although tilted, it never really fell.

While we lost confidence and rebuilt our confidence.

I saw a news yesterday, and a big factory girl was determined to leave Beijing and go to the south city.

She said that she thought she would live in Beijing for a lifetime, and after a sigh of sigh, the camera switched to her to clean up her luggage.

She compressed everything that lived in Beijing almost, and these things would be piled into the living room of a new residence, and then they were decompressed one by one.

Like a new life she wants to start again, she will bloom in a new city.

She said that she left Beijing, just like Sun Yanzi's "Escape", as she was running away.

She said that every spring is coming, she will broadcast "The Spring of the North" in a cycle, listening to two or three weeks in a row.

Leaving Beijing and going to a new city, just like the "Northern Spring" in her life season.

After packing all luggage, when the door of the rental house slowly closed, the girl said:

"The spring of the northern country is coming."

It is a bumpy job experience shared by a netizen.

At the end of June, the trial period was over, and she was fired by the company.

She moved out of the company's dormitory and hurriedly rented a house.

The pressure of job hunting and rent has almost exhausted all her confidence.

While looking for a job, I hit the wall everywhere, and we have to look at the expectations of the family.

Once, she still did not have any hope to cast a resume.

When asked about the expected salary, she responded 4-5K.

Before, many HR either felt that she was inappropriate or couldn't read it.

But what surprised her this time was that HR returned "7-8K is more suitable."

The HR also reminded her kindly that she's expected salary, deducting rent and living expenses, and lived in big cities.

She said, maybe she couldn't get the job in the end, but she still thanked the HR.

Because of her answer sturdy, she continued to fall.

Let her know that she is worth it than expected.

Ordinary people re -found the way out in a embarrassed life.

We always need to accumulate confidence like this, they are like everything that will float on the water.

When we fall into the water pond, we can float up with them.

His boyfriend likes fishing. He collected a lot of fishing rods of different lengths at home.

I don't understand, he said, just want to experience the feeling of fishing.

In order to find a feeling, he often asked me to help hold the end of the pole, and then he lifted it up to let the fishing rod form a arc.

He said that people who love fishing really enjoy the moment when they really enjoy the big fish.The moment simulation can make him find that, a big fish is about to be dragged out of the water.

Later, I learned that this is actually a way he accumulates confidence in life.

If you think about it, we tilt your life towards your life, just find the fulcrum of life through various ways like this.

Finally, I hope we will find out a glittering mood as soon as possible.

I also want to bless everyone to spend this summer smoothly.

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