Men came to Hangzhou to work hard for three days and three nights!A decision of urban management mad
Author:Global Times Time:2022.06.14
"On the first day, I was paralyzed." "When I was 20 years old, my father's hair was completely white every day. I think I want to earn some money to support myself."
Unlike the sad beginning, many readers say that this is an inspirational and healing story. The 46 -year -old "Hangzhou Drifting" was folded by a ruthless illness since he was a child, but along the way, life taught him to be strong, and the countless ordinary "nobles" in life made his life continue to "counterattack the counterattack. "
All the way to Hangzhou
Oral Daihe Guang organized Lu Yan
Three years ago, a middle -aged man selling fruits appeared in Hangzhou Jishanfang Lane Community. People are thin and walking slowly.
The fruits he sold are not expensive, and the neighborhoods are willing to take care of business. Under his sunny umbrella, he gradually became a small gathering point, and the elderly and cleaned elder sister liked to take a break there.
Gradually, I know Master Dai's story. The following is his orally.
In junior high school, my legs were "paralyzed" and I lay on the bed for 5 years
The kind person tells me: I will get up and exercise again
For more than a year, I can move myself!
My name was Dai Huan. Born in Tonggu County, Yichun City, Jiangxi in 1976, my parents were farmers. There are 7 children in the family, I am the youngest. My mother was forty years old when she gave birth to me.
I started to get sick since the third grade of elementary school, and after reading the first year, I became paralyzed.
Since the age of 20, I have eaten their own efforts and have been working in various workers. I have been to Fujian, Guangdong, Jiangxi, and Zhejiang.
I have been in Hangzhou for four years and have been living in fruit. If it wasn't for so many enthusiastic Hangzhou people to help me, I would not be able to support it now.
From the third grade of elementary school, my legs and feet often hurt. Later, the knee also hurt. On the first day, I was paralyzed. The hospital confirmed that I had rheumatoid arthritis and rheumatoid arthritis at the same time, and the condition was very serious.
After I was sick, my father carried me to school every day and sent meals to school at noon. When I finished eating, I went to the toilet. After school, carry me back home.
After reading it until the first day, I finally learned a little culture.
My parents were unwilling and took me to Nanchang in Nanchang in the provincial capital. But the money was not enough, we didn't even take the medicine, so we went back.
I lay on the bed for five years, turning over and asking my father to hold hands. In winter, I couldn't stand it. My parents prepared two hot water bags for me, put one on my feet, and put one on my hand.
I looked for two short -sighs and were rescued. My parents were afraid that I couldn't think of it. I slept with me a room and cared about me day and night.
Once, my father went to the temple to burn incense and met a city in the city. The man's son also had the disease. He brought rice and oil, came to the house to visit, and said to me, "You can't lie in bed all the time, no matter how painful, you have to get up to exercise."
That kind person came to see me twice a week, and my parents also had some confidence. My father made two crutches, helping me, and practicing walking.
After walking for more than a year, I just stunned a crutch. Eat a lot of rice and feel good. After half a year, I can leave without a crutch.
But strictly speaking, my walking can only be moved step by step. Because of the disease, my limbs have changed. My height is also set in the early one meter.
At the age of 20, I decided to make some money to support myself
Everyone see me a disabled person to open a shop
Come and take care of my business
When I was 20 years old, my father's hair was all white.
I think I want to earn some money to support myself. Can't let parents worry about it. But my parents and elder brother said to me, "You can survive, so don't think too much."
I said, "Buying a popsicle for 2 yuan, and 5 yuan for a few fruits. I want to open a small shop in the village."
There is a small shop in the village, and three bosses have been changed. The second brother said: "All three bosses have lost their own, not to mention you are a disabled person." But the elder brother said, "Brother wants to do it, let him do it."
I rented that facade and rented 400 yuan a year. My elder brother gave me 500 yuan to buy. Everyone watched my disabled people open a shop and came to take care of my business.
Two months later, I returned 500 yuan to my brother.
From 1996 to 1997, the customers in our shop are like flowing water every day. I don't know how happy it is. A neighbor saw a business and opened a grocery store.
My shop is a mud wall, and the neighbor's shop is a brick wall. His goods are richer than me, and they also engage in promotions. The cost price is sold at the time of opening.
My business can't do it anymore. I closed the store and returned home.
I saw someone driving a tricycle to sell vegetables in the countryside, and moved the idea of doing business again. Forget it, buy a tricycle of more than 2,000, the cost of buying hundreds of yuan, a total of 3,000 yuan.
Brother still supports me. I bought electric tricycles and electronic scales and went out at 3 am every day. Selling vegetables for a week, a little stronger than the previous business, I am happy again.
My mother saw that I was inconvenient, and every day I helped me wear socks and shoes. When I drove out, my mother took the car and went with me to help me raise vegetables, set the goods, and see things.
After half a year, I made some money. Sisters spoke, "Brother, you can't break your mother's body."
I asked my mother not to follow. My mother said, "Don't listen to them." The alarm rang the next morning, and I left quietly.
After my mother woke up, I saw no one in my bed and walked 8 kilometers to the city. I am taking vegetables in the wholesale market, and my mother is here.
"You won't let me come tomorrow, I will walk again." Mother said.
In this way, with the help of my mother, I did it for several years. Later, there were more and more hawkers selling vegetables. Four or five people ate a bowl of rice and could not eat. Starting out in 2013
My wife and I set off on the electric tricycle
Some people suggested that I sell toilet paper. I sold it for a month and found that it was not very good. But I also persisted for half a year.
Some people suggest: You might as well pull a network cable, buy a few computers, and open an Internet cafe.
In 2010, I bought 5 second -hand computers, pulled the first network cable in the village, and opened an Internet cafe at home. But in less than two years, the village was installed in the village. Every family bought a computer, and the Internet cafe had no business.
In 2013, my sister and brother -in -law opened a fast food restaurant in Ganzhou. The business was very good. I called me to help. My sister opened a salary of more than 2,000 yuan a month.
I have been doing vegetables for three years, washing vegetables, cutting vegetables, washing dishes, mopping, and cleaning. Sometimes my sister is not there, I will help her collect money.
When I was selling vegetables in my hometown, I got married. In 2016, my sister's fast food restaurant was not done. My wife and I went to Beijing. The rent in Beijing is four or five thousand for a month. We have no relatives and friends in Beijing. Let's live in the hotel first. There are more than 200 yuan hotels, and the bathroom is public. I woke up in the morning and ate two bowls of noodles for 30 yuan. I didn't eat, and I ate another 30 yuan in another store.
We left. I bought a ticket to Fuzhou, my cousin was in Fuzhou.
My cousin helped us rent a room. My wife found a job in a hotel. I sent her to work every morning and picked up her back in the evening.
I am not familiar with life, and it is difficult for me to find a job. In the construction company where my cousin went to work, the boss recruited a person to take care of a injured worker, including 2,500. After three months, the injury of workers gradually improved.
I thought of selling fruits. Discuss with that worker: "I'm selling fruits nearby, you have something to call me. I come back to cook for you, and the fruit that can't be sold will also be eaten."
We stayed in Fuzhou for a year and a half, and decided to go to Guangzhou, and my big cousin was in Guangzhou.
After arriving in Fuzhou, I asked my family to send me the tricycle I used. My car is relatively large, two meters long. In order to sell marshmallow for our wives, we bought another one meter -three -long electric car.
After deciding to go to Guangzhou, we drove an electric tricycle one by one and set off.
A boss took out hundreds of dollars:
"It's cold, buy two good clothes for your wife."
The car is driving on the national highway, but navigation brings us to the provincial road.
The mountain road is steep and curved. The fellow watched us hard and took a lot of grapefruit for our own.
We lived on the side of the road for one night. More than a dozen fellows came around, "It seems that you can only invite a large truck to pull you on the flat road."
"How much does it cost?"
"Just give a little oil, a hundred pieces."
The kind people drove a big truck, pulled us more than 20 kilometers, and returned to the national road.
One night, we followed the navigation and accidentally opened the high speed. The car could not turn around, so I had to drive all the way to the toll station.
The staff asked, "How did the tricycle run up?" The leader said: Open a way to let them go down.
With these two experiences, my wife and I said that they must be careful when driving a tricycle in the future.
▲ Electric tricycles accompanied by Master Dai all the way to Hangzhou
One day, we arrived in Ji'an, Jiangxi to pass a glass factory. The boss is very young. I asked, "Can you charge the tricycle in your factory for about seven or eight hours?"
"Then let's go with full charging." At 11 o'clock at noon, the boss said, "I say hello to the cafeteria and make two meals for you."
I said, "We brought dry food." The boss said, "More than a thousand people in the factory eat, it's okay. You have dinner here."
The electricity is full, we are going to set off, and the boss is also off work. She took out hundreds of dollars and said, "It's cold, your wife is so thin, and buy her two good clothes for her."
I refuse to. The boss said, "This money is not for you, it is for your wife. It is not easy for your wife to follow you. Don't pay this money, you will help him see others next time."
More than a month in Wenzhou restaurant, the boss was promoted to the manager:
"I look away, I didn't expect you to do so!"
In the next stop, Hangzhou!
I have a brother who has been working in Wenzhou for more than 20 years. We decided to go to Wenzhou.
It was raining, dark, and the tricycle was out of power. We found a chicken farm and asked for security to charge us. The security guard is unwilling. We desperately begged, we couldn't leave without electricity, and we were hungry.
In the morning, the boss of the chicken farm saw us still charging and asked, "When did you arrive yesterday?"
"8pm."
The boss saw that we did n’t eat breakfast and dinner, so I gave two boxes of eggs, a good chicken, and a box lunch that was hot.
The electricity was full, and we set off again.
When I arrived at Wenzhou, my brother said, "You slowly find a job by yourself, I will give you a hotel room at most."
There is a restaurant nearby to open. The boss said, "Your wife, we see it. You, we don't want it."
My wife said, "Boss, my husband helps you do, don't pay, you give me salary, include my husband's food and accommodation, can you?" The boss agreed and helped us settle in a room.
The restaurant opened, and many guests flocked in. The boss has never made a catering, the kitchen is messy, no one cuts vegetables, no one is washing vegetables, and no one pays customers. I will cut, wash vegetables, and pay. I was busy and helped the boss for three days. I was tired of my back pain, and I did n’t want to do it for half a salary. I did n’t want to do it. The boss heard it and said, "Don't go outside to find a job. From the day of entering the door, I will give you a salary." He turned his head and said, "How much money do you get and how much your husband gets. At that time, I looked at it and thought he couldn't do anything. I didn't expect your husband to do it than you! "
What dishes to buy, how many workers, I teach them one by one. After doing it for more than a month, the boss was promoted to the manager. At that time, there were two chefs and two cuts in the store, plus the end plate cleaning, a total of seven or eight employees. They do not accept, "He is like this, and he does not do more than us, but also refers to painting."
I can't call them. The boss had a meeting and said, "I'm not in the store, the store manager is me, you pay attention next time."
After doing this for more than eight months, the business is getting better and better. However, the entrance of the store is going to build a viaduct, and the construction period is at least one and a half years. The boss pushed off the shop and gave us all rice, oil, vegetables, audio, and hams.
We filled the car full and set off again.
My wife asked me: "Where do you have acquaintances?" I said, "Hangzhou. Cousin and brother -in -law are in Hangzhou."
My wife works in Hangzhou restaurant, I set up a stall to sell fruits
When there is a dispute with the vendor on the side, the movement of urban management
Keep me
We opened on the road for three days and three nights, from Wenzhou to Hangzhou.
His wife was lucky. On the first day, he found a job at a fast food restaurant in Zhongshan Middle Road.
She told the boss: "My husband will do anything, can you do it in your shop?" The boss said yes. My wife took me over.
"This is your husband?" The boss looked at me from head to toe.
"Yes, he will cut vegetables and wash vegetables." The boss was embarrassed to refuse, and said "adapt to three days first."
This shop is a partner of three bosses, and there is monitoring in the office. You can see whether employees are lazy.
Three days later, the boss asked me to talk: "You are really good to do it. If you do it, you should do it. But another boss refuses to use you, afraid that you will fall in the store to cause trouble. He said, you can eat in the store, how long you do your wife, and how long do you eat. "
The boss gave me a salary of 500 yuan for 3 days, saying, "Tomorrow, morning and dinner, how long you have to eat. Employees eat, you come over, don't let us call."
I'm sorry, so I took the money to buy fast food in the store. The boss said, "I promise you, don't be embarrassed."
After eating for a month, two employees began to say that I was lazy and raised by my wife. I was uncomfortable in my heart, and said to my wife, "Go like this, I'm going to leave Hangzhou."
My wife said, "Why are you left in Hangzhou? I did well." I didn't go in the shop, I played every week, and I went to the West Lake. As you can ask where you can ride a tricycle while playing, where is the fruit wholesale market and where can you sell fruits.
A good -hearted person can give me a small park in Jishan Fang Lane to sell fruits. An old aunt comes from Yuhang to sell vegetables every day, selling for almost 20 years.
From May 2019, I started selling fruits in Xiao Park, Jishan Fang Lane. On the first day, the business was very good, and many neighbors took care of me.
The next day, the aunt who sold vegetables saw someone came to buy my pears, so she asked the guest to buy her pear in the past.
On the third day, I said: Auntie, you sell vegetables, I sell fruits, and it is not easy to go out.
Aunt began to scold me. The neighbors say she: Why are you so fierce?
I said: Auntie, either we go to the city management, or you call your leader over. Calling aunt is to respect you, you don't have to enter the foot.
The aunt changed his mouth and said: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I offended you, don't take it to your heart.
I said: I won't take it to my heart.
Since then, we have done their own business and have nothing to do with each other. The urban management sees that I am a disabled person with self -reliance. She specializes in a meeting to discuss. Finally, I decide: You just sell fruits in this place, do not go to other places.
▲ Master Dai and his fruit stalls
Earn money for fifteen or six hours a day
I have been to many cities, and Hangzhou has the strongest human taste
It's not Hangzhou people to help me everywhere, I can’t support it now
In the first two years in Hangzhou, my wife and I lived on the two -meter -long tricycle that added the top cover to wipe and wash clothes in the single room of the public toilet. When we sold a little money, we rented a small house with others.
One summer vacation, my daughter and son came to Hangzhou to see us. I rented a large room in the hotel with two beds, and it cost more than 200 yuan a day. My daughter said, dad, I go to your house to see. I said, we live far, the house is small, and it is inconvenient.
Summer vacation is a peak season for watermelon. I go out to buy more in the morning. My daughter woke up and asked how much money I made a day. I replied, "More than a hundred pieces."
My daughter said, you are so hard, I will buy a ticket back tomorrow.
Said to live well for a month, and finally lived for 13 days. My daughter is a specialty in the kindergarten teacher and is going to graduate this summer.
On the day when I do n’t sell watermelons, I get up at 5 in the morning and go to the fruit market to buy. Go home at 6:30, put the fruit at the door, cook and pack. After receiving the stall at night, go to the night market and set it to 9 o'clock. He is busy for 15 hours a day, even 16 or 17 hours. I like to make friends. Looking at me, I look down on me, I treat it equally. Every day I go out of the stool with a small stool and sit for those aunts. A aunt at Building 19, Jishanfang Lane took me a meal at home every day. It took me more than two months to see me as a brother.
After seeing the aunt selling vegetables, he said, "I have sold it here for 20 years, and no one has been delivered to me."
The security guards in Dongping Lane, who likes to go to the small restaurant to fight the dental sacrifice, and give me the noon dinner meal. Sometimes two copies, I leave one copy until night.
Whether it is the aunt in the residential building or the aunt who swept the floor, I like to sit in my fruit stall. With so many people care about me, I am particularly happy.
▲ Hangzhou Jishan Fang Lane
After doing business for more than two months, a aunt took me hundreds of dollars to me, saying that you are strong, the weather is cold, and the sun is hot. You have never avoided it.
I said, my aunt's heart I received, and I couldn't collect this money. If you take your money, I will feel uncomfortable. If you can buy some fruits, I am very satisfied.
The aunt bought 50 yuan fruit, and introduced me to other neighbors, saying that my fruit was of good quality and the price was not expensive.
My wife and I have been to many cities, and Hangzhou has the strongest humanity. The consumption of big cities is high, not enthusiastic Hangzhou people to help me everywhere, I can't support it now.
Back to my hometown for my father to see a doctor and funeral spending savings
After returning to Hangzhou, I continue to sell fruits
At the end of last year, his father was bad. If the other brothers and sisters can't let go, I will go back to my hometown to take care of my father.
Earlier this year, his father died. The cost of seeing a doctor and funeral brothers and sisters, I spent my savings in my hand.
After finishing my father's funeral, I returned to Hangzhou.
At that time, the community rectified the facade, and the fruit stall had to rest for a while. There is no savings, no income, and survival has become a problem. I had to ask my sister to borrow some money.
My wife started in fast food restaurants, and then went to kindergarten to be a life teacher. I was a little worried about myself, almost fifty years old, and I couldn't get up at 3 am.
I thought about changing, but the new job is not easy to find. If there is no appropriate, I will continue to sell fruits for a few days.
In fact, every kind of fruit is particular. For example, picking watermelon is mainly to listen to the sound, but also pay attention to the pattern of watermelon, deeper. Apple has to pick stripes, not to say that it is good, and the place of origin is also particular. The pear is the mother, and the pear with a larger hips is the mother. This kind of pear is very sweet.
When I reappear, everyone has passed by, please take care of it!
On June 8, 2022, Master Dai's fruit stalls reopened in Jishanfang Lane. In the season of selling watermelons again, he got up at more than three o'clock.
I haven't seen it in four months, Master Dai is still old. White shirt with a blue horse clip. Dark trousers, black cloth shoes. When the residents of the community saw Master Dai come, they stepped forward and asked him where to go.
The older sister upstairs bought a watermelon and a gap with the grandfather's grandfather. For four months, the first day of opening, Master Dai ushered in a good opening of the door.
Reader message
In Master Dai's personal experience, the most emotional thing is not the suffering of the world, but the goodwill of the world. Whether it is the elder brother who supports his brother to be a small business, or the strange boss who treats Master Dai along the way, the staff of high -speed toll stations ...
Many times, goodwill is nothing more than raising their hands. I have no intention of inserting the warmth under the willow species, but it makes people remember for a long time. This is humanity.
With an electric tricycle walking south, this man with inconvenient moves has a unique affinity. He has eaten his own efforts, does not complain about the heavens, has the wisdom of survival, and thinks for others everywhere. He has also won respect. Residents, security guards, and cleaners are willing to make goodness with him. This is also humanity.
As a new Hangzhou native of hard work and finally incorporated into the corner of the city, Master Dai has a deep feeling. Hangzhou not only has the lakes and mountains of the West Lake, but also the Qiantang River's Hai Naichuan, but also the humanity of the fireworks. Such a city is worth living and full of vitality.
Oral Dai and Guang organized Lu Yan David
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