The paralyzed wife sitting on the truck co -pilot seat: "I go to the world with him"

Elephant reporter Zhao Dan/Wen Video Screenshot

After his wife had hemiplegia, he was unable to take care of his family. Nie Jianwen made a bold decision -took her to a sports car. Since then, the narrow truck cars have become the living space of the couple. This rough master learned to wash, wash his feet, change clothes, feed and rehabilitation for his wife. He will also use the sheets to carry his wife with a little bit of his wife. Nie Jianwen said that the most difficult thing in the past two years was to find the toilet at high speeds. His wife was incontinence for a while. He only cleaned up silently. Many people ask him what support, and he can't say it himself. He only knows that once he let go, he will disperse. "I will feel guilty for a lifetime."

Emotion on big trucks

After 20 years of marriage, Cao Yingying, who was hemiplegia, began to follow her husband Nie Jianwen to a sports car. From his hometown to Longnan, Gansu to Shanghai, it is responsible for transporting short -distance goods around Shanghai.

The narrow cab is the common living space of the couple. Most of the time, Cao Yingying was lying on the bedding, watching her husband driving, or closing her eyes. The big trucks are shaking, as well as impermanence and turbulent days.

Two years ago, a beautiful and capable wife in Nie Jianwen suddenly fell suddenly. "One night's cerebral bleeding, fell on the side of the road, was taken to the hospital by the police, staying at the ICU for more than ten days." Nie Jianwen worked in Shanghai at that time, and his wife was discharged after returning. Want to cry, "It turned out that a strong and capable person suddenly changed personal." Because of brain hemorrhage, Cao Yingying performed craniotomy, and the right side of the right side was hemiplegia after surgery, and he owed a foreign debt. Nie Jianwen said that his wife had previously opened three stores in clothing, jewelry, and shoes. He helpless or transferred or closed. Two children in the family were handed over to the 70 -year -old mother to take care of, and the old mother was unable to take care of her daughter -in -law. Think again, Nie Jianwen decided to bring his wife with him and take care of his wife while sports.

The sports car is equivalent to putting the home on the flowing car. For Nie Jianwen, he also needs to take care of his wife who cannot take care of himself. "The hardest thing is to go to the toilet." Nie Jianwen said that his wife was incontinence, and he had to clean up silently. The wife had to start two or three times at night, and I thought it was solved in the car.

Considering that his wife was uncomfortable for a long time, Nie Jianwen had the opportunity to get out of the car and take a look at her. However, it is not easy to get a patient from a narrow cab to a patient with hemiplegia.

Nie Jianwen thought for a way.

(Nie Jianwen got off the car with a single wife)

He found the sheets, wrapped in the position of his wife's waist and clock, and then turned slowly, kneeling on the driver's seat, tied himself with his wife with his wife, tightened, carefully carried his wife slowly, slowly carrying his wife and slowly. Turn around slowly, and move down the cab step by step with the feeling of stepping on the tires and steps.

Seeing the scene of parents getting along, the eldest son burst into wonders and let them send small videos with cars to the Internet. This attracted countless netizens' attention. People have called the two of them "the real appearance of love." But Nie Jianwen said, "My wife and I are classmates, they are first love, and they are free to fall in love. When I was young, I really like her. Anyway, I just have a look at each other. Fate. In these years, my wife gave me two children. It is not easy to put the well in the family in order to take care of the family. Now that she has encountered difficulties, I think I have at least I have to be responsible and responsible. "

Go farther

The wife liked to clean up before she was sick, and Nie Jianwen tried to help her maintain it. When he was not busy, he would wash his hair and wash his feet with his wife, and simply scrub his body.

Cao Yingying was very moved. "He washed my hair for the first time, and I cried all of a sudden. My husband was a laughing and responsible good person. The most important thing was that he loved me. Wherever he went, I followed. Look at the world with him. "

(Nie Jianwen washed his wife)

Cao Yingying and Nie Jianwen's young plums have been married for 20 years. In the words of Nie Jianwen, I saw Cao Yingying at a glance at a glance, and loved from the heart. They got married in 2003. Nie Jianwen will drive a large car. In order to make a living, the couple took out the savings of many years of accumulation, and loaned 100,000 yuan, bought a second -hand truck and started running.

Not long after marriage, Nie Jianwen went to Shanghai to be a truck driver, and his wife stayed in his hometown to take care of the elderly and children. He also had his own career. "I usually make money to send it home, and the others are supporting his wife." Nie Jianwen lamented that the livelihood of the wind and water, accompanied by Cao Yingying's sudden illness. The turning point of this family appeared, and Nie Jianwen felt as if all the pressure came from all of a sudden, "Sometimes I feel that everything is not hopeful. No one helps themselves to share it, and things are spread on their heads."

Nie Jianwen was a post -80s. It was the age and young age. His wife suddenly fell as a partner and "comrade", and he immediately realized that he was impermanent. Thinking about it, in order to continue to make money, he made a bold decision -bringing a car with his wife. A sports car has been extremely hard, but Nie Jianwen took the truck with a hemiplegia wife for more than two years, washing and cooking, rehabilitation training. At the same time, he did not forget the sense of ritual -when his wife's birthday, Nie Jianwen bought a cake to celebrate. When he was unloaded at night, he carried his wife out of the car for rehabilitation training. For more than two years, under the careful care of Nie Jianwen, he glanced at his wife who could already stand on the way.

(Birthday on the truck)

"It is said that taking her out to see the world is extravagant. The reality is that the family is unable to take care of it. We also need to make money to support the family. But after coming out, she was in a lot of good mood. Nie Jianwen's tone was happy. In the future, his thoughts are very simple. Sports car, go farther, make more money, and set up a small family.

Dialogue: "She encountered difficulties, I have to take responsibility"

Elephant News: Where do you and your wife now?

Nie Jianwen: We are now Shanghai, and this time there are more than ten days out of home.

Elephant News: Did you realize the desire to change the front of the truck?

Nie Jianwen: No. It takes about 30,000 to change the front car. At present, I can be described as not enough at hand, so I ca n’t buy it myself. After the hot search, some public welfare organizations are willing to help us.

Workers (left) help to install air conditioners for trucks

Elephant News: What is the situation of the two children and old mother at home?

Nie Jianwen: Both children in the family dropped out of school. The boss came to Shanghai in March this year and found a job in the electronic factory. The second child was in his hometown. My mother is in her 70s and is an empty nest.

Elephant News: It is a pity that children drop out of school, can you still find a way to persist in support?

Nie Jianwen: The boss was 19 years old, and he was high before he dropped out of school. How to say, I also know that work is not a long -term plan, but we are both outside, and we usually get along with children less. They are heavy. They have a rebellious psychology; they are light and useless. Now the burden of economic burden is on my own, with a paralyzed wife. I can't let our 70 -year -old mother support us again. In this case at home, the two children also feel a lot of pressure, so they can only be temporarily like this.

Elephant News: What are the difficulties on the road with your wife? What is your daily life?

Nie Jianwen: The hardest thing is to find the toilet at high speeds. My wife was incontinence and urinating bed at night. There is also a bath. I will find a way to pick up water to simply wash her. In addition, she couldn't take care of herself. I had to change clothes and cook.

As for the food, my wife was snoring. She loved chicken, duck, and fish, and I would buy it for her to eat when she touched it. Usually cook some noodles in the car. We are from Gansu and love to eat spicy and salty mouth, so I will prepare her pickles and chili sauce. There will also be tomatoes and eggs on the car. I usually live in the car, and the cab is two or three square meters.

Our husband and wife ran short, where to go where they were, I installed the goods today, and I didn't know where to go tomorrow. The home is on the road.

(Cao Yingying is doing rehabilitation at home)

Elephant News: Many people ask, what are you supporting you?

Nie Jianwen: I don't know what to support myself. I can't let go. If you let it go, you will feel guilty for a lifetime, and this home will be incomplete.

My wife and I are classmates. They are first love and love each other. When I was young, I really liked her, anyway, I just met at a glance. Fate. My wife gave me two children, and it was not easy for her to take care of the well. Now that she has encountered difficulties, I think I have to have at least responsibility and responsibility. It is not easy for the couple to come together, and we are all forty years old. Anyway, we have lived well.

Elephant News: When do you think the turning point of your life is?

Nie Jianwen: It should just start with my wife's illness. Sometimes I feel that everything is not hopeful. No one helps themselves, and all things are spread on their own heads. My wife was beautiful and capable before illness. I used the online statement that there was "social NB disease". I opened three stores and sold shoes, costumes, and jewelry. I didn't need to worry about me at all, I just earn money to send money. Later, when she was ill, the shop could not stop. The traditional Chinese medicinal materials of the contracting place are also lost.

Elephant News: How do you think of bringing out a sports car to your wife? Do you usually communicate feelings?

Nie Jianwen: In fact, it is not completely unattended at home, but it will not be as detailed as me. I can't help the old mother to serve.

It is a luxury to take her out to see the world. The reality is that the family is unable to take care of it. We also need to make money to support their families. But after coming out, she was in a lot of good mood. She was humb all day long. It turned out that she still committed epilepsy, and now the medicine stopped.

We didn't say anything between the two of us, so we said that they were old. If the two sons couldn't care, we picked up the bottle. This sentence is half -joking, but in fact, it is also true, just live together.

Elephant News: How do you plan for the future?

Nie Jianwen: The future wish is to change to a big front, you can run away, you can make more money, and make recovery for his wife. In addition, the child is old, and the old house still needs to be turned up. Consider asking his son to ask his daughter -in -law. In short, it is to support your family.

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