Studies have found the key to turning Crush into "real love" | Weekly

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In this period of simple psychological weekly, you can see:

是 15% of love starts from Crush

年The online storm has become a teenager suicide independent prediction factor

Invisible prejudice in medical treatment: Why are male doctors seeing a doctor fast?

People who can become good friends are also very similar to people smelling

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15% of love starts from Crush

It is said that young people do not fall in love now, as long as Crush.

Crush, a short, warm, shy love. Psychologists believe that during the Crush, people's romantic interests about (but usually not) to become loyal partners like roller coasters: may continue to rise or suddenly.

Recently published a study in "European Journal of Personality", collecting more than 7,000 reports on the development of early lovers, and found the key to turning Crush into real love: continuous attachment and emotional connection.

▷ "Sudden Heart"

Researchers at the University of California Davis conducted a seven -month survey of 208 heterosexual college students to learn about their dating habits, preferences, and attractiveness to potential lover. Participants had averaged CRUSH on average during this period, and about 15% of the CRUSH became a real love relationship at some point.

Study using machine learning methods to find prediction factors for early development of love relationships. This includes: attractiveness, sexual contact, continuous interest, closeness of demand, separation pain, self -disclosure, trust, relative power and other aspects.

The results show that among many factors, attachment and emotional connections have better predicted the development of the relationship, and the continuous interest in the crusher object is a sign of attachment and emotional connections. Meet as much as possible to meet TA, share interesting things, and feel painful when separating each other. They are all signs of love -there is no difference between the relationship between traditional pairing.

▷ "The Worst People in the World"

But unexpectedly, the influence of physical attractiveness in the development of Crush is quite weak.

The main author Paul Eastwick pointed out: These findings mean that at this stage of Crush, it is not to win the best partner as much as possible, but to find someone who can inspire attachment and emotional attractiveness at the same time.

Crush looks like people's trial operation. This is how young people establish a relationship.

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Cyber ​​storms have surpassed reality bullying

Independent risk factor of becoming a teenager suicide

A recent study published in "Jama Network Open" shows that: Cyber ​​Bullying has surpassed the traditional realistic bullying and became an independent risk factor for young people's suicide. Researchers at the University of Pennsylvania and Philadelphia Children's Hospital collected diversified data from 10,414 young people from 2018-2021.

It was found that 7.6% of teenagers said that they had the idea or behavior of suicide, and 8.9% of teenagers said that they were the goal of Internet storms, and 0.9% said that they had crowded others.

The study also stated that unlike the traditional real bullying (violence, speech, social bully), the Internet storm presents its unique characteristics:

Cyber ​​storms are even more hidden and difficult to find. Adolescents are not necessarily manifested in reality. Most cyber violers have not reported to be attacked by companions.

Cyber ​​storms are anonymous. The perpetrators usually do not know that they have brought pain to others, and the psychological burden is relatively light;

Cyber ​​storms have real -time and strong diffusion. Because it is published on the instant messaging platform, teenagers are faster and easier to participate.

The characteristics of hidden, anonymous and instantaneousness also make it difficult to detect, repeat, and difficult to eliminate cyber storms, and the negative impact on the victims may be more serious.

▷ "3 Years A"

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Exposing hidden prejudice in medical care

Why do male doctors see a doctor faster?

When it comes to doctors, many people will be a man wearing a white coat, and women and nurse characters are more rigidly linked.

However, a study recently published in "Psychology and Cognitive Sciences" shows that due to cultural influence, even if there is no subjective gender prejudice, people may unconsciously trust male doctors, and even recover faster under the treatment of male doctors. Essence

The experiment recruited a total of 187 tests (64.2% of women and 35.3% of men). In the laboratory, an allergic skin spiny test was accepted to induce mild skin allergic reactions, and then randomly distributed to male and female doctors to see the doctor. Doctors prescribed the same medicine and claimed that this is an antihistamine ointment that can reduce allergic reactions and itching. In fact, this is a hand cream (placebo) without any treatment effect.

▷ Under the treatment of doctors of different gender, allergies and bulging changes over time

The results show that under the treatment of male doctors, the reduction of allergies is more obvious.

In order to avoid the impact of subjective gender prejudice, the subject filled out the evaluation of the doctor after the consultation, and found that the trial actually thought that the female doctor was warmer and capable than the male doctor. They did not subjectively show gender discrimination against female doctors.

Therefore, researchers speculate that this gender prejudice is hidden and unconscious, maybe because the male doctor and the doctor's image in the stereotype are more heavy.

▷ "Witary Doctor Life"

04

Those who can be good friends

It smells very similar

You may have a shot with someone for the first time, and soon become friends.

Recently, a new study published by Researchers at the Institute of Science in Weitzmann in "Science Advances" shows that this kind of shot may be related to odor, which means that people are more likely to establish friendship with people with similar body taste.

Researchers recruited 10 non -romantic friends of the same sex. They all quickly formed friendship after the first encounter. The researchers sampled the 10 pairs of friends and compared with random matching samples. In addition, participants are required to interact with strange volunteers and scores each other's possibilities to become friends according to the degree of preferences.

The results show that it seems information that can predict the social interaction quality between strangers -people may tend to establish friendship with people who are similar, and those who have more positive interaction when they first meet. Essence

Well, there are so many weekly in this issue. I hope you get a little interesting psychological knowledge.

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