"Double Settled" Family Education Special Cloud Class ㊶ 丨 Lu Xian Su, Luqiao Primary School: Qiao During the Holiday Life

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Luqiao District Micro Class

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Members of the expert group of Zhejiang Psychological Health and Youth Gang Gang

Members of high -end class in Zhejiang Provincial Comprehensive Practice Activity Training

Senior teacher of Luqiao Elementary School

Teacher Shi Xian Su

Bring a lesson for everyone

"Holiday Life ingenious Arrangement"

Dear parents and friends, good evening everyone! Welcome to the Family Education Classroom of Luqiao Women's Federation. I am Teacher Shi Xiansu from Luqiao Elementary School. Today I am very happy to talk to you about the topic of "Quality Arrangement of Holidays".

In the summer vacation, it is a very happy and anticipated thing for children and parents, because the summer vacation is a big rest for four or five consecutive months. New learning tasks. You can study before you learn. Children's summer vacation is a long and important time. Some parents have to ask, should the child go to the counseling class? My suggestion is: First, if your child is a child with strong self -ability and planning, it is recommended not to send a counseling class; Third, if the parents have no time to manage, the child is a consciousness and the poor needs to be supervised. I suggest sending it. What kind of tutoring class is given?

For example, in this semester, some schools are managed by the school teachers like the summer vacation custody class with public welfare nature like our Luqiao Elementary School, which is very good. But most children may spend the summer vacation at home, and the parents are the existence that plays a very important role. Sometimes after a summer vacation, the child's physical state and learning status will change tremendously. Some parents will belong to management, let the children play uncomfortably, play at night until they go to bed late, and sleep until noon during the day. Evil habit. Some parents will be serious, and they think that they are not afraid of classmates who are afraid of learning the summer vacation. I want to make children overtaking in the summer vacation, so some elementary school students are busy in summer than school in summer. They are busy with various tuition classes. The same is true for parents. In the summer vacation, you will carefully arrange a variety of activities, exercise various abilities of children, cultivate children's excellent virtues, and shape their children's sound personality. but? After every summer vacation, our teacher will always hear the situation of extreme events in some schools in some schools. This is very heartbroken. The reasons behind them often do not have family contradictions and cause children's extreme psychology, and more reasons are often on parents. So how to arrange a child's summer vacation and let them live a fulfilling, pleasant, and meaningful life?

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1. Parents assist their children to develop a summer vacation plan, which is the fundamental prerequisite for living summer vacation

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For most parents, they do not want their children to waste a good time of summer vacation. I hope that their children can complete a transformation during the summer vacation, so they arrange a full summer vacation plan for the child. As a result, it is difficult to formulate plans and difficult to implement. The reasons are often: lack of presets of goals and results; too much content and no room for change; ignore the difficulty coefficient of the task; the evaluation mechanism is in a blank file. Even the nervous state of parent -child relationship occurs. Parents' guidance and choice are very important in the holiday arrangements of primary and secondary school students. But this does not mean that parents can make a holiday plan in replace their children. For example: A fifth grade boy in elementary school, when he heard that his mother had to choose a summer camp for him, immediately jumped his feet and protested: "I don't want you to pick it up. This year I must choose the summer camp by myself!" The face told my parents seriously: "I want to arrange a summer vacation for myself, don't care about me!" The two children's troubles about their parents were so "unpredictable", which made adults feel frustrated. But if you look at it from another perspective, the parents of these two children should be happy: because their children are very opinionated and bravely expressed. At this time, the most important job of parents is to listen carefully what the child wants to express? Children should express their views on summer vacation. Then who is this summer vacation? Since the summer vacation is a child, listen to how they want to live! Therefore, as a parent, it is important to formulate a reasonable summer vacation plan with children. Summer Holiday

2. Parents urge their children to complete the summer vacation. It is an important part of a good summer vacation.

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In the summer vacation, because the holidays are relatively long, in order to avoid children's knowledge of knowledge, it is also necessary to make children do some summer vacation homework appropriately. Parents must have a correct understanding of this, and guide and urge their children to complete summer homework in a planned manner, so as not to assault their homework at the beginning of school. At the same time, parents have to pay attention to cultivating their children's good learning habits, and they cannot let their children do or watch TV while doing homework. Of course, many children's homework for summer vacation is made up for the last few days, but some homework cannot be supplemented in the last few days. For example Usually to complete them one by one, and then let the children have experience, perception, exercise and experience. Therefore, parents should guide their children to do a good job of summer vacation. Parents who do not plan without planning do not expect him to have a plan to complete the homework.

Some parents want to find out how their children are not planned. In fact, these children usually have signs. You depend on whether he usually wait until the last time. Even the homework in the school will take it home. I see some experienced parents always watch the summer vacation in the summer vacation to watch the summer vacation. List out and divide them into small steps. Parents will stare at the child's writing on the child's work every day. Carefulness, let the children make a hook by themselves, the more the more children's confidence, the more she will pull off her homework after the summer vacation. Some children will also look forward to returning to school to learn to play with my friends. Some parents are too lazy to manage themselves, and they clearly understand that the child is a child who has no plan. He still allows the child to develop. He said that everything is 456th grade. Let him know the consequences of the homework. In fact, as our teacher, there is no consequences that the homework does not do, and the school teacher has no way to take him. Every year when I close the summer vacation, I encounter some children who do not do the summer vacation in the summer vacation. What do our teachers take him? There are new homework in the new semester. What else can there be, and at the beginning of the beginning of each semester, the Education Bureau and the principal are the most talked about. For the sake of the child's physical and mental health, do not care about the children's winter and summer vacations to avoid extreme conditions. So parents and friends must not treat the teacher as the last firewall.

Some parents will tell their children: Do your teachers will clean up you without doing homework. In fact, the current teacher dares not to clean up your children, because the psychological crisis of children every year is very frequent. The children's homework is not done, and the dual anxiety of the start of school is facing the school. Very extreme behavior. Therefore, parents and friends should do the work of their children's homework. Do not be a shopkeeper. They need to bear a certain supervision responsibility. So after getting the job, you have to turn the time to make the child's homework clearly, buy, and the planning plan. To be honest, the summer homework of children is quite complicated. Some practical homework, such as going out, and some personalized homework, such as some small newspaper homework, results reporting, projects, and project operations. Because some homework goes back to school to evaluate the awards, parents must know how to locate the child's goals. According to the child's actual position, if your positioning is only done hard, it does not matter if the award is not awarded or not award, then let the child complete according to their own specialty. For example, if you write a tabloid, the child is written well. You can let the child draw less pictures in the layout. If the child draws better, you will let him draw more pictures and write more. Another is a common problem. Children are not good at writing. You can let the child modify the essay with reference to the essay, or he can help the parents to modify it after writing. The routes of the tour and the various inscriptions and scenes you see are easier to come back and finish. I think as long as you are a intentional parent, you can find a way to solve any child's problem. Summer vacation is a task that children must complete during this vacation. They must arrange a certain amount of homework every day according to the teacher's requirements and carefully complete the summer vacation homework.

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3. Guiding children to participate in various outdoor parent -child tourism activities is an effective way to enrich the summer vacation life

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It is said that in order to enrich their children's summer vacation, parents should give their children a free space, encourage and support their children to participate in life practice boldly, and promote children to participate in outdoor activities. Although it is said that many places in the epidemic can not go casually, there are many places around us in Taizhou, which is worthy of our tour, such as the recent newly appeared Jongshu Pavilion. In addition to work, parents should take as much time as possible and conduct beneficial activities such as swimming, reading, traveling, making small crafts with their children. They can also travel according to some practical assignments arranged by the school. For example, our Taizhou Youth League Committee Xiaohong Meng's red base, small feet walking in Taizhou and other activities to visit the science and technology museums, museums, Great Wall Ziyang Street in Linhai, Guoqing Temple in the rooftop, Dachen Island of Jiaojiang, Lu'an Pauli Cemetery in Luqiao, the former residence of Doctor Dai, the former residence of Doctor Dai, Wait next to the three gate pavilions. Another example is to see the sky of Haitaizhou in Taizhou, as well as several new libraries in Taizhou, beautiful rural dots, and summer camp activities organized by youth activity bases. It can allow children to do travel strategies by themselves, such as Personnel arrangements, travel methods, walking routes, epidemic prevention and control, necessary items, etc. Parents and friends can mention it appropriately, but remember not to point their feet, to allow children to be imperfect and unsuccessful. Because of the first successful experience, the next child will be more perfect.

Some parents may say that there is no time, then we may wish to have a few family contracts for summer vacation, such as asking for a year vacation. This week, my family takes a few baby to travel. Next week, your family will take these baby to travel. Just arrange for about 5 weeks or so. can. Of course, in the process of parent -child tourism, parents should pay attention to their subtle educational role, teach their children's basic social etiquette through physical strength, and at the same time run the citizen's morality and environmental awareness. Choosing to travel or visiting children not only broaden the horizons, know a lot of things that can't be learned in classrooms and books, but also understand the customs and customs of the motherland, and increase knowledge and knowledge.

Fourth, reading a book with your children to watch a drama, which is the best choice for cultivating holiday sentiment

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I personally think that parents and children read a book together. After reading it, it is also a good way to communicate with each other. Reading does not necessarily only refer to paper books, or e -books, film and television books, etc. involving aviation, science science, comics, literature, history, etc. This method can not only let parents understand some things in the hearts of their children and treat some things, treat some things, treat some things and treat some things, treat some things, treat some things, treat some things, treat some things and treat some things, treat some things and treat some things, treat some things and treat some things and treat some things. The ideas of the characters are more conducive to guidance and educating children, and at the same time cultivate children's interest in reading. For example, when the child enters the middle and high grades, the rebellion may appear. Why is the child rebellious? I have been thinking about this problem. I found that the rebellion was because we had no common language foundation with our children. For example, when children were writing or when they were doing problems, they always thought of the treasure in "The Secret of the Bao Gourd". Gourd, if I also have a treasure gourd, he hopes to have a treasure gourd like the owner in the book, then what there will be, and then you will not want to do such a monotonous operation that makes him embarrassed. Essence If we have also read this book, you can talk to the child about this treasure gourd and ask: Do you really want a treasure gourd like Wang Bao, make him feel that your guidance is very good Interest, he will say yes, there will be a gourd to help me do all of these, don't worry about it. Then you can ask if you really have that treasure gourd, what do you think it will give you benefits and what will it bring? Then the child may think that it might take me to bring me other classmates and replace the name with me. But the teacher or classmates will find that this is not what I wrote or I did from the handwriting, which is plagiarism. It will be embarrassing, and I ca n’t say it clearly. Reading not only helps to grow knowledge, develop intelligence, but also cultivate sentiment, transfer the temptation of television and games. The summer vacation is the time for children to cultivate reading interest and accumulate reading. It is recommended to choose one or more good books in combination with interests or teachers recommended, so that children can take at least 1 hour in a quiet environment every day in a quiet environment. Be the most beautiful reader.

5. Reasonably arrange labor education and strive to be a good child who develops moral, intellectual, physical and beautiful

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The Central Committee of the Communist Party of China and the State Council released the "Opinions of Labor Education in the New Era" and the revision of the "Education Law of the People's Republic of China" in the new period of the new period to the "Education Law of the People's Republic of China" in 2020. Serving socialist modernization and serving the people must be combined with production labor and social practice to cultivate socialist builders and successors who have developed comprehensive development of morality, intellectual, physical and labor. " Many changes to our lives have brought about our lives. What we can do is to strengthen labor and conform to the trend of the times.

The current problem of labor education

1. Formulate: "Educational Significance" of "Labor Form" Light "Educational Significance"

2. One -sided: focusing on "brain labor" light "physical labor"

3. Clear: focus on "personal practice" light "collective labor"

4. Tools: focus on "hard work" and light "characteristic development"

5. Fragmentation: heavy "high -profile forward" light "overall planning"

Let's take a look at the role of labor education:

Individual role: Promote the comprehensive development of students, cultivate newcomers in the times with labor spirit and highlighting labor skills, and improve the system of education in the new era. Social functions: promoting the social style of labor and happiness

Children who love to do housework are difficult to be excellent, because they have the mentality of lifting their sleeves.

Doing housework will promote the development of children's intelligence

Doing housework will cultivate children's sense of responsibility

Doing housework will promote children's social functions

Doing housework will help children build order of life

The most important thing for happy labor is of course mentality !!!

Since labor is unavoidable, we must appreciate its advantages

For example, labor can enhance physical fitness, courier, takeaway brothers, and porters, etc., lay a good foundation for future careers. Even teachers and doctors are inevitable. Doctors' first aid, teacher running, etc.

Labor can also save money !!!

You know, 300 oceans need to be cleaned once a week. If you contracted the health work at home, you can reduce a small expense every year. And family labor is the responsibility of each family member.

Parents should tell their children: According to the habit of rectifying a 21 -day habit, work a little bit every day, you will have a huge change and persistence after one year.

Do you think that labor must be sweaty, and you can't afford your waist? In fact, labor can also be very simple. For example, during the summer vacation, parents should consciously guide their children to make some such as sweeping the floor, dishes, stacked quilts, courier newspapers, and taking courier newspapers. The housework that can be done in the ability to pour garbage and other force, so that the housework of the child must be interesting, such as helping to set the dining table, let him put some colorful, pattern table cushions, napkins, etc In the basket of Mickey Mouse, so that children will be interested in housework and do to do it. Increase the competition in labor, such as playing games with "more clean and cleaner" by playing with children, properly open some children's favorite music, and do it in happiness together. I believe that children will prefer.

In addition, in the summer, it is necessary to strengthen physical exercise. How to exercise? Generally, physical education teachers in schools will give students scientific exercise guidance. Different exercises every day.Exercise, plus some parents always like to report swimming, taekwondo, etc. to children.Cultivating the habit of exercising from an early age can not only improve the child's immunity, but also improve the child's endurance and mental state.During the summer vacation, at least one hour of exercise time should be arranged every day. It is recommended to carry out with your friends. In addition to exercise, you can also enhance communication with your peers.Dear parents and friends, if your child is very self -disciplined for a day, then please draw a smile for your child. When the child holds a smile with a smiley face, I believe your child must have passed a fulfilling one.summer vacation.come on!

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