What is more precious than Jiashu is the long love and body teaching -read "He Bai Li Family Book" 丨 cover book review

Cover reporter Zhang Jie intern Zheng Hao

The pictures are provided by He Kaisi

"Yan's Family Training", "Zeng Guofan Family Book", "Liang Qichao's Family Book", "Fu Lei Family Book", many outstanding family books have already walked out of the small home due to exuding wisdom, which has become an important part of the public spiritual food. In Luzhou, Sichuan, there is also a good story of family Fengxin and family books, which have been spread to this day. That is, the father of the famous artist He Kaisi, the family members of He Bai Li, the celebrities of Luzhou Education.

He Baili graduated from the Department of Foreign Literature of Sichuan University in the 1930s and served as the principal of Luzhou No. 1 Middle School and the principal of the Luzhou Normal School. He Bai Li's father, He Liancheng, was the principal of the first new school city in Luzhou in the late Qing Dynasty and early Republic of China. Such a veined education family, family education is also very successful. He Bai Li not only in the society in the society, but also the four love son under his knees, all of which are all talented, and the family style is long and long.

▲ Family portrait: He Kai Four, He Kaiyi, mother Wang Wen'an, He Kaiji, father He Baili, He Kai Sang Spring in 1953

The four brothers of the He family are called Kaiyi, Kai Two, Kai San, and Kai Four (because they are named by the word "opening" because of the word "opening", the ranking order of the children is named after the order of "opening").

Open, enlightened. The eldest majors of the He family are petroleum, and the second majors are metallurgical and are senior engineers. The third child graduated from Sichuan University with senior editors and senior newspapers. There are quite a lot of achievements in their respective fields. He Jia, the third Ho Kai, is a well -known newspaper in Shu, and the celebrities of the press are longer than reporting literature. The fourth child of the He family is He Kaisi, a senior literary critic and a famous master. He Kai 4 graduated from Peking University in 1968, graduated from Xiamen University (Master Graduate) in 1982. He was the vice chairman of the Sichuan Writers Association and chairman of the Sichuan Provincial Literary and Art Critics Association.

▲ He Bai Li and He Kai San

▲ He Kai Er, He Baili, He Kai four in the autumn of 1967

In general imagination, the four brothers of the He family who grew up in such a standard education family should be very strict, and they will often be urged to study hard in the study. But in fact, this is not the case. Recalling the family education I have received since childhood, He Kaisi emphasized many times, "Our family atmosphere is very democratic and open -minded, and the elders lead by example. At the same time, they encourage their children to study hard, but they don't care about their grades. Nature has more contact, exercise a strong physique, and nourish the spirit of the spirit. "

From home book to family tabloid

The descendants of He's descendants are

After the four brothers of the He family grew up, because their careers were separated from various places. In order to continue mental contact with the children of the heavens, He Baili wrote a letter to maintain close communication all year round. In order to make the family book more efficient, he also created a system of public books -from writing to everyone alone, to writing a small newspaper to publish a public home letter, and guided He's in Pingtian, True Love, and Unrestrained Education to guide He's Later generations lead the descendants to read, do people, and do things. In 1980, He Baili established a monthly family book system. In 1983, the family book was adjusted to "Family Talk". In addition to writing a family book on it, it was also allowed to introduce the family's life, study and work through family books. Can tell a local interesting story, local style. "Family Tiber" once a month, the journal is 17 on the 17th month, and 6 copies are written each period, 5 copies are issued, and 1 copy is deposited. In 1993, because of the weakness of Bai Li, "Family News" was suspended. "Family News" was founded on November 17, 1983, and a total of 117 issues were compiled by July 1993.

▲ He Bai Li

不管是写给个人的书信，还是家庭全体成员阅读的《家庭小报》，何白李的书信文章，题材广泛，内容深刻隽永，涉及家事、天下事，关涉读书、做人、写作、谋事、书画、 Ethics, education, philosophy, literature and art, history and many other fields have clear insights and love. He Baili infiltrated traditional culture, and he is proficient in foreign languages. He has deep cultivation. His family books have no worldwide conservation, no prosecution blame, and excessive style. In particular, he proposed the eight -character family style: harmony, diligence, hard work, and pursuit, which became the main theme of He's family books. "I still remember the 8 -character style that my father gave us in harmony is the first expectation." He Kaisi recalled.

When the children have not left Luzhou, He Bai Li has always been an example. "In the 1950s and 1960s, the supplies were serious. It was a luxury thing to eat a moon cake to eat a moon cake." He Kaisi said. For a moon cake, He Bai Li will cut it into six pieces. Here, the parents and children's personality are completely equal. The fourth son of the He family has been bravely communicated with his parents and maintained a healthy and good attitude. One year, He Baili went to Peking University to visit He Kaisi. The father and son started a Go in the dormitory. The intimate and equal atmosphere made the classmates sigh "Similar brothers, I am so envious."

In 2020, He Baili's previous year to Jiaotong and Luzhou scholar Lan Yongsheng read these books and believed that "once it is public, it will definitely illuminate the soul of many people." In 2022, these batch of He's family books were officially published by Bashu Book Society in the name "He Bai Li Family". With the advent of the Internet and informatization era, the family scholars Xinxin is becoming rare. These books are photocopied, organized and published, and they are precious.

More important than reading people to read the seeds of love little by little

After reading "He Bai Li's Book", he couldn't help feeling that He Bai Li's family education concept was open, advanced, and exuding the light of wisdom. In the 3rd home newspaper in January 1984, He Baili mentioned "challenge daily" and "resolutely do not let a day of time be used. Being a person must be a person who is today, and poetry should be used as a poem today." In the home newspaper in April 1984, He Bai Li asked his younger generations to develop three good habits from an early age. "First, the habit of getting up early. In addition to getting up early exercise, early reading training should be strengthened. English ... The purpose of reading Chinese is to improve the level of speech and writing. The purpose of reading English is to master a foreign language tool to enable further scientific research and work in the future. The second is the habit of labor. This is moral training. The first step. All kinds of bad thoughts and bad living habits often start from not working. The younger generation must take labor as an indispensable part of daily life. Working. The third is the habit of writing. "

Everyone knows the importance of reading. While emphasizing the benefits of reading, He Bai Li did not stay on a single encouragement reading. In the 12th Issue of the Home News in October 1984, He Baili wrote, "Of course, reading is good, reading people is also important. The importance of reading people is not as good as reading. From some perspectives, the importance of reading people is important Sex is far better than reading. Reading people must be good at reading, starting from early. The book is a person who writes a text. If you are familiar with people, you must be able to conduct a variety of activities in the crowd, be good at solidifying people, good at cooperating with each other, and do what you should do. "

▲ The original manuscript

Behind the letter is a person. Although the book is important, it has to be said that after all, the family book is just "words." From the perspective of He Kaisi, his father He Baili educated his children, and the more successful person lies in "tutoring". "From my memories, I woke up in my father's reading every morning. He chanted Tang poetry and Song poetry in the morning every morning, read English, and kept it until his old age. Father's learning is a lifestyle, a source of spiritual happiness, the source of spiritual happiness , Not with utilitarian purpose. This habit of life learning is a kind of ears and dazzling education. "He Kaisi specifically mentioned that" the father has been kept from elementary school and kept in his old age. It's also very good. Learning a foreign language is a way of thinking. "

Thinking of my father's teachings, what He Kaisi repeatedly felt that his father attached great importance to physical education. "When we were young, we would not let us stay at home and go out to exercise. The benefits of this habit, on the one hand, Our brothers are better in physical fitness. On the other hand, we have a free mood. There is no sense of depression, and we have developed more freedom and healthy. Father believes that sports is a carrier of spiritual, healthy body and health. . The descendants of the He family liked to exercise due to this, and benefited a lot from it. "

In the end, it is worth noting that He Bai Li's family books began with "mother, mother -in -law, grandma". He Bai Li also explained in the letter, "In order to adapt to the different names of the second and third generations, the family books will start in the future. At the same time, the establishment of the family book system, the setting of the third generation scholarship is to commemorate the mother, mother -in -law, grandma, grandma . Without the strong support and help of mothers, mother -in -law, grandma, my father and grandfather could not do their work and study with all the time for decades. In a sense, it will always be with us. "

In order to commemorate Ms. Wang Wenan's hard work in her life, He Baili also drafted the "Interim Measures for the Wen'an Family Scholarship" to use the 300 yuan accumulated by Ms. Wang Wenan as a family scholarship. Strive for useful talents who are knowledgeable and can contribute to the country and society.

Many details can be seen that He Bai Li respects women and loves every family member. The paper is short and long. Behind the tutoring of the family style, the body of the body and the body of the body is the most moving force.

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