Reporter's notes | Report a family of five people who have been abducted, and they are more important than the truth

Reporter Li Jing

Four of the family of five were abducted, which is undoubtedly an extremely special news event. But as a reporter, I still have a lot of regrets.

On the evening of June 20, I brushed a video online. In the video, a woman said, "Hello everyone, my name is Cai Youqun, my brother found it, in Guangdong ... I hope everyone will continue to help me find my mother and sister."

This is the first time I saw Sister Cai's story, and I was stabbed by several keywords in her self -introduction on her social platform. Four of the family of five were abducted, and such things happened in reality. We have been paying attention to the group of relatives and knowing the pain and difficulties of relatives. I think we should do something for Sister Cai and let the public see the truth.

On the morning of June 21, I contacted Sister Cai. It is not easy to communicate with relatives. Because they told it once, it meant that the scars were revealed once. Therefore, I try to protect Sister Cai's emotions.

From the language of Sister Cai's fragments, I put together her past experience. In 1981, the three sisters of the Cai family followed their parents from their hometown of Chongqing to Jianyang Xikou Village, Pingnan, Fujian. A family of five people lived in the rental house. In November of that year, Dad Cai went out to work. Mother Cai was deceived and never went home. Subsequently, the three sisters and brothers were trafficked to different places. In this way, because of a "planning" trash, the family had become four cracked.

Speaking of Sister Cai's life experience after being abducted, Sister Cai said that her adoptive father died, and she was forced to drop out of school until the third grade. "I have known that I have been trafficked since I was a child, and I have been growing up in pain." Then I continued to talk, Sister Cai was vague. Her silence is like protecting her shell.

In 2017, Sister Cai finally found her father. In order to find her family, Sister Cai has been waiting for herself to grow up, and her forbearance is very affordable. His father often borrowed wine because of his wife ion. After two years of gathered father and daughter, the father died. Looking for moms and younger brothers and sisters is the regret of my father and the wish of Sister Cai.

After a lapse of 41 years, until June 20 this year, Sister Cai had the news of her younger brother Cai Youjun. How many of them are there! I asked Sister Cai, when did I recognize my relatives with my brother? Sister Cai was silent again, and after a few minutes, I said, "I want to see him right away now, but I am a little worried, because my brother does not know his identity." It can be seen that Sister Cai is looking forward to Essence

Compared with the question and answer of the floating light, I want to sink into her life in a deep understanding of more truths. So, since that day, I have been paying attention to her dynamics.

On June 24, Sister Cai found the reason why the younger brother was delayed to recognize each other. "The adoptive parents once told his brother that he was sold by his biological father, so his brother resentful of his biological father."

On July 1, Sister Cai and her brother Cai Youjun recognized each other. Sister Cai was thin and hesitated for a long time at the door, and finally died and knocked on the door of the younger brother. Sister Cai cried and said to my brother, "I have been looking for you for more than forty years." From finding my brother to persuading brother, to his brother and brother to recognize his relatives, and unbuttoning his brother for many years, Sister Cai did not know how much effort has paid.

On July 2nd, Sister Cai and her relatives Du Xiaohua, and the volunteer Shangguan justice and others returned to the place where her family of four was abducted, trying to find effective clues.

On the evening of July 3, I got the good news of Sister Cai to find "sister". The next day, I was excited and a little careful to contact Sister Cai. This interview was still not as smooth as I thought.

At that time, Sister Cai was on the train, and her sister and brother had recognized their relatives. When people were middle -aged, Sister Cai knew that she was not her sister Cai Youqun, but her sister Cai Youhong. She lifted a small corner of the abduction life and opened it to see it. She once told her that she bought it with 300 yuan to be a child. She had a new name in her family, and when she grew up, she married the eldest son of the supporting family and had a pair of children. Talking about the current life, Sister Cai said, that's it. In her tone, there was helplessness and fate. I asked her, which name I want to live in the future? She said, I want to be Cai Youhong, this is the real me. This decisive answer makes people feel sad and moved.

On July 8th, the three sisters and brothers went to the father's grave. The three sisters and brothers were reunited, but the house was gone. They saw only a pile of loess of their father, and the 78 -year -old mother had not found it yet.

How did my brother find it? How did my sister find it? Because the family was abducted, what kind of life did the father live by his father later? What are the unknown stories after the three sisters and brothers have been abducted? How should the "traffickers" that cause this family tragedy? I want to know these. Sister Cai couldn't avoid those pains, and she was often choking, so I couldn't bear to ask several times.

For a long time, we have paid attention to the group of relatives, launched the "looking for relatives" columns, and published information about relatives to help relatives speak. Since the launch of the "looking for a relative" column, we have interviewed nearly 30 abducted families. The most tragic thing I have ever seen was that Sister Cai was abducted. When I saw the most regrettable, when Xu Jianfeng, who was abducted for 31 years, was found. His mother Yang Suhui had died, and the mother and son were WeChat friends ... These broken families were because of "trafficking." The abducted family is unfortunate, and every abduction family has its own unfortunate.

In the interview, we need to consider the emotions of relatives, and we must not blindly ignore their feelings to pursue the truth.Sometimes, feel is more important than the truth.We are willing to wait, when "Cai Youhong" can face and willing to tell, we will answer it.The abducted family eventually reunited, this is also the original intention of the "looking for a relative".What we expect is that the story of "Cai Youhong" no longer repeats, and "there is no turbulence in the world" becomes a reality.

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