Jia Zheng in the Dream of Red Mansions is not false. He is a typical typical of all father in the world.
Author:Read the Red Mansion Time:2022.07.10
Jia Zheng is the second master of the Rongguo Mansion. He is not accustomed to the customs, either chat with a group of Qing customers, or let go of his office as an official, and rarely cares about family affairs, but he is very concerned about Baoyu's studies.
The most important reason for Jia Zheng to care about Baoyu's studies is, of course, he hopes that Baoyu takes the road of imperial examinations and is committed to his career economy and complete his unfinished road.
After all, Jia Zheng at the beginning was readily read. If it wasn't for the emperor, he rewarded him an official. Presumably, he later rely on his ability to do something on his career.
When Baoyu grabbed the week, he only grabbed the fat powder ring. As a result, Jia Zheng was furious as his father. Of course, there is no scientific basis. After growing up, Jia Baoyu did not like to read a serious book, but he did not become a wine -colored.
Some people say that Jia Zheng's harmoniousness is false, and from his attitude towards Baoyu, he explains. Although he always looked down on Baoyu's exquisite naughty, he could not help but do his way, but he couldn't help but laughed at Baoyu's crooked poetry couplet.
The Trial of Grand View Garden Test the Terminal Time is the most eased period of father and son relationship. This also has to thank those who are good at human beings.
They knew that Jia Zheng wanted to test Baoyu's talent, so he was willing to make green leaves, only to say some vulgar words, and left a stage for Jia Baoyu to show his performance. Between the words, a father's affirmation of his son was revealed.
Jia Zheng's false scriptures are that he never affirmed his son, even if he was very satisfied, at most, he just nodded and "nodded", and even said "ignorance Sinic barrier "" fork out "and other training words.
Jia Zheng is about many representatives of Yan's father in the world, and it is also a typical example of his parents. They looked at the children and had high hopes for their children, but they never showed their affirmation and satisfaction. Instead, they often hated iron. The children are repelled, even beating.
All the unscrupulous Da Chengsheng tart once, and was completely opposite to the Test of the Da Guanyuan Test. The father and son had no poems to ease the answer, and it turned into sticks and tears.
An old father hated iron and steel, and a unwilling son did all the absurdity. The contradiction between the father and the son reached a climax. In fact, everyone who came here understood that, as a father, Jia Zheng, if it wasn't for Baoyu, he would not be able to play this poisonous hand.
Jia Baoyu is out of flowers, gifted private things, studied at home and studied at home, insulting mother -in -law ... You just do not read a serious book, and do these things that do not have. This father killed Baoyu several times.
Jia Zheng's fighting Baoyu just reflected the father's expectations of his son and his disappointment. Although Baoyu did not read the serious book, after all, Yu poetry was a bit talented. Although Jia Zheng was not satisfied, he was not here, and his mother was stopped in his head, so he had to do so.
Jia Zheng's management of Baoyu is often powerless and helpless, because Jia mother is petted, Mrs. Wang is drowned, and he is often working outside the official. He couldn't take care of it at all.
But as a father's responsibility, as long as he is at home, as long as he thinks of it, he has to learn Baoyu from time to time and ask his homework. Time inspection Baoyu's homework, no longer took Baoyu to visit guests, and ordered his poem during the banquet at home.
As a father, Jia Zheng has always been concerned about Baoyu's studies. As he grows older, he has more and more hope that Baoyu will grow in his homework. Even if you do not take the imperial examination in the future, at least he can inherit his ancestors' family business. Can stand up.
To say that the parents of infatuation, Jia Zheng is definitely the most obsessed one. As long as he has time, as long as he is at home, he almost never gives up the education of Baoyu. He hopes that he can have the director. Old, and the door of his room is also supported by Jia Baoyu's son.
Therefore, we see that in addition to the "breath of qi", "the noodles of qi are like golden paper", but also "panting and standing straight on the chair, tears on the face", "No Jue Chang sighed, sitting on the chair, tears under the rain. "" The tears rolled down like a melon. "
The daughter Yuan Chun province was as dazzling when he was in his pro -time. He was able to maintain his mind and persuade his daughter to focus on state affairs. Qi was in the heart of the father, and it had been chaotic. This son disappointed him too much. Since his mother and wife are rescued, what can he do except for the old tears?
As Baoyu grew up, Jia Zheng later seemed to be obsessed with letting Baoyu get his reputation. As long as he had a talent in a certain aspect, he could stand on his life. What's more, Baoyu's talent, whether it is inside Jiafu or walking out of Jiafu, can get a shot, which can also make Jia Zheng's old father's old face a little light.
Gradually, Master Zheng no longer stared at Baoyu's homework and studies, but learned to let go of Baoyu's prejudice to discover the advantages of his strengths. Baoyu. If you talk about miscellaneous studies, you can't reach it. "He also believed that Uncle Jia Huan's nephew was" stagnant and blunt, not as good as Baoyu Kong Lingjuan. "
Jia Zheng finally "not forced him to force him." Because he found that Baoyu did not read the serious book, he could learn from it and accepted himself. "In this regard, the elderly father Jia Zheng finally stopped looking down on this unwillingness of this" nation in the country ". He also seemed to have discovered, why wasn't Jia Baoyu herself when he was young? At that time, Jia Zheng was also a person in poetry wine. Later, when he was a husband and father, his instinct responsibility made him have to pay attention to the academic studies of his nephews, and he had no rules.
Like all father, Jia Zheng initially expected our children to go according to the route we planned for them. We found that there are tens of millions of roads in the world, and children in the world are different, and not every child will take this road.
Instead of forcing the children to take the path we choose for them, it is better to let go of their prejudice and obsession, discover the strengths and advantages of the child, and guide and encourage them to embark on their favorite path. Isn't it the success of another meaning on the road where they choose?
Baoyu is not wrong, Jia Zheng is not wrong. He is a parent. Who does not want his child to be out of place in the future. Who does not want youth to be blue and better than blue? I believe that the elderly Jia Zheng was pleased and satisfied with Jia Baoyu. Thinking of the prejudice of Baoyu's "wine" when he caught Zhou, Master Zheng would laugh at it?
Author: Xi Si Shao, this article is the original works of the Red Mansion.
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