The People's Daily summarized 40 education etiquette and taught children to children in the summer vacation.

Author | Watermelon Mom

Source | Boys' original

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Recently, a mother left a message in the background, and I was very touched after reading it.

Her son was in the second grade of elementary school this year, and his studies have always performed very well. In the final exam just ended, all subjects are also close to a full score state, and they also receive a prize.

But when she celebrated the joy of her son, she saw the class teacher's final comment, which was completely EMO.

It says:

"You are very smart and have good grades, but the behavior habits are very bad.

The teacher has criticized you many times, but still has not been corrected. I hope you can make changes next semester, abide by discipline in class, and have a good relationship with your classmates ... "

This mother was surprised when she first saw it. Although her son was favored from an early age, she really became a little bit and proud, but she would not develop to such a annoying point.

Then she called the class teacher of the children and wanted to ask the specific situation. I did not expect that the class teacher had a ruthless complaint.

she says:

"I have always felt that I have made my child's education very successfully, with excellent grades and cheerful personality, but how did it become like this all of a sudden? Is it true that I have raised my son?"

In fact, many parents have a wrong thinking -students, just learn it, others are secondary.

Therefore, when he casually takes others and does not ask the elders, you don't take it;

When playing with children, when you occupy public toys, you go from him;

When yelling to the elders, you appreciate his courage;

When you eat, you can take care of yourself, but you feel that he is full ...

In this way, the child's "bad and annoying" characteristics breed a little bit, and all this has gradually masked it on the grounds of good results.

In the end, it became a selfish indifference, not understanding others, and annoying people.

In the final analysis, there are often problems with education and rules.

The famous international psychologist and writer Jordan Peterson once said such a sentence:

"I will never let my own children become a annoying monster!"

So what kind of children are more popular? How can parents help them?

"People's Daily" summarized 40 educational etiquette for all parents for reference.

1. Morality

2. Social articles

3. Outdoor chapter

When talking about the education standards for the three children, Teacher Venus said such a paragraph:

"One day the child goes to the society, and it is not annoying.

When children walk into the society, they are annoying, and they really fail on the starting line. "

Take it seriously.

Children always leave us and break through society alone, and we now give them too much "petal" and "doting", which will inevitably bring huge harm in the future.

Therefore, when you really love your children, please teach him the wisdom of getting along with people and the ability to get along with the world before he leaves your sight.

Because excellent character is true wealth, and what is lining is good education.

Good education will make children live happier and walk longer, and be gently treated by the world.

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