Night reading 丨 The law of chopsticks: No square, no round, no circle can not be achieved

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Some people say: "The Chinese people's chopsticks are very knowledgeable. One end is square and the other is round. If both ends are round, then the chopsticks are easy to roll off. If both ends are square, it is not convenient to clamp things." Some Circle head, chopsticks are useful; there are square heads, chopsticks can stand.

This is the same as the nature of the Chinese people. There is a principle of standing in the same way, and there is no wisdom of doing things.

Unbelievable

"Rights are not right, you can't be a square." A person can only hold on to the principles and talk about the rules. If there is no guideline and breakthrough at will, it will be difficult for this person to do a career.

Song Taizu Zhao Kuangyin once served as a general in the later week. During the palace, he often asked Cao Bin, who was holding tea wine beside the emperor for the royal wine. Cao Bin said, "This is a public wine, you can't give you." Then he paid Zhao Kuangyin to drink.

Later, Zhao Kuangyin established the Northern Song Dynasty. He said: "The officials around Sejong, Cao Bin is the most adopt the rules." He treated Cao Bin as his confidant. As a result, Cao Bin also became a general in the Song Dynasty from a tea -wine and wine.

A person has principles in his heart, and being a rule can be favored by everyone. If a person has no principles and bottom lines, and is not reliable to do things, then everyone will respect and stay away sooner or later.

The Dongdu of the Tang Dynasty stayed in Lu Yuanzheng and often played chess with one of his staff. Once he was playing chess, someone sent an emergency document for him to deal with it. While the staff didn't pay attention, he secretly moved the chess pieces. However, all this was clearly seen by Lu Yuanzheng, but he didn't say it.

Sure enough, the staff won this game afterwards. The next day, the staff member was talking about how he was superb, and Lu Yuanzhang sent him to gold and silver and invited the staff.

"The greatest ability of people is not talent, high emotional intelligence, or strong ability, but character." A person trusts you and gives you things to you with confidence. This is a very valuable personality charm.

"Hanging and knowing the level, setting up rules and knowing rounds; things in the world must be ruled." If you want to become a square, you must set the rules, and the rules are restrained. The most valuable thing to travel in the world is that you can adhere to your bottom line.

The character is the foundation of a person's standing, and it is also the hardest card of a person.

Non -round

I often hear people say that the inside and outer circle. There must be principles in the heart, but it must be wise. The principle of inner heart is mainly used to ask yourself, but the life needs to be "rounded".

"Yuan Rong" is not "smooth", the difference between the two lies in the mind.

The heart is not right, the heart is poor, and the cleverness is smooth; the heart is pure, seeing the opportunity, convenient, and benefiting everyone, it is round.

At the end of the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Zhidong, a famous minister, was a world -renowned person. When he served as the governor of Shanxi, the owner of the Taiyu ticket number would send him ten thousand silver to him, and Zhang Zhidong naturally rejected it. However, he took into account that a remedy was issued to the people at that time, so he persuaded Boss to donate the silver to do good deeds for the people in Shanxi, and to change the name of the name with silver.

Boss Kong expressed his willingness to donate 50,000 silver, but he proposed two conditions: one was to ask Zhang Zhidong to write a plaque for his ticket number "the first integrity ticket number in the world", and the other was to donate a candidate. The official title.

Donation of a Daodai, this court allows Zhang Zhidong to barely agree that for the first condition, he considers that he knows nothing about the votes of Boss Kong. Intersection

After repeated thinking, Zhang Zhidong promised to be the plaque of "The First Integrity in the World" of the boss of Kong. These six words mean that the first important virtue of the world is the word "integrity", and it is not necessarily that the integrity of the Taiyu ticket number is the first in the world.

Zhang Zhidong raised 50,000 silver to the people of Shanxi in a round way, which can be said to benefit one party.

It is not necessary to do things, not to meet and see the wind, but to understand flexibility and change, take care of others' feelings, make the relationship harmonious, and make things smoother.

"Doing people and doing things can be rounded." Fang is constantly changing, and the circle is unchanged by all transformation; It is necessary to treat others, to be round; In this way, we can go further.

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