Night reading | Growth is painful, but it is also meaningful

In the dozens of storms of decades, we will always experience big and small things, big and small, unpleasant things, some things can be solved by ourselves, but we can do nothing.

In fact, most things will be resolved. Choosing to cry or walk down with a smile, all in your thoughts, although this process will make you feel extremely painful.

Everything has two sides

Growing up in the pain of failure, summarizing experience, summarizing lessons, re -dating self, and learning from the failure lessons of the past.

Many times, it seems that everything is zero, and it may actually be a new starting point. After everything, it seems that it is a phoenix Nirvana rebirth. You will find that the previous distress is not worth mentioning. In this process, our Life will become easier.

Even if you encounter a lot of difficulties, face it with a strong mentality, you should eat, sleep and sleep, keep hard, and maintain a good attitude, then many problems will be solved.

All growth and experience are meaningful. If you have this true feeling, you must work harder at critical moments.

Enter from sadness and strike

Pain and sadness are things that are innate in humanity. Sadness and sadness are common sense. More importantly, how to face up to pain and face the lessons behind the failure.

The academic advancement has no results, the work is not smooth, the project has no eyebrows, quarrels with family members, etc.

More or less will cause pain due to the different values ​​of each person, but the growth of growth is rising. It will inevitably contradicts on the road of twists and turns.

In the lessons of failure, we can all grow better in this, the process of growth requires failure and painful nourishment, so that we will be more conducive to the next experience and success.

Failure is not terrible. The terrible thing is that it is impossible to learn from it and cannot see your mistakes from it. If you can only increase your sadness and shame and become angry, then the failure brings is just the shackles of emotions, not a nutritional product that is conducive to growth. Essence

Don't give up growth because of pain

At the age of 15, I felt difficult to swim, gave up swimming, and met a person you like to swim at the age of 18. You have to say "I can't." At the age of 18, I feel that English is difficult and gives up in English. At the age of 28, a great job has to be English. You have to say "I can't."

The more troublesome in the early days of life, the more lazy to learn, the more likely to miss the people and things that make you tempted, and miss the new scenery.In the process of learning, pain and loneliness are inevitable, but it is also the pain of these learning that allows you to grow constantly, so that you can eventually become a better person.

One day, all the pains you have experienced will become a gift for the mountains, rivers, and stars, but at this difficult moment, I hope you can survive, believe in yourself, survive, and hope.

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