Rebirth Essay | Speaking of hanging thoughts

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It was another holiday. In the morning, he received a greeting from his friend Wu Jun from his hometown of Wuhu Village: "Where?" I replied: "Beijing." "When will you come back? Follow the wind. "Yeah, just recently, my friend He Jun sent a WeChat greeting from his hometown and asked the same question. I made the same answer.

The unpredictability of the epidemic has brushed a lot of plans. Fortunately, I have a strong friendship of friends. Even in the days of the community control, I can still receive greetings from distant places.

Hanging is a psychological induction. The interaction between people must first invest with each other, communicate with each other, and feel the goodwill of each other. Essence Why do friends miss you? Explain that you are helpful to your friends. Good humanity is not from the sky. If a person can compare his heart, think in other places, and often consider problems from the perspective of others, then he will be popular.

Why does friendship come out? It is because of the common experience in those people and things, leaving precious memories. Russian poet Pushkin wrote in a poem "If Life deceived you": "If life deceives you, don't be sad, don't be anxious! You need to calm down in the melancholy days: believe it, happy days will come! Yearning for the future; now it is often melancholy: everything is instantaneous, everything will pass; and the one that passes will become cordial nostalgia. "The most important thing to associate with friends is to treat others with sincerity and grasp the present.

Today, I went to the Diaoyutai Villa to make a painting together. I drew four Shou Tao pictures in a row, and three of them were settled by Brother Shan Peng. The thoughts are because of a common hobby. People who like to paint together do not feel tired when painting; people who like to travel together do not feel far away; those who like to read together can surround the furnace and talk about the night to talk about the night. Essence Why? Aspirations.

As the saying goes: "Things gather together, people are divided into groups." Before eating Chinese meals in Shanpeng, two old friends came with ingredients, and went to the kitchen to cook and cook. Everyone enjoyed and chatted together. Everyone has a feeling of "guests to return". With the positive people, you will feel the sun, happiness and warmth. Happiness is an emotion that will be infected with each other.

Hanging is the simplest emotion of human beings. In the poet's pen, it is even more artistic. "The flower path has never been swept away, and Pengmen is now open for the king." It is a famous sentence in Du Fu's poem "Guest Destiny". Now it is regarded as a calligraphy work on the wall of my office. Lu Yan, a Taoist priest of the Tang Dynasty, wrote in the term "Wutong Shadow": "Tonight people can't come, teach people to set up the shadow of Indus", expressing that they have been waiting for a long time, and still believe that friends will not make appointments. I believe this psychological experience, many people have had it.

It is impossible for people to exist from society. As emotional animals, everyone is like a kite that was released. The other end of the line will always connect your hometown, motherland and relatives. No matter how far you go, you can't go out of your attention.

At 8 pm on July 9, 2022, write in Beijing

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