The pattern of the strong: you must fight if you are killed, you will keep it in pain, and you will be painless again.

Author: Insight on onetong

Destiny yourself, blessing yourself.

American writer Telleb divided people into two categories in the book "Anti -Flug -in"

The first is "Damocles", with a sword hanging on his head, and the sword will fall down at any time. In the face of such risks, they will only worry about it, but they are powerless.

The second category is the "nine -headed snake". Every time he cut off one head, two heads will grow, which is stronger than the original.

The response when encountering a strike of life opened the gap between people.

The real strong will fight, and they will keep it in pain.

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Must fight for death

During the Kangxi reign, bribes in the science field prevailed, and fraud became wind.

Pu Songling took the ruling four times and fell four times, but he was not depressed, and he was determined to write a "lonely angry book".

On the bronze ruler of the paper, a pair of couplets were carved:

Those who are aspirations, things are achieved,

Breaking the boat, the end of the two two Qinguans belongs to Chu;

Perfect people, the sky is upset,

Sailing, you can swallow Wu.

Pu Songling took this self -alert and finally wrote the literary masterpiece of "Liao Zhai Zhi Yi".

Destiny has a difficulty of ninety -eighty -one difficulties for everyone. Some people are regarded as flood beasts.

Some people are out of twists and turns.

For the crosstalk master Hou Baolin, the biggest difficulty in this life is to change the fate of cross talk.

In the old society, in order to amuse, the cross talk actors will bring dirty words, and even at the expense of themselves, and the crosstalk is therefore reduced to the genus of the next nine streams.

Hou Baolin hopes to change the status quo, but it is difficult to change the industry with his own strength.

But he was not timid, he set two principles for himself:

The first is to say the "mouth" of scolding people.

The second is that you don't talk about shaking his tail.

The traditional works are improved, so that the performance is both burden and clean and elegant.

He wrote down the "12 basic skills that the cross talk actors should have" with a lifelong energy, and discussed in detail how to do a good job in opening poems, how to make fun, and support.

In the end, the juggling stuff of cross talk has become the art of climbing the Church of Daya.

And he himself has also become the ancestor in the history of cross talk, which makes people upside down.

There is a sentence in "Four Trainings": Destiny self, blessed yourself.

Life is severe. If you want to avoid it again and again, it will be difficult to get in your early days.

Choose a person who is in trouble to have the opportunity to realize the reverse wind turning.

02

Everyone must guard every time

Balzak said that unfortunately, it is the ladder of genius, the baptism of believers, and the bottomless abyss of the weak.

This is also the true portrayal of his life.

Business failure and constantly being cheated by book vendors have led to his debt.

In order to hide his debt, he moved 6 times.

He laughed at his friends that I often worried about bread, candles and paper, and creditors persecuted me like persecution of rabbits. I often run around like rabbits.

However, under such a hardship, he still kept the ideal of "King of literature". He said: "Napoleon uses the cause that the sword has not completed, I want to complete it with a pen."

His residence is rude and shabby, hot and hot in summer, and cold wind in winter.

Even so, he wrote a settlement day and night, and often worked continuously for 18 hours. In less than 20 years, a total of 91 novels were created, and he finally became famous.

As Yang Yan said, everyone will have an extremely difficult time, the pressure of life, the frustration of work, and the pressure of academic studies.

No one in this life is easier than anyone else, and anyone is more able to boil than anyone.

Cicada can be stunned for a long time because it has been dormant in the dark for several seasons.

In the low valley period, we must also be able to hold the breath and take root down, so that we can keep the clouds and see the moon.

During the Kangxi reign, the court painter Leng Mei won the favor of the emperor with Gao Chao's painting skills.

The "Kangxi South Tour", which he participated in the creation, showed the magnificent scenery of Kangxi's South Tour.

He has led 14 well -known court painters to create "Wanshou Map" to 60 -year -old Kangxi's birthday.

Even the big work "Summer Summer Villa" is a painting of Kangxi's cooler.

However, during the Yongzheng period, Leng Mei was inexplicably expelled from the court painting academy. In the record of the inner court, he could no longer find any record of him.

From the endless scenery of Kangxi, to Yongzheng, it was "beaten into the cold palace". This treatment was different.

But Leng Mei was not discouraged and silently painted in the folk for thirteen years.

Because of his concentration, he was appreciated by Qianlong again in his 50s and was invited into the palace.

Without suffering, it is not enough to talk about life.

When we have a thick attitude and the wisdom of things to conform to, the moment we will be operating when we will usher in.

03

Suddenly

Albert, the author of "The Letter of Garcia", asked the executive of a famous company: "How did you examine different candidates?"

The executive mentioned a little: people who complained blindly will not be considered anyway.

In the event of incidents, not only annoying, but also easy to label themselves.

Mature people stop complaining, never showing people with sadness.

Writer Li Xiaolai has a friend named Jin Guang.

In the 1990s, Jin Guang went to a bank loan as a contractor. Because of the lack of social experience, the money loaned was quickly cheated.

In order to pay back the money, he worked hard every day.

Li Xiaolai heard his experience and knew that his life was difficult.

On one occasion, the two met in the street and asked for a place to sit down and chat. Strangely, during the chat process, Jin Guang's words did not hurt their hearts, and only shared the recent interest.

Li Xiaolai began to understand, and later understood.

"What did he say? What is the use of complaints? Others can't help."

In "The Earthly Earth", I still think that complaining to others is just futile. Instead, it is better to bear it silently.

For you, the story of heartbreaking is just for others, but it is just a talk after tea.

The so -called complaint is too much, and then he will suppress more.

Peng Cheng Wanli was speechless, but he went nine days; the water dripped day and night was silent, but he could wear stones.

The most powerful people are often silent.

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Bai Yansong asked students to choose the most impressive sentence in the Tao Te Ching.

Many people chose this sentence: the wind does not end, and the rain is not all day long.

The wind couldn't scrape all morning, and the rain could not undergo a whole day.

When you are not afraid of the storm of life, the difficulties encountered by death, destiny will eventually be clear for you.

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