The father's big pattern, the good emotion of the mother, is the best Feng Shui in the family

Author: insight · Su Mo

Home harmony, then blessing.

"Book of Changes · Family Ci" Yun: Gan Dao becomes a male, Kun Dao becomes a female, knows to know the big beginning, and Kun is made into an object.

His father is heaven, and he is far -sighted and determines the height of the family.

Mother is ground, gentle and tolerant, determining the temperature of the home.

The two complement each other and complement each other, which is the best Feng Shui at home.

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The pattern of his father determines the direction of a home. Father, as the pillar of a family, often serves as the role of decision makers and is the leader of a family.

The father's horizon hides the future of the child.

Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman, the two major talents during the Republic of China, were similar, both of which were the same beauty and intelligence.

However, the pattern of the two talented female father has taken them on two different ways.

Father Lu had always been accustomed to Lu Xiaoman, and thought that girls had to marry a good family, and spent their thoughts to cultivate her as a social label.

As a result, Lu Xiaoman, who had a waywardness, had three marriages.

She pursued extravagance, spent money like flowing water, and dyed the habit of taking opium, and finally ended a lonely illness.

Father Lin strictly requested Lin Huiyin. She asked her to receive the best education since she was a child. She often took her out to study, and she knew the big world, and told her to participate in the flashy circle.

There is a beautiful and independent daughter with a long eyes.

She and Liang Sicheng respectful as guests, stood side by side academically, participated in the design of the people's hero monuments and national emblems, and left an indelible imprint in the history of Chinese architecture.

Psychologist Spencer said: "Father is a guide for children to the outside world."

The pattern of the father is the child's world.

The quality of the father is the background of the child.

Lin Yutang, who won the Nobel Prize for Literature twice, once emotion: "In the various infectious power of my today, my father must be the most."

If it wasn't for his father's insisting on selling the house, he would have to read it, and he would not have his later literary achievements.

The most rare thing is that no matter how difficult life, Lin Father can always tell him the suffering of life into a fun story.

My father often said to him with a smile:

"Don't be sad, how do you know that the so -called difficult situation is now before coming in the future, it is not a good thing."

His father's vision, humor and optimism, like a beacon, always illuminating his way forward.

The love son of parents is far -reaching.

The best gift for children is not houses, deposits, or power, but a big pattern of father.

The father was far -sighted, and the child's eyes were naturally long -term; the father was wide, and the child must be calm and open -minded.

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Mother's emotions determine the temperature of a home. Ph.D. in psychology Hong Lan said: "Mother is the soul of the family, the mother is happy, the family is happy, and the mother's anxiety is anxious."

The mood of the mother is often a barometer of a home.

The movie "Through the Heart of the Arrow" was perfectly displayed, how an emotional unstable mother destroyed a home.

The protagonist Li Baoli has a strong personality and irritable. She is either buried at home to bury her husband's incompetence or rebuke her son who is not worrying and unwilling to yell.

Without completing the learning task, she fell the plate and fell the bowl, but the son was scared to cry.

Her bad emotions are like an irregular bomb, making this family always be in a tense and depressed atmosphere.

Therefore, when the husband was unemployed, when he thought of going home to face his wife's face, he felt hopeless and committed suicide by jumping in the river.

What's more sad is that she refused to support her when she grew up.

Perhaps the plot is a bit exaggerated, but it reflects the current situation of many families.

A "meteorological station" mother is a disaster of a family and a nightmare for children's life.

Such a home has long been exhausted, and there is no power to flourish.

Psychologist John Bobby once said: Behind an excellent family, there is often a mother with a good emotional mood.

The three sisters of the Song family heard the world, making the world envy.

It was their mother -Ni Guizhen.

Ni Guizhen married Song Jiashu, a poor pastor, never complained, and also took out all his dowry to support her husband's career.

No matter how hard life is, she is always gentle and flat, respects the choice of children, and often learn, sing, make games, and grow vegetables with children ...

Song Qingling lamented in memories: "Our mother, even at the most difficult time, still gives us a happy and comfortable life."

A mother with a stable emotion and understanding is the deepest blessing of the family.

Her mother is the soul of a family. She carries a family with a big heart, and gently surrounds you with love and accompanying every member of the family to hug you.

The mother has a good emotion. Even though such a family is cold outside the door, the room is warm.

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The love and harmony of husband and wife are the best feng shui in the family. There is a saying in "Suspension Mirror in Life": "Family has suffocation, it will decline;

If the husband and wife are not furious, no matter how rich, it will decline; the husband and wife will be loving, and no matter how poor, the family will send a family.

In the hot "The World" some time ago, Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan were embarrassed. After thousands of difficulties, they finally ushered in a good day, which was moving.

In fact, the original author Liang Xiaosheng and his wife Jiao Dan are exactly the same.

Liang Xiaosheng's family is poor, not even a decent house.

The family was not full, and my brother was mentally ill.

At the age of marriage, the girls scared away when they heard his conditions. After listening to it, Jiao Dan said with red eyes and said, "I didn't expect you to be so difficult. The burden on my shoulder is so heavy, and it takes one to help you share it."

Liang Xiaosheng was moved, and after marriage, regardless of his body weakness, he devoted himself to writing, and only hoped to give his wife a better life.

Jiao Dan, who knows her husband's hard work, try to create a writing environment for her husband. I am afraid that the children will move too much, and often hold the child to walk outside.

Not only that, she took care of her husband's old school task, and she took one hand.

When the father -in -law was sick, she stepped on the tricycle and sent him to see the doctor.

For the elder brother with mental illness, she never disliked and took care of it.

His wife's effort and hard work, Liang Xiaosheng looked in his eyes, remembering it in his heart, and he could not cook, and he began to learn to cook and help housework.

In this way, with the efforts of the two and supporting each other, the days are getting better.

What is even more gratifying is that Liang Shuang, the son of his parents' love, is also filial and sensible.

Zeng Guofan said: Homehe was born.

The harmonious family atmosphere nourishes every member, and the family trusts each other and work together.

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I especially like this sentence:

"If the father is the sun in the family, the light is guided by the glory, then the mother is the moon, and Qinghui can soothe people."

The father's realm is vast, and the children fly higher and higher.

The mother is tender like water, and her home is warm.

My father has a large pattern, the mother has a good emotion, and a family will become more and more developed.

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