"You live well, it is the best news!"A 10th sentence given a junior high school class teacher for a lifetime!

Author:China Education News Time:2022.07.09

"Cherish my own image,

When you like a bird like a bird "

"You are unique orphan,

Not the replica of others ""

"I hope you will be a warm and bloody person"

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Whenever the graduation season,

Watch the children ready to go,

Stepping on a new journey,

Teachers always have a sense of intersection.

recently,

Well -known class teacher in the country,

Zheng Ying, teacher of Hangzhou Tianhang Experimental School

Write a long letter to the children of the graduation class,

These 10 sentences have been used for a lifetime!

children:

Really, at this moment, I have three points of intersection. There are three points like the joy and perseverance when sending my daughter to marry. There are three points like the boldness and excitement of sending the strong men, and there are four points like the expectations and concerns of facing unfinished works.

First of all, I want to say solemnly, thank you:

Because of you, I see myself in the past and countless possibilities of life.

Because of you, I really realize the joy of education, and my mood becomes colorful.

Because of you, I have also gained a better self, it is your "an ordinary person, how to live a good life" and "what are the use of reading", let me calm down to think deeply, it seems The answer is for your reference. In fact, my own reflection and improvement ...

Secondly, the children are about to travel, and there are some words for the teacher to say:

Care for your own image at any time

Do the children remember the moment when I pressed the finger printed on the class convention three years ago? The solemn and longing moment was set by the shot for the teacher.

The first article of the Convention is "responsible for your own image." Children need to understand that the image is the first business card of people. The image of a person is not the appearance, but contains the vivid and specific foreign ministers under the comprehensive effects of all factors such as the messenger, the manner, the expression, the spiritual charm, and the comprehensive effects of all factors such as the mental state, and the ideological and emotion.

At any time, clean appearance, elegant behavior, decent response, and caring, and the choice based on true, good, beauty, is a speechless long -term recommendation letter.

Caring for your own image is to know what you can do, what you can't do, awe, learn to respect, and know how to be awesome.

Cherish your own image, be like a bird who loves feathers. Many years ago, one of you as an accountant said, "Teacher, my hands are clean at any time", and I am touched by the teacher and give it to you.

Learning is a lifetime

Middle school is just one of them

The ancients, after learning the lack of knowledge, insufficient knowledge and then self -reliance. Learning is the only magic weapon that self -reflection and then self -improvement, and it is also the core skill of a person's life. When you continue to learn, then every day is a new starting point. Once you stop studying, your life will fall into a deadlock.

In the vertical, learning is not a matter of time, but a lifetime thing. The whole process of life, no matter whether to participate in work or in what kind of profession, needs to be learned. Horizontal upward, learning not only refers to learning knowledge, but also learning, learning, learning, studying life, and using aesthetic attitude to live a beautiful life.

Establishing such a understanding, even if you leave the campus in the future, you will continue to improve yourself through learning, open the situation of life, and make life have greater development space and a wider world. It should be noted that life is a living textbook, and society is a vast school.

For learning, it is not "right", but "now". We often download some things with them, and often "save it" with a lot of information, or buy a bunch of books, hope to go empty and read again, but afterwards you will find that those things will basically not see you again. Because you never "empty". Therefore, learning can not seem to be positive, but actively active, and act at this moment.

Learn to get along

Human environment is operated by yourself

People are people in society. "No one is an island", and getting along with people is an important issue in life.

The experience of getting along with others is two words: sincerity and goodwill. These two points are things on the roots. With these two points, it is easy to give birth to the quality of modesty, understanding, enthusiasm, tolerance, and completion.

After two months, you have reached high school, and most of them are living in school. How to get along with your roommates, you need to prepare in advance, especially in detail in detail, such as:

Pay attention to personal hygiene;

Actively clean the dormitory hygiene;

Remember to stuff your earplugs when you listen to music and watch the video;

When you return to school on Sunday, you can bring some "mother's taste" or what roommates may need or like ...

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We are still applicable to "not adding trouble to others", "discovering the beauty of others", "consideration of others", "consciousness of others", "using a small intimateness to make surprises for others", and even applied in a lifetime.

Of course, learning to get along is not forcing myself to lose myself. Someone once asked me how to get along with others. My answer is "respecting others, depending on the fate" for children's reference.

Know how to be alone

This will never feel lonely

Knowing how to get along is a very important ability, but it cannot be ignored because of this. It is a shortcoming of bad communication. It is not another kind of regret to be alone. It is also an ability, or even a more important ability. The spiritual growth of a person requires space. It is pulled out of other affairs, leaving himself a space, and dancing at a self -sufficient inner world of a person. The spiritual life in the strict sense is began when it is alone.

Those who are good at being alone can find strength in quiet, be lonely and make it productive forces;

Those who are good at being alone can find an inner self -sufficient in the silent inner universe;

Those who are good at being alone will sincerely and soberly save themselves, thus living deeply;

People who are good at being alone can become a world and never feel lonely, even if they are alone.

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By farewell to junior high school, children can think about their lives: What kind of self do you want to be? What are you like at this moment? What kind of life do you want to have?

The earlier these issues think, the more you want to understand, the more firm your actions will be.

Time is easy to sloppy cherish the people around you

In life, we are easily caught in such a paradox:

For the past, I always feel beautiful, but I always feel unsatisfactory to the moment. When the present becomes the past, I feel very beautiful, and I often miss and even nostalgia. In fact, at that time, the light did not change. It was our perseverance to the death to add a layer of filter to make those past.

Similarly, for the people around us, we often turn a little because of familiarity, and even the closer people, the easier it is to become an exit of emotional vent. When we lose one day, we miss it again. The iron law of this world is that the easier it is to get, the more you do n’t cherish it; the more you are around you, the easier it is to be ignored.

Good relationships depend on support, especially parent -child relationships are the basis for carrying out other relationships. After entering high school, your time with your parents will become shorter and shorter, so cherish it now and do some specific and tender things:

Use the lens to fix the vivid pictures about them, or add a few words, sometimes a few strokes will surprise them and feel that they are loved;

Keep in mind their birthday and make some small surprises for them that day;

Chat with my father more and share some housework for her mother to make her a "Goddess of Liberty" ...

In this way, you are no longer the enjoyment of a happy family, but the creator of a happy family.

be yourself

Don't think that being yourself is what you do and will be willful.

Being yourself is loyal to yourself. He has his own independent judgment, insights, and personality. He does not meet or please. He does not learn the tongue and does not learn the way.

Being yourself means that you have to have higher requirements for yourself, not only know how to do it, but also understand "where to go"; it means that you must judge independently, make a choice, and choose responsibilities; it means that there must The determination of the heart is not afraid of the same as others, and is not afraid of others.

The premise of doing its own is to listen to both and take care of it. Think about it beforehand. Once you make a choice, you will go forward. Even if you walk around, I believe that it may become the wealth of life, as long as it is not evil road. You will also face school selection and career in the future. These are the direction of life. There are two things in life, direction and methods, methods, and methods, and directions must be selected independently, and then walk firmly.

Be yourself, you are the unique orphan, not the copy of others.

Be a warm and bloody person

This society is mostly encouraged to be better than others, surpassing others, but rarely advocates all others and achieved others, so those warm stories can be so moving.

This kind of warmth is rooted in the inner goodness, a kind of kindness that can be used for people to think, is the inner heart, conscious and voluntary, non -rewarding care, no preset expectations, and a kind of jade texture. But you have to believe that when we treat others at this time, we may be treated well as someone else's "others" at the same time. After all, it is an adult.

In life, there are few giant systems, most of which are specific and slight things. No matter how small things, even if it is a greeting, a simple greeting will be moving because of the warmth in it. It is not too difficult to be a warm person, because "I want to be benevolent, and the benevolent is the same"; it is difficult to be a warm person, because it is hidden in every detail of the words and deeds.

However, there is still warmth alone. It also needs blood, and it needs to take the initiative. "Every day that never dances is a disappointment of life."

It is only three years in junior high school and two and a half years of resistance. It is also this experience that let us realize that "no one is an isolated island". Everyone is a part of the social chain. Many things are related to you and me. Therefore, we cannot be a teenager of Buddhism, do not eat melon, and do not be "outsiders", but we must pick a little burden. No one can guarantee all difficulties and misfortunes, but if everyone has the responsibility, it can greatly reduce difficulties and misfortunes.

Now you need to think about your relationship with this era, and think about what you can do for others and society. As a student, what can I do; as a citizen, what can I do; as a person with flesh and blood, I can do something, so as to leave a little positive power in the long sky ... It will make people deeply feel that they are "part of the vast continent", which is more likely to stimulate social responsibility and consciously responsible. Each era has the responsibility of people in each era. We should write our own personal history books. In this solitary history book, we strive to make some notes for some words.

Keep reading

Know where "light" is

The book "is the lighthouse standing in the sea of ​​time". Reading is the trace of the long river of human civilization, relive the thoughts of human beings for thousands of years, and appreciate the wisdom of the wisdom from China. This is pure. Reference and appreciation cannot be given by other things. When we choose to read good books, we are standing on the shoulders of the giants, enriching our heritage with their thoughts, and nourishing our soul with their wisdom.

Reading is the needs of "knowledge" and "knowledge" in the heart. When the seeds are rooted in germination, branches and leaves, they become knowledge. You know, "Knowledge, even if it is the phantom of knowledge, will also become your armor, protect you from being ignorant."

More importantly, reading can cultivate our thinking, help us see the essence through the phenomenon, clarify the cause and effect of things, generate our own independent opinions, form a more systematic world view, and bravely criticize or create.

There are too many books to read, as if there is a kind of light of thought, giving yourself a little wisdom of life. There is always a time on the road of life. If one day we get into the lost of life, if you have knowledge and thinking, you may wish to find it according to the starlight spread by the sages, so it will not be confused by the obstacles in front of us, and it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you, but it is not afraid of the darkness in front of you. Go forward.

Never lose your expectations for tomorrow

Studies are not smooth, interacted, and frustrated, work in the future is not smooth, family members are not harmonious, etc. It is possible. In life, it will not be smooth and smooth. It is inevitable to encounter problems, difficulties, and challenges. If you have no psychological preparation or fear, you will easily lose the courage to move forward, or you can't extricate yourself in negative emotions.

When you are frustrated, tell yourself that adversity and smooth situation have always been a cycle of life topic. Settlement is a compulsory course in life, so it will become calm and relieved;

When you are anxious, you might as well tell the anxiety. The more specific, the better. You may find that you ca n’t say why. It can be seen that the reality is not as bad as imagined. The clouds are light and light;

When you are injured, don't rush to catch up, but check the safety equipment and bags one by one, and then look up at the direction, persist or adjust, and then go all out.

It is a romance and confidence to always look forward to tomorrow. Remember, no matter where you are, your expectations and longing for tomorrow.

You live well is the best news

You have fun "when you make mistakes, do not report the teacher", in fact, as long as you are willing, and you feel that you can mention it for you, you can mention it at any time, whether you make mistakes. I just wish you a good life. If you live well, it is the best news.

Finally, order again for the teacher ...

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The reason why I just ordered all the names was because I knew that each of them was my best business card with your seniors and sisters.

Talking about every of you for the teacher is the light in his eyes, Angel's Guinness record, Cai Yue's "daily poison", Shu Ting's crossing the Qiantang River ...

At the beginning of the new semester, your story will be circulated among the younger brothers and sisters.

Your class Zheng Ying

In this world

All love points to reunion

Only the love of parents and teachers pointed to separation

Every time the graduation season

Teachers watch the students they love to fly their wings and want to fly

It's both sad and pleased

However, there is no dispersion feast in the world

After the children have worked side by side with their teachers

Will go to the new life battlefield

The new journey facing the star of the stars will eventually

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Author of this article | Zheng Ying, teacher of Hangzhou Tianhang Experimental School

Editor in this article | Jia Wenyi

Illustration design | Fan Wei Wang Rongjia

Editor in charge | Jia Wenyi Wang Jiashi

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