Finding relatives 丨 The woman was abducted for 29 years, and her mother was unhappy and her grandmother died. She went home today!

Ji Mu Journalist Zhang Wanjun Programming reporter Hu Dikai

Video editing intern Chen Hongying

29 years ago, at Hengyang, Hunan, she was only abducted from her mother at the age of 4, and then grew up in a family of people in Zhoukou, Henan. She also changed her name called Han Dandan. Since then, she has dropped out of school and married early. But she has always had a dream in her heart, that is to find her biological parents.

After she was abducted, her mother was fighting for no results, and her mental disorders died for many years.

Fortunately, after unremitting search, with the enthusiasm of looking for relatives, she finally dreamed of coming true. On July 9, 2022, Han Dandan went from Henan to Hengyang, Hunan to recognize his mother, uncle and other loved ones.

He was taken away from your hometown when he was young

On June 12, 1993, Han Dandan came to a farmer in Zhoukou, Henan. Han Dandan was the name given by her for her. At that time, there were two boys, one a few days younger than her, two years younger than her, and she looked about four or five years old. She became the eldest sister of the three sisters.

At the beginning, Han Dandan knew that he was not the child of this family, and the family did not try to conceal this to her.

Dandan photo

She remembered that she was taken away by a man by train. She lived in a two -story building when she was a child. She was on the side of her room. She often played the gyro with a little boy at the door of his house.

The parents of the adoptive family told Han Dandan that she was taken to the local area after being picked up by the younger brother of Beijing's adoptive mother. She said that the clothes she wore at the time was very dirty, she was crying on the side of the road. The abandoned stray baby.

But Han Dandan has never believed in raising his parents. Because she knows that her biological parents must not want her. But she didn't remember where her hometown was.

Dandan Children

Han Dandan said that the relationship between adoptive parents is not good, and the adoptive father often raises his mother. Although the adoptive mother has always been good to Dan Dan and treats her as a biological daughter, the adoptive mother has been forced to take her out to avoid the violence of her adopted father.

Due to the poor economic conditions of the supporting family, there are two younger brothers in the family. After Han Dandan finished elementary school, junior high school only studied for one month without dropping out of school.

From the first day of his family, Han Dandan wanted to find his biological parents and returned to his home.

She has always believed that she would find her mother one day.

Looking for relatives while working

In 2002, Han Dandan followed his fellow to work in Guangzhou.

She hopes that she can make money as soon as possible to find her biological mother as soon as possible. When working in Guangzhou, she asked for help from college students and colleagues in the factory to ask how to find her loved ones. Later, Han Dandan published his family search information on the network platform in accordance with his colleagues.

In early 2003, Han Dandan, who had just saved thousands of yuan, was going to Beijing to find information about his biological parents. And her factory also encountered problems, and she was unfortunately unemployed. Han Dandan was so anxious that he couldn't sleep every day. He often cried in the dormitory. The pain in his heart could not tell people, and the eye disease was almost blind.

Welcome to Dan Dan home from the hotel

In desperation, Han Dandan returned to the adoptive mother's house to treat eye diseases. After more than a year of treatment, her eyes finally recovered. After the recovery, Han Dandan wanted to go to Beijing to find a relative, but under the strong request of her adoptive mother, she went to work in Guangzhou.

While working in Guangzhou, Han Dandan often goes to Internet cafes to browse online finding information and find clues about family members. A few years have passed, and she has no progress in finding relatives. She can't help but have a bit discouraged and doubt whether her thoughts were wrong. She was really abandoned by her parents and wanted to give up.

In 2006, Han Dandan married a young man in his hometown. After the marriage, the couple went to Zhengzhou together, and she gave birth to two sons.

After working hard in Zhengzhou for many years, Han Dandan and her husband finally saved a little money and bought a house in Zhoukou City.

There are results in online searching

Despite many difficulties, Han Dandan has never given up the idea of ​​seeking relatives. In 2013, she heard that the baby was going home as a parent -seeking platform, so she registered her family search information on the platform. After registering information, with Beijing's key goal, she inquired a large number of family -looking information on the platform to see if she could find relatives who matched with herself. After the volunteer helped her and the parents of Xunzi checked several information, Han Dandan was always disappointed. After learning that the blood analysis of blood can be roughly determined by a person's birthplace, Han Dandan found an institution as an analysis of his ancestral home last year. The results show that Han Dandan's ancestral home may come from Yangzhou, Jiangsu, and has a cousin relationship in Hengyang, Hunan.

The result of this analysis made Han Dandan realize that his previous search direction might be wrong. She began to look for the family search information in the area with Hengyang, Hunan. In March of this year, she found a family -looking post issued by Mr. Jiang on the baby home platform. The child's photo on the post is similar to his childhood, suspecting that he was the family that the other party was looking for. So she began to try to contact Mr. Jiang, but she couldn't contact it.

In May this year, Han Dandan asked for help from the volunteer of the baby home platform. With the help of Taikoo, she finally contacted Mr. Jiang. After the two were contacted through the Internet, they found that many details of the two sides happened to be right. Han Dandan was likely to be Mr. Jiang's sister Fu Mengqin, who was abducted 29 years ago.

Subsequently, under the coordination of Taikoo, Mr. Jiang's sister and Han Dandan provided their blood to the Zhejiang police for DNA comparison. At the same time, Mr. Jiang and Han Dandan also provided their own blood to an institution of an analysis of their ancestors to determine whether the two sides had relatives.

On June 29, good news came, and the blood comparison results of Mr. Jiang and Han Dandan confirmed that they had relatives. On July 5, the results of the Zhejiang police also came out, confirming that Han Dandan was the daughter of Mr. Jiang.

Grandpa and grandmother regret to die

On July 9th, Mr. Jiang, Han Dandan, introduced to Jimu Journalists that their families have been looking for Han Dandan's bumpy experience for 29 years.

In 1989, Mr. Jiang's sister Jiang met Mr. Fu, Yangzhou, Jiangsu, when he was doing business in Hengyang, and the two were ready to get married after falling in love. In 1989, Ms. Jiang, who had not yet received a marriage certificate, was pregnant. In September of that year, she gave birth to her daughter Han Dandan in his hometown of Hengyang, Hunan. Shortly after Dan Dan was born, the relationship between Ms. Jiang and her boyfriend had problems and eventually broke up.

Since his birth, Han Dandan has lived in the grandfather's house in Hengyang's country most of the time. Grandpa and grandmother loved her very much. In early April of 1993, Han Dandan accidentally fell to the ground while playing on a stone mill at the door of the grandfather's house, and his nose broke. This made Dan Dan's mother very angry, complaining that his parents did not take care of his daughter. About a week later, Dan Dan's mother quietly took her daughter away from her parents' house. After learning about the news, Dan Dan's grandfather chased the city of Hengyang and found his daughter and grandson in the city. He thought that their mother and daughter went to Dandan's father's house in Yangzhou, Jiangsu.

Grandma Grandma's old house outside Dandan

Unexpectedly, more than 10 days later, Dan Dan's mother who was shy and spiritual returned home alone, and the grandmother of Dan Dan asked Dan Dan's whereabouts. After many inquiries, Dan Dan's mother said that she had no money. She came home to get money. Before leaving, she put Dan Dan in Yongzhou alone, leaving the other party's name, work unit and other information. Dan Dan's grandfather and grandmother immediately felt wrong. He quickly went to Yongzhou to find this person with his daughter, but found that the other party had already gone to the building. Dan Dan's grandfather and grandmother looked for a week in the local area, and eventually disappointed. Because of anxiety, in just a few days, the 46 -year -old Dan Dan's hair was all white.

Since then, Dan Dan's grandfather, grandparents, relatives and friends have been looking for Dan Dan in the local and around, but it has been fruitless. In September 1993, Dandan's mother suddenly said goodbye from home. In October 1994, Gong Gong Dan Dan's grandmother received a letter from Henan, saying that Dandan's mother wandered in Xinxiang, Henan, hoping that they would pick her up home.

A few days later, Mr. Jiang and his father rushed to Xinxiang, Henan to see her sister -shaped beggar. They were abnormal. They slept on the side of the road at night and completely became a stray man. When Mr. Jiang's father was about to bring her daughter back to her hometown, she refused to go back. She took out a note from her, saying that this person took Dan Dan away, and he was willing to find Dan Dan to go back. "The names and addresses of the people who took Dan Dan on the note. The work unit is a factory in Xinxiang. My sister has always said that he wants to find him and find Dandan." Mr. Jiang recalled that they later found the factory. It is found that there is no such person in the factory, and the information left by this person is fake. Their party had to return with Dan Dan's mother.

After returning home, Dan Dan's mother was vast, and it did not return to normal until now. Since then, Dan Dan's grandfather and grandmother and Mr. Jiang have not stopped looking for Dan Dan's steps. As long as they know where there is any news of her, they will rush to the local verification. Unfortunately, their efforts have no results.

In 2008, Dan Dan's grandmother died. In 2014, Dan Dan's grandfather also played with people. Before the two old people died, Mr. Jiang was instructed to find Dan Dan back. In 2013, Mr. Jiang sent Dandan's information to the baby's home platform, hoping to find Dandan through the platform.

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