This more than 1,300 villages have raised more than 1,560 lonely and disabled children!

"Girl, about five or six years old, unclear, was discovered at the railway station in Panlong District ..."

In a dusty archives of the Kunming Children's Welfare Institute, it records the life of an orphan. The welfare home gave her a name -Pan Station Hua.

Soon after arriving at the welfare home, the fate of the little girl turned around. With the teacher of the welfare home, she came to a small mountain village. As soon as I got out of the car, a strange aunt who had Qi Liu Hai and smiled like a warm sun, hugged her tightly in her arms, and said to her, "In the future, I am your mother."

Pan station Hua took the child back to her mother's house and had a birthday for Abin.

This scene became the starting point of the childhood memory of the Pan Station. On June 13, 2001, the little girl who was scattered with her family at the railway station had a home.

The 27 -year -old Panhua Hua now has his own little family and a two -year -old son. "Without my parents, there is no me today." She said, "My parents, my brother, and sister are all type A blood. It seems that it is doomed in the dark, we are a family."

The "hometown" of Pan Station, Wangjiatan Village, Anning City is a small mountain village about 50 kilometers away from Kunming City. Since 2000, as one of the pilot villages in Kunming's lonely and disabled children, this small village with only 1,300 people has raised more than 1,560 lonely disabled children, and many villagers' families have cumulatively fostering orphans.

Time flies. The "dad" and "mother" of the young and strong are now white. They dedicated the best time of their lives to the orphans and disabled children who had suffered discrete trauma, and supported the children's warm home ...

When Abin (first from the right) was a child, Cao Liqiong and her husband took his son (upper left), daughter (upper right) with Abin and the other three other foster children at home.

"At that moment, I made up my mind

Give these dolls a home "

Wangjiatan's lonely and disabled children started a accident 22 years ago.

One day in November 2000, Zhang Fuqiang, secretary of the party committee of Caopu Town, then Anning City, said that there is a village in the town. Cao Guo, the party secretary of the hospital, couldn't wait to rush to Wangjia Beach.

As soon as he arrived in the village, Cao Guozheng opened the door to see the mountains and asked if he could pilot the foster care of lonely and disabled children in the village. Wang Bingneng, former deputy director of the village committee and the current secretary of the village party, was confused.

"What does foster care mean?" Wang Bing could wander. After listening to the cadres of the welfare home, he realized that foster care is to send the children of the welfare home to rural families, and the villagers are responsible for raising.

"At first I thought he was a liar. What should I do if I left the child?" Wang Bingneng said. After learning that a monthly living expense of an orphan was only 216 yuan and the villagers' labor costs were only 100 yuan, he felt that it could not do it.

Although Wangjiatan was not wealthy, there were many factories nearby because of the nearby industrial parks. At that time, the villagers also had 100 yuan for two days. "Who would like to do this?" Wang Bingneng refused.

But for the children's welfare home, it is very urgent to find a village willing to receive orphans. Wu Fushun, the chief of the Kunming Children's Welfare Institute, recalled that at that time, the orphans of the Kunming Children's Welfare Institute had a maximum of 700 or eighty or eight hundred, and the work pressure was huge.

Abin and his mother exercised in the small square in the village.

"There are twenty or thirty children in a class in the welfare home, and there are only five or six teachers. They can't take one -to -one care." Wu Fushun said that he and his colleagues often had to go to school as a "parent" to open a parent meeting. Because there are too many children in the same school, Wu Fushun often sat in one class for a few minutes, and he had to run to another class. He had to participate in the parent meeting of more than a dozen children a day.

"At that time, I was only in my early twenties. When I opened the parent meeting, the teacher asked me. You are my brother or father. I am embarrassed by my children." Wu Fushun said that most of the children in the welfare home are very sensitive because there are no parents. In front of classmates, they will be very inferior.

In 2000, the Ministry of Civil Affairs proposed to make family fostering an important way for children's welfare undertakings. "Later, we began to look for villages that are suitable for family foster." Wu Fushun said that family fostering can reduce the pressure of welfare institutes. More importantly, it is completely different for children. In addition, because of the rich housing and sufficient labor, rural areas are more suitable for fostering than cities.

Mom and dad with Abin (upper left) and Aha.

After being rejected for the first time, the cadres of the welfare institute went to Wangjiatan to inspect several times, and invited Zhang Fuqiang, secretary of the town party committee, persuaded Wang Bingneng.

"This is a good thing for Jide to do good. I hope your village can carry this matter." Zhang Fuqiang said.

Wang Bingneng had to bite his head and promised to try it.

He asked more than a dozen in the village. Sure enough, the villagers had the same concerns as him.

"Do you want to shake the burden?"

"If it is divided into disabled dolls, can we be able to take care of it?"

There is really no way, Wang Bingneng can only find party members in his relatives and villages to work. In the end, only six families promised to go to the welfare home to see before making a decision, including his wife and parents.

Liao Xuexian was one of the earliest mothers who participated in fostering in Wangjia Beach. At that time, she was 46 years old, and her children had grown up to become a family. They had a little effort with her husband, so she thought that she could try to participate in her foster. But she was also worried that the family would not be generous, and would the welfare institution leave the child without any. Abin was particularly happy on his birthday.

For the first time I went to the welfare home, Liao Xuexian visited while listening to the teacher's life, and couldn't help wipeting tears.

After listening to the welfare home teacher said that after seeing the children in the village every week, and doing training for the villagers, Liao Xuexian began to believe that the welfare institute was not a baggage, but really wanted to do good things with the villagers.

"The villagers say that I am brave." Deng Ziying, who was also the first batch of foster mother, said that when she visited the welfare home, she didn't have a little bit in her heart, but as soon as she entered the room, there was a four or five years old. The little boy, looking at her with big eyes, always pulling her hand and refused to let go. It was this moment that made her courage.

Abin and his mother exercised in the small square in the village.

"My heart is softened at once." Deng Ziying said, "At that moment, I made up my mind. No matter how difficult it is, I have to give these dolls a home."

In this way, at the end of 2000, the first batch of 12 lonely and disabled children came to Wangjia Beach.

Wang Bingneng said that after the first batch of lonely and disabled children came to the village, fostering parents raised them as their biological children. Parents take them out every day, and they will take these orphans together when they meet relatives in the New Year.

"Everyone finds that these lonely and disabled children are no different from their children. Some dolls are still very smart and attract people." Wang Bingneng said that after the villagers dispelled their concerns, they signed up for more and more families participating in the fostering of lonely and disabled children. Soon, the second and third batch of children in the village ...

1 mother, 21 years, 31 babies

On April 1st, it was cold, and A -defecated on the bed at noon.

On April 9th, Aha would take the initiative to hand over his head when combing his hair in the morning.

On April 15, Aha will take the initiative to accept the quilt.

On May 24, Abin rained and would give her mother an umbrella.

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Abin helped her mother Cao Liqiong at home.

Writing a growth diary for Albin (pseudonym) and Aha (pseudonym) is a 54 -year -old fostering mother Cao Liqiong to do every day. Two thick growth diaries recorded the daily growth and changes of Abin and Aha, and also recorded the little bit of Cao Liqiong to give the children.

Cao Liqiong is one of the third batch of villagers who participated in the foster care of the orphan children. The first orphan for her family was Panzhan Hua. People in the villagers are used to calling this loud voice and careless woman "Lao Cao". Since 2001, Cao Liqiong's family has adopted 31 orphans and disabled children, which is one of the most fed and disabled children in the village.

A Bin took a group photo at home when he was a child.

"Children who are healthy and younger, usually have good people to adopt and pick them up for a few months." Cao Liqiong said, like Abin and Acha, because of their natural disability, she has lived with her for many years.

19 -year -old Abin was born with intelligence. When he came to Cao Liqiong's house when he was 6 years old, he couldn't even wear clothes. He often urinated the bed at night. The 14 -year -old girl Aha's intelligence and vision had obstacles. But I couldn't speak since I was a child.

In order to cultivate Abin's ability to take care of his life, Cao Liqiong called him to the toilet at a fixed point every night. After two or three years, he slowly did not urinate. "After wearing clothes for four or five years, he can basically take care of himself." Cao Liqiong said.

Taking care of the disabled children like Abin and Aha, Cao Liqiong will pay more effort, and an accident may occur if you have a little negligence.

Abin helped his mother pick up corn in the ground.

One day in 2017, 14 -year -old Abin suddenly lost, and Cao Liqiong still felt scared. That day, she asked Abin to go outside the gate to send a car key to her brother. Just a distance of tens of meters, Abin hadn't returned for a few minutes.

"I shouted several times and no one agreed, and the whole person suddenly cold from head to heels." Cao Liqiong said, she quickly mobilized people in the village to go out to find, but I found more than a little late night in the evening. I still didn't find it. After calling the police that night, Cao Liqiong did not close his eyes all night. She sat in the yard and kept staring at the gate.

"I opened the door, I was worried that he couldn't hear him when he came back and knocked on the door." She said.

It wasn't until 2:30 the next day that the villagers found Abin at the bay pond in the back of the village. It turned out that he played stacks by the pond alone and played all night.

After staying on the mountain overnight, Abin shivered all over his body. Cao Liqiong quickly cooked a large bowl of brown sugar eggs for him. After he finished eating, he kept holding him in bed, and then slowly coaxed him to sleep. "From then on, I dare not let him go out alone." Cao Liqiong said.

Wu Fushun said that at present, most orphans in Wangjiatan's foster care are disabled children with severe disabled children with cerebral palsy, epilepsy, and Tang family syndrome. The difficulty of nursing of foster families is also increasing.

Abin followed his mother to pick the vegetables.

In order to better take care of these special children, Kunming Children's Welfare Institute will regularly train their parents to teach them how to make nutritional meals, daily care, rehabilitation exercises, etc., and invest in hundreds of thousands of yuan to transform the original village elementary school into In the center of rehabilitation, fostering parents take their children to exercise every day.

39 -year -old Li Chunmei is the youngest foster mother of Wangjiatan. Her parents began to do fostering in 2004. Due to her parents, Li Chunmei, who likes her children, resigned from the hotel's front desk and returned to her hometown to take care of her foster child with her parents. So far, Li Chunmei and their parents have fostered more than 50 lonely disabled children. Li Chunmei's family currently has two girls, her 17 -year -old daughter Xiao Min (pseudonym) has a Tang syndrome, and her 9 -year -old daughter Xiaoyu (pseudonym) suffers from congenital cerebral palsy.

Little rain with cerebral palsy can't even move the tongue, and it is difficult to swallow for meals. Every time she gives Xiaoyu nutrition meals, Li Chunmei has to chop the vegetables carefully, but even so, she has to feed at least 30 to 40 minutes each time. "Feed, spit it out, fed it again, and vomit again, and repeated several times before you can eat a spoonful of rice."

"Sometimes I feel tired, but I feel that these dolls are actually very cute after spending time." Li Chunmei said that when he was doing housework, Xiao Yu was sitting on a wheelchair, and he would work hard to look at her, facing her laugh.

"She can't speak, I feel very satisfied with a smile." Li Chunmei said.

Abin followed his mother to dig the potato.

"Why do I have so many children in my family?"

The 23 -year -old Yang Tian was Cao Liqiong's biological daughter. She had a question hiding in her heart since she was a child: "Why do I have so many children in my family?"

Cao Liqiong and her husband Yang Zhifu had a child and a daughter. When the family first started working as a lonely and disabled child, Yang Tian was only two years old. As a daughter, Yang Tian should be the "pearl" of the whole family. But since she remembered, the children sent by the welfare home at home have never been the focus of parents' attention.

Because Cao Liqiong often takes care of the baby at night, Yang Tian has been used to sleeping alone since he was 4 years old. Mom does not have much time to take care of her. Conversely, after going home from school every day, she also helps her mother to see her children, feed, and wash dishes.

"From the beginning of elementary school, I have to wash the dishes every day, because my mother is holding a child and has no time to do housework." Yang Tian said that when I was studying in junior high school, I had to help watch the child when I came back on the weekend.

The most helpless time for Yang Tian, ​​she was studying in high school to go home in the summer vacation. At that time, there was a little baby who was more than one year old at home. The mother asked her to help her, but the baby kept crying. Essence

"In the end, I really couldn't help it, so I cried with him." Yang Tian said. Later, his father Yang Zhifu returned home and saw his daughter sitting on the sofa and crying, and quickly took the baby away. "Dad coaxed the doll and came to coax me again. Now when I think about it, I still cry and laugh."

What makes Yang Tian "careless" for a long time is that from childhood to large, his parents will sometimes not participate. But she had never been absent for the parent meeting of the family who fostered children at home.

Abin played with her sister Panhua at home.

With her daughter's grievances, Cao Liqiong always remembered in her heart and was very guilty. "I spent more thoughts about these foster dolls than her children." She said, "Because teachers and classmates know that they are orphan, if I do not go to the parent meeting, they will not give more love, they will be classmates will be classmates. despise."

"Parents' focus is on us, so the younger girl will feel that we have taken away a lot of father's love and mother love." Pan station said that since childhood, her sister Yang Tian has always worn her old clothes "Dad sometimes comes back with delicious food, afraid that my sister will be snatched by my sister, and will quietly tell me to hide it quickly, don't let A Tian get out."

In the memory of Pan Station, from childhood to large, whenever he encounters difficulties, his parents will stand in front of him as soon as possible.

When he was in elementary school, there was a boy in the class very naughty and grabbed Pan Station's face. After school, Cao Liqiong took her to the boy's house without saying a word. She must let the little boy apologize to the market.

Fostering mother Li Chunmei accompanied her two daughters to bask in the sun and play in the yard.

After joining the work, Pan Station Hua broke up with her first love boyfriend, and Cao Liqiong called to comfort her immediately after learning about it. "Life will be smooth, and I will go home when I feel sad. I will kill you with only chickens." A few words made her out of the haze of love.

In 2019, Pan Station Hua was preparing to marry her boyfriend. Cao Liqiong asked that the man's parents must come to the house to propose. "To let his parents know, you also have dads and mothers. This is your home." Cao Liqiong said.

Before marriage, Cao Liqiong prepared four -piece dowry on the bed for Panzhan Hua. It took two months to embroidered a large cross stitch according to the wedding photos of Pan Station Hua and his lover. When I met with my own house, Cao Liqiong also always told: "This is the life of my daughter, and I will be better to her in the future."

Yang Tian, ​​who was still very rebellious when she was in junior high school, slowly understood her mother's difficulty when she grew up. "Every time I go home, I feel that my mother is getting old again. She is really too tired. Instead of me, I can't do it." She said.

The two girls who have noisy from a young age to Ban Station Hua and Yang Tian have now become sisters who have said nothing. In 2017, Yang Tian went to Zhejiang to go to college, and the already working Pan Station Hua insisted on going to report to report. It was not until she sent her to the school dormitory and returned all the daily necessities.

"When I was a child, my mother had no time to participate in the little girl's parent meeting. This was the first time she went away. I must send her for her parents." Pan Station said.

A photo of Abin and his parents.

Lie with children again and again

Become a "compulsory course" for each foster family

In the past 22 years, more than 1,560 lonely children who have fostered in Wangjia Beach have reached more than 1,560. Some children are adopted by good -hearted people after support for a period of time. Even if children who have not been adopted, according to the provisions of the welfare home, they must leave the foster family after the age of 18 and gradually live independently.

Over time with your children, it has become a "compulsory course" for each foster family.

Wang Bingneng's sister Wang Bingxiu has participated in the foster care of the lonely and disabled children since 2015. The first child she brought was A Cheng (a pseudonym). The welfare home was only 10 months old and weighed only 6 kg. A Cheng had a disability in one leg, because his legs were painful, and often cried and did not sleep at night. Wang Bingxiu could only hold him back and forth in the living room. "I have to coax all night, and I cry when I let go." Wang Bingxiu said, for more than a year with this child, he could only sleep for an hour or two almost every night. Due to lack of sleep for a long time, she also had a hypertensive problem, and she had to take antihypertensive drugs every day.

After more than a year of childcare, A Cheng, who was 2 years old, grew to 13 kilograms. His face was omitted. The legs that had disabled could walk slowly. At this time, the Welfare Institute informed Wang Bingxiu that if a family wants to adopt A Cheng, he will pick up the child in a few days.

"I was sad for a year after leaving, and now I miss him." Wang Bingxiu said. When A Cheng was picking up, she was nap. She couldn't bear to wake the child, but turned to cry and became a tears.

A foster mother's rehabilitation center in the village did a rehabilitation exercise for her daughter with cerebral palsy.

The next day, Wang Bingxiu really wanted the child and asked her husband to drive her to the welfare home. The couple accompanied the child for another night in the welfare home. "That's the last side." Wang Bingxiu said, "The dean told me that the doll was adopted by a good family.

"Every time there is a doll in the village, there is a mother crying." Cao Liqiong, who had raised 31 orphans, had experienced many times. The Cao Liqiong family has a large album, which is stored in the photo of her and the foster orphan. She remembers the name of each child. "No matter where the dolls go, it is our children and the concern of our lifetime."

A few years ago, a public welfare organization named "Baby Going Home" found Panzhan Hua and told her to compare it through DNA to help her find her biological parents. After thinking about it for a long time, I said, "It's been so many years, I don't want to find it anymore."

"Don't be stupid, you can find it or try to find it." Cao Liqiong advised her.

"You are my parents." Pan Station still refused.

"One yard to one yard, the parents who raised you, and the parent who gave birth to you." Finally, under the persuasion of Cao Liqiong, Pan Station Hua made DNA comparison, but so far, his biological parents have not been found.

Abin and his mother took a group photo after picking vegetables.

"There are so many dolls calling my mother, I am content"

At the age of 19, after the age of 18, he was originally taken away by the welfare home and sent to the farm on the western suburbs of Kunming to start adapting to independent life. However, affected by the new crown pneumonia's epidemic, he and his parents were postponed to the end of this year.

"Abin has never left me for more than 10 years, and the villagers say that he is my guard." Speaking of the 13 -year -old son, Cao Liqiong was reluctant.

Abin, who has intellectual obstacles, under his parents' education, now he can basically take care of himself and can do some less heavy housework. When he went to the ground with his mother to pick dishes, he never let his mother carry vegetables, and always rushed to carry the basket on his back.

Abin likes singing. Although he doesn't necessarily understand the meaning of the lyrics, his favorite song is "Mother". "I believe that he can feel the warmth of the home." Cao Liqiong said, Abin was eaten by others outside, and he would not follow.

"He knows, this is his home." Cao Liqiong said.

On the day of giving Abin's birthday, her mother looked at Abin, who was eating cake, and her eyes were full of love and reluctance.

On May 20 this year, it was Abin's 19 -year -old birthday. This may be the last birthday at home before Albin lived independently. On this day, Cao Liqiong called all the children working in Kunming home, and asked Pan Station Hua to buy a big birthday cake.

In the evening, the birthday candle was lit, and the special family of the family sang a happy birthday song for Abin. After singing, Cao Liqiong asked Abin to make a wish. Although Abin didn't understand what he meant, he laughed and couldn't lift his mouth, blowing out the candle in one breath.

"I promised Abin, hoping that he would be healthy and happy forever." Cao Liqiong said.

Fostering mother Li Chunmei is feeding her daughter who suffers from cerebral palsy.

According to data released by the Ministry of Civil Affairs in May 2021, the total number of orphans in my country has decreased from 570,000 in 2012 to 190,000, a decrease of about 66%. At present, the lonely and disabled children who have fostered in Wangjiatan have also decreased from more than 300 time, accounting for nearly a quarter of the village's population to about 90.

"There is a good thing for dolls to be less, indicating that there are fewer traits and abandoning dolls now." Wang Bingneng said.

Like Panzhan Hua, many lonely and disabled children have grown up now, and most of their parents who have raised them are nearly flowers and flowers.

Because her husband Yang Zhifu had previously been a baggage, Cao Liqiong's family built a two -story building as early as 1995.But since participating in the fostering of lonely and disabled children, the couple have used almost all their energy to take care of these children. The small buildings that have been envied by the villagers have also become an old house for nearly 30 years and has never been renovated.But Cao Liqiong never envy the big house of others."There are so many dolls calling my mother, I am content," she said.

Source: Xinhua Daily Telecom

Author: Li Yin, Pang Mingguang, Zhou Lei

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