I participated in a funeral today
Author:Flying Little Elk Time:2022.07.08
I remember when I was very young, I followed the funerals of familiar or unfamiliar people with my grandpa and grandma. Although I didn't understand, I didn't understand what it meant. Learn to be silent, sad, and stare at the abyss of death.
From then on, I know that death is likely to be the end of this world for us. There were only 90 years old to the end, and some students from elementary school played to swim to the end of their lives; some were fully ready to accept, and there was a sudden departure ... no matter what type of type, this hit this The internal relatives, near neighbors, distant relatives, and friends who will gather in their lives will not have a greater scene except for their birth and marriage.
Sometimes I feel that the funeral is a kind of inheritance. When I was a child, I went to this occasion with my ancestors to "see the world", and a little older to operate the "last moment" of the ancestors with my parents. It seems that our parents are a wall before our death. Often when we are about to lose, we will reflect on all the immature in the past. I can't wait to quit my job and accompany my parents immediately. People always wake up too early and realize it late. Cherish, this is the joke of life to everyone.
I do n’t know if everyone feels the same as me. I have experienced the death of a direct close relative since I was 26 years old, and I was worried that I was at a loss when I was turn. The body, the traditional rules and requirements are not necessary in the concept of modern people, but you do nothing, and it seems that he lacks respect for death and the consideration of family members.
I have planned it. I must tell my children in the future to find a fertile treasure for your dad and plant a tree on my top to let me nourish this inch. Send me away. As for the lover, if you don't mind, you can plant two trees next to him.
Obviously, I am not great, just thinking about simple.
"Life must be stunned, but Err." In this life of a person's life, it is to eat, wear, live, live, use, to do, career, marriage, and family. When we have not encountered a disaster and a disaster, we always want to fight with others. The evaluation proves that I am extraordinary. This kind of life is too heavy. If there are too many burdens on the body, people are not easy to be happy. Even if there is, most of the time will be occupied by anxiety and restlessness. In the past, you can't get too much.
When you find that there is no anxiety except life and death, the weight of the house and car is naturally light, and you will not care if you have what others have. "The past cannot be chased." Let it make it past, and the years in the future are even more important. Even if you are performing very much, at least our death or the departure of loved ones are no longer a burden on the desertation of loved ones. Essence
At this moment, we have burned the kindness, peace, and care of us in our hearts, and tell your children how your elders educate and care for ourselves. The topic of family and love is worth continuing.
In addition, Grandpa, you go all the way!
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