High -level communication is the burst of wisdom

Communication is an art,

It is also a science.

Author: LEYLA

Is there such a group of people around you?

Their education may not be the most sharp, but they can always be like fish in the workplace, and they are all at ease;

Their ability may not be the most prominent, but they can always be recognized and loved by leaders.

In fact, if you look closely, you will find that such people often have a common advantage -good at communication.

Communication may not be able to make people happy, and may not be admirable.

On the contrary, the words of communication can be simple and simple.

High -level communication is the burst of wisdom, the display of emotional intelligence, and the closeness of the soul.

The more you have seen the world, the more you find that the power of communication is enough to change a person's life.

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Communicate, change the problem from 1 to 0

In life, each of us will inevitably encounter some sudden and bad things.

Some people chose to deal with it, but ignored the expression, so they hummed and lived, but the problem was never resolved.

Smart people, while working hard, know how to use the wisdom of communication, so that the problem is resolved in virtual.

In the TV series "All Good", Su Mingyu had been in a workplace crisis.

At that time, some colleagues reported to Mingyu's boss, Meng, a small report, stating that Yu wanted the pearl to vote and changed to the opponent's company.

After listening to this, Mongolian was naturally like sitting on a needle. After all, Mingyu was the most powerful general under his hand.

So he found Mingyu and asked her, "I heard that some companies have dug you all over?"

Ming Yu answered frankly: "More than one, there are two, both, they are looking for me through the headhunting company."

President Meng asked again: "Who are the other two companies?"

Ming Yu first explained the principle of being a person: he would not be trapped in a embarrassing situation, so he would not disclose who dug himself.

Then he immediately showed loyalty and never left the company.

As a result, a misunderstanding may be solved quietly.

Imagine that if Mingyu did not communicate in place at this time, then even if she wanted to stay in her heart, the two would have a gap between the two.

As the saying goes, the windows do not wipe or light, and the words are unknown.

When encountering a problem, silence will only make the misunderstanding deeper and deeper. Saying wrong will only make the contradictions get bigger and bigger.

Actively communicate and put the ideas on the stage, in order to be small and small, and let the problem be solved.

2

Communicate, let the opportunity change from 0 to 1

As a world -renowned classic movie, "When Happiness Comes to Knock" has influenced generations.

We all know that the male lead Kris was a poor salesman at first, and finally became an excellent stock agent.

But if you think about Chris's struggle carefully, you will find that in addition to his success, there is another important reason for his success:

He is very good at using communication to seize the opportunity.

On this day, Chris passed by the securities bank and saw a man with a strong suit. Chris was very envious and curious about him.

He walked up boldly to talk to the other party: "What are you doing? How do you do it?"

The man pointed to the securities bank in front and said, "I am a stock broker."

"You have to go to college to be a stock agent, right?"

"No, just be proficient in numbers, and will be a life."

A brief communication opened the valve of Chris's fate.

As a result, he quickly replaced the industry and tried everything to enter the door of the securities company.

On the day of the interview, for various reasons, he appeared in front of the interviewer for various reasons.

In other words, in the case of such a situation, maybe he had already retreated in his heart.

However, Chris confessed to the interviewer: he was not prepared, but he was arrested because he did not pay the parking fine.

At this time, the interviewer asked: "If someone runs to the interview without wearing a formal dress, but I hire him, how would you evaluate it?"

Chris replied with a smile: "Then his pants must be very good."

Simple words, ingenious and funny.

As a result, he successfully won the work in his dreams, and since he got rid of poverty and embarked on the top of his life.

Kanegki once said: "The most important key to career or family success is that more than 95 % of them are interpersonal relationships.

To create good interpersonal relationships, good communication skills are indispensable. "

Many times, we always complain that the leaders cannot see our own efforts. The society does not give ourselves, as if all the failures and unwillingness are from the outside world.

In fact, when the opportunity walked around, did you try to keep it?

Therefore, it is possible to achieve the opportunity to change from 0 to 1.

To express calmly, it is possible to seize the key points of life and go to a higher level.

3

Communicate, change success from 1 to 100

The Ivye University Alliance in the United States has done an investigation.

They initiated a questionnaire to the elites of Wall Street business and Washington, the title:

Let you go back to college now, what lessons would you take?

The answer is naturally a variety of.

There are writing, negotiating, lectures, philosophy ...

But if you look for the intersection of these courses, you will find that most of them are related -communication.

Therefore, the better the person who pays attention to the use of communication. At that time, Apple needed a new CEO CEO, and Jobs locked the target John Schkeli, the president of Pepsi.

At that time, Apple was only in the scale, and Pepsi's business territory had already spanned the world.

Whoever can see through at a glance, but it is interesting that Jobs moved John's heart with his strong communication skills.

He said to John, "Do you want to sell sugar water for a lifetime, or change the whole world with me?"

In a word, Johan's heart was surging, and now he decided to join Jobs's camp.

Communication is an art and a learning.

To associate with others and grasp the way of talking, in order to achieve more effort, and turn 1 into 100 effects.

So, what are the communication methods that are worthy of our learning?

Here, I recommend three techniques for everyone:

1. Make good use of "nude tactics".

Feng Lun mentioned a keyword in the book "Holding is the ability" called "nude tactics".

What is nude tactics?

Just be honest, say what you want to say at one time, in the end.

In the process of operating an enterprise, an executive decided to withdraw from the company.

Feng Lun told him: "After you leave, I will scold you for 3 months in the company. Because I do n’t scold you, I ca n’t convince the public.

As a exchange, we can use our past brands and projects. "

After some communication, the other party expressed understanding.

Because it is true, this matter has not affected the friendship between them. Many years have passed, and they can still maintain a happy cooperation.

Many times, only when the cards are spread out can the situation be opened.

Speak clearly, do not bend around, but can achieve the effect of understanding each other and long -term relationships.

2. When communicating, wear other people's shoes.

I have told such a story by the CEO.

She has two subordinates. Every time she came to her, she asked, "Leaders, do you have time the day after tomorrow?"

The subordinate B will check the work arrangements in advance with her, talk about emergencies, and then coordinate time.

The former makes it feel the fog in the cloud every time, but the latter can save time and improve work efficiency.

The difference behind it is that subordinates only say that they want to say subconsciously, but subordinates B can always think and communicate from the perspective of desertation.

There is a sentence in "Killing Knowing the Bird": "You can never really understand a person, unless you put on his shoes and walk around, stand on his perspective and think about problems."

The most effective way to get along with people is to think in other places.

Looking at the problem from the perspective of each other, it is often easier to talk about ideas.

3. Both "open your mouth" and "raised your ears".

"If you want to be a person who is good at talking, then you will be a person who wins."

The reason why people have one mouth, and two ears are twice as much as they say.

Carnegie once participated in a card club.

He would not play cards, and there was just a beautiful lady around him who would not play, and the two of them just sat down and chatted.

During the conversation, the woman mentioned that she and her husband had just returned from Africa.

Kaneki immediately showed a curious look, and asked her to tell her about Africa's interesting things.

Almost all the women were talking about this conversation, but it lasted for a full 45 minutes. Obviously she was very satisfied with talking and chatting with Carnegie.

All communication in life is not the confrontation of the point of view, but the communication of the soul.

When you give others more opportunities to express their thoughts, you can really quickly shorten the distance between the two.

Real communication starts with listening.

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The Petroleum King Rockefeller said:

If communication is the same product, I am willing to pay for this ability that is higher than everything.

Life is alive, a talk that speaks is a ladder that can help you step by step.

Learning to communicate is the ability we need to practice with a lifetime.

Light up, I hope you can continue to improve yourself, use stronger communication skills, and embrace a better life.

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