The "new type of 族“ "quietly emerged and used the" examination "to escape the reality.

Lao Lao has always been spurred by the society. Whenever we see people on the Internet still live on their parents, we will be filled with indignation. I feel that such people are too filial.

Because with the development of society, the traditional form of old -fashioned old man is getting rare, but recently a "new type of old people" appeared, which made many netizens look great.

The so -called "new type of old people" refers to a small number of college graduates. After graduation, they did not choose to work step by step like most people. They worked hard for life every day. Instead, they chose to improve their education or It is a civil servant.

Of course, such a choice is understandable. After all, the improvement of education and the examination of civil servants are for better development in the future.

But the problem is that after choosing these two roads, they did not work hard for them. Instead, they used them as shields, and of course they lived their old life at home.

The new type of 新: I am facing unemployment when I graduate, and they have always been "exams". Parents have suffering.

Ms. Zhang is more than 50 years old this year, but she is still worried about his son's future development. After graduating from graduation the previous year, his son did not choose to go out to work. Instead, he chose to stay at home to test civil servants.

But his son did not work hard, but stayed at home all day to play games. Occasionally spent a little time doing the question, which caused each test score to be unsatisfactory.

Ms. Zhang was worried about this, and whenever she thought of it, she washed her face with tears.

So what causes the younger generation to choose to be a "new type of old people"?

First of all, the pressure of employment competition is too much.

According to relevant information, more than 10 million fresh graduates in 2022, so the pressure of employment is increasingly high and the threshold for job hunting is getting higher and higher.

When some large enterprises screen their resumes, they will even directly remove the resumes of students who graduate from non -prestigious schools.

This has also led to a large number of graduates of ordinary colleges and universities. During the job interview, repeatedly encountered walls and could not find their favorite jobs.

Under such a blow, many graduates have gradually lost their confidence in job hunting, and they are unwilling to face the pressure of job search, so they choose to improve their education or test compilation to avoid the pressure of job search.

Secondly, blindly follow the stream and do not consider the actual situation.

In the past two years, Kao Gong has always been a hot topic. Many netizens even directly shouted the slogan of "the end of the universe", which has made many college students who are facing employment have greatly interested in Kao Gong.

Civil servants are indeed a good career. Compared with the 996 of private companies, many civil servants' lives every day are nine nights and six weekends. The salary may be as high as large companies, but they are stable. In terms of college students, it is a good choice.

However, when many college students choose to test civil servants, they do not consider their actual situation. After choosing the test, they have not regarded it as a very fierce competitive exam. Instead I should also try to test the civil servants.

After choosing the exam, they did not work hard, but instead used this as an excuse to escape the reality.

Finally, the relevant professional knowledge level is not enough and lacks competitiveness.

For college students in most ordinary colleges, college life is very comfortable, the rhythm is not as nervous as high school, and there is a lot of time to "squander" every day.

This has led to some college students during the four years and did not spend their minds on learning. Instead, they used to eat, drink, and play. Some students even had a lot of sciences during college.

After 4 years of college life, some students worked hard during the four years of college, their professional knowledge levels are enough, and they can naturally find their favorite work.

Some students were muddy during the 4 years, and they knew about the majors they learned. During the job interview, the interviewer asked and did not know that such a professional level naturally could not find your favorite job.

In the face of the "new type of” 面 ", what should parents deal with?

After the child goes to college, many parents disregard the education of their children. They are completely in a state of being released, and they do not provide children with advice in learning and employment.

This has led to the lack of planning for their future development after 4 years in college, which leads to helplessness when facing employment. So what should parents deal with this? Making these 2 points is very helpful.

① Provide children with future development suggestions

When parents fill in their children's volunteers, they must provide relevant suggestions to their children, combine their children's hobbies, and the future development prospects of related majors to choose a good professional for children.

The reason why many children do not learn about their professional courses during college is because they lack interest in their professionalism.

During the period of studying in college, parents should also let their children do a good job of studying in the past few years. If they want to work in their own majors, they should let the child focus on the study of professional courses.

If you want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, you should let your child prepare in advance, and it is best to start studying the relevant knowledge of postgraduate entrance examination in the next semester of junior year.

If you want to take a civil servant, you should learn about the relevant knowledge of the test public, the relevant policies, and make full preparations. ② Cultivate children’s self -care ability and let children face it with a peaceful attitude

The reason why many college students choose to be old at home is because they lack their ability to take care of themselves. Parents usually protect them too well and have not seen the cruel side of society.

So when they face employment, they will feel fear of going out to find a job, fearing that they will fail.

In this regard, parents should pay attention to the cultivation of their children's ability to take care of their own ability in daily life, so that children can learn to face the cruel side of life. Essence

To have an indomitable determination, now that you have chosen the postgraduate or the preparation, you should go all out, instead of taking it as an excuse to avoid employment.

At the end

Become a "new type of old people" may escape for a while, but it is impossible to escape forever, and one day will face the pressure of employment.

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