The circle of friends before a man derailed, a wake up for all women

"Sure enough, he is really derailed ..."

What said this was my friend Lingling. As early as half a year ago, she told me that her husband was wrong.

She and her husband met when she was in school. She was married for three years. Now she feels that the man in front of him is a bit strange, but he can't say where it is.

Until one time, a few classmates gathered, and our common friends suddenly asked Lingling and said, "Why is your husband's recent circle of friends so strange?"

Lingling took her mobile phone and saw that these months, her husband sent a lot of friends who were not the same as before.

Go out to walk the dog to tease the cat and send a small video.

Eating with the customer, traveling with the boss, will send a position.

The circle of friends seems to be very successful.

Lingling was wondering, she never saw her husband send these things.

Open your own WeChat, the circle of friends of her husband still stays when the family went out of the outing.

At this time, she woke up, and her husband was likely to set up a group to see, and she was excluded.

Since then, she has grown up and began to pay attention to her husband's whereabouts.

Once I borrowed my mobile phone, it was broken, while her husband looked at his mobile phone while taking a bath.

She knew that it was not right, but she didn't do it. She always had doubts, and it was difficult to maintain the relationship with her husband.

However, she opened WeChat to find out that her husband's chat history was cleaned up, but almost every circle of friends had the same person who liked it.

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She felt wronged. Once her husband was working overtime late at night. When she rushed downstairs to her husband's office, she saw what should not be seen.

Then I found that he was really derailed ...

Such reality is difficult to accept.

Lingling said that she had thought about countless emotions towards flatness.

However, she did not expect that when she was planning for the future, she said that she had the other half of her troubles with her, but she did not know when it would be sprinkled.

She can't accept such reality.

Every dynamic shielded in the circle of friends has become a weapon inserted into her chest.

Too uncomfortable.

Later, when I remembered the days of the same bed in the same bed, Ling Ling told me that in fact, she found that her husband was wrong for many days.

When the two got married, her husband was in a hurry to go home in his class. Sometimes he passed the chestnut stall and knew that she loved to eat, and would bring her a bag of hot chestnuts back.

But after two years, her husband began to go home occasionally, and he said that he was working overtime as soon as he asked.

I rarely took her out to play on the weekend. She had a dog at home and went out to walk the dog when she was fine. Suddenly, she began to pay attention to her appearance.

When she got married, her husband did not take a bath for three or four days. He was fierce and was reluctant to enter the bathroom several times.

It's not the same now. He is not only diligent in taking a bath. Almost every time he goes out, he will organize a half -day hairstyle at the mirror.

Even the circle of friends has become more attentive than ever.

Lingling knew that it turned out that a person had a sign before changing his heart.

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The changes in small habits in life are actually the other party telling their changes silently.

It was not said that it was just to leave the last decentness for the two sides.

Gradually, I knew that all the breakups were not temporary, and all boredoms were stagnant water.

Some people, as early as a bifurcation of your traveling, choose another road.

There are always too many things to live in life, so that we are powerless.

But you said, who can not stand the temptation of life?

What kind of feelings will not be tested in the ups and downs?

As soon as the temptation, as soon as there was a test, they immediately changed their minds to leave halfway. This is not only disrespectful to feelings, but also irresponsible to each other's life.

Speaking of which, I always think of the story of the recent hit drama "Heachi", the story of the eldest sister Yi Zhongling and his brother -in -law Xi Weian.

They are not in love at first sight, more like two marriages.

They respect each other in the beginning of marriage and keep their responsibilities for marriage.

Yi Zhongling will take care of the daily living of Xi'an, and deal with his official sentiment for him.

Xi Guian will protect the Yi Zhongling family. As long as his wife asked for help, most of them must be in response to.

Many people in the barrage said that Xi Wei'an, as a face value, power, and at the bottom of the family, there were never many beauties around him, but in the face of the people around him, he rejected it coldly.

He not only guarded his marriage, but also accepted his wife.

There is a scene in the play. Yi Zhongling was pierced. The people in the house knew that her biological mother was a selling artist. When she was waiting to see her jokes, Xi Weian did not hesitate to block her wife and maintain his wife's dignity.

The phrase "You don't recognize her, I recognize it!" Let everyone around him look at each other, and also let his wife see the man's role in front of him.

He had to welcomes him around, but in his heart, he always put his wife's safety in his heart.

People now love to say that they are very envious of the past car and horse slow, and the letter is far away. I only love one person throughout my life.

However, no matter which era, love is just a spark of instant. If the marriage is long, you can't do without each other, run in each other, and compromise with each other.

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Although the communication and the emotional are open today, they can also be responsible for one person to the end throughout their lives.

Faced with the world of thousands of worlds and the temptation that come to the world, people who can keep themselves are the wisdom.

The precious thing in life is the person who can adhere to the bottom line every time you tempts, and you can hold the opponent's hand firmly every test. Life is desire everywhere, holding desire is the deepest self -discipline.

People often say that if someone wants to walk in advance, if someone wants to go in advance, it is bound to be two people.

A few days ago, there was a post on the Internet that "Jinjiang Yue Water Water" was on fire.

She is a web author, because she has released many works in Jinjiang and is well known by netizens.

She also has a lover who has known each other since she was a student. The two have been aware of becoming a husband and wife for 15 years.

Her husband has also become a handsome and cool male lead in many of her novels.

But what made her unexpected was that she knew that the other party had already been derailed.

Watching her husband and Primary Three talk about the boring of marriage and the helplessness of her feelings, she lost God for a while.

Then I knew that her husband had already accompanied Xiao San to visit the mountains.

The divorce was discussed, but the husband regretted it during the departure period of divorce. As a last resort, they had to live a husband and wife life.

What makes her even more sad is that she has reached the current situation, and her husband will still sway between her and the primary three.

She was desperate. Even if there were children in her belly, she still left a "unbelievable letter" and chose to leave.

The despair of the person who is deeply loved is huge damage to a person.

Sometimes, it is even deprived of all the desire for life.

Therefore, the bridge section I am most afraid of seeing in feelings is that the two people who originally loved each other turned their eyes.

As a result, the most harmful person is often the most affectionate person.

So, what I want to say is that marriage and divorce have never been easy.

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If you want to get into a marriage, don't be stunned by a momentary love. When you learn to take responsibility, you have a sense of responsibility, it is the best time to enter marriage.

If you have entered the marriage, please be patient with your partner. There is no complete and complete marriage in life. Don't be greedy for a while, you lose your most cherished person in this world.

People often say that most people who have traveled to the road are difficult to live in the next relationship.

Why?

Because they only learned to run halfway, they never learned to repair their feelings.

But life is full of storms, whose feelings will not experience a few strong winds and waves?

Everyone wants to be treated properly. Then, from this moment, you may treat the people around you more patiently, so that you will harvest the love from the other party.

Pay attention to "readers", and I hope that every pair of fate can be accompanied by white heads.

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