"On the night of deciding to divorce, she sent a circle of friends and received 29 unsoliced calls."

The cousin decided to divorce the night and sent a circle of friends.

"What is the meaning of living like this ..."

Only 9 words have affected the hearts of the whole family.

Uncle and uncle were so panicked when he saw what to do, let us turn in turn.

As a result, the cousin did not answer the phone, and there were two more friends circles.

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The relationship between cousins ​​and my brother -in -law has been a problem for a while. After so long, I decided to divorce.

In this regard, although his uncle and uncle are not willing, he still hopes that the cousin can live happily.

No one knows what happened this time, and we dare not ask.

After the cousin calmed down, he took the initiative to call his uncle. The first sentence of the uncle answered the phone was:

"Girl, it's okay, I dare not do stupid things."

The cousin apologized on the phone, so we don't worry.

Uncle responded here with light in his eyes.

The cousin was okay after venting, but what she didn't know was that the uncle and uncle did not sleep all night that night, and he secretly wiped the tears several times.

To be honest, this is not like a cousin.

She is not the kind of irrational person, and never preach her negative emotions in the circle of friends.

This time it should be unbearable.

Picture source: Japanese drama "Anone"

Those who usually seem to be "not happy with things and don't be sad", in fact, they have hidden negative emotions.

Once the outbreak, it is like the torrent of the gate, which is out of control.

Adults have long lost their right to collapse at any time, and they can only choose to count the wounds quietly when they are quiet at night.

"The circle of friends in the early morning,

Write all the sadness and joy of the world "

Some time ago, there was a topic on Weibo with a high degree of discussion#前 前 前 前 前 前 前 前#.

Someone asked, "Do we want to vent their negative emotions in the circle of friends?"

The answer below is exactly the same:

"No sense, no one cares."

"Someone asked me, I would say, but no one came."

"Don't, you will feel nervous every time you look back and look at it."

Native

The answer that makes me feel the most is:

"Negative emotions send a circle of friends, it will only make people who are distressed to worry about you, and those who don't like you secretly complacent."

This is the truth that I only grow up when I grow up. Your sadness is only useful to those who care about you, and it is ingenious for other irrelevant people.

Whether you think about it or the dynamics of inadvertently, only for your loved ones, it is reading understanding.

Therefore, please be careful when sending a circle of friends in the early morning, and it is not suitable for any decision late at night.

Friends once said that if you want to really understand a person, go to see his circle of friends in the early morning.

The songs shared in the circle of friends in the early morning, some mourning words, and the work that did not go smoothly ... it was the emotions that a person really wanted to express.

Because at this time, no one will pay attention, sadness is only visible.

There is a friend who works in a publishing house in my circle of friends. Although he is only in his 30s, he has called himself "middle -aged man".

Once I worked overtime late, I went back to brush the circle of friends and watched him send a dynamic:

There is no end to suffering, just walking in suffering. If you ca n’t eat meals, you can smoke a few more cigarettes.

It is equipped with a picture of a cigarette head filled with ashtray.

But when I went to see the next day, he had deleted it.

The circle of friends in the early morning, the survival time was short.

It is purely vent, and delete it after writing.

I don't want to be seen through their fragility by others, and I am afraid that the family will see excessive speculation.

Picture source: Japanese drama "Anone"

Adults have their own unknown difficulties, and adults have a hint of stubbornness. They would rather bear themselves, and they did not want everyone to see it.

Young writer Liu Tong once described the circle of friends in the early morning:

At this time, friends in the circle of friends have been dried up one by one. Xu is cold, harmless and harmless. After the night of cold, he can smile at the face.

I love such friends the most, fighting against reality with swear words, twisting my face to mockery and giving birth to poor, and a heart that is willing to be soft.

Therefore, it becomes the best protection color at night.

During the day, I ca n’t cry, I ca n’t cry at night;

During the day, it was not exposed, and he shook the city late at night.

It is not easy to adults, and it takes time to collapse.

"Decisions late at night,

Hurt the enemy for one thousand self -harm 800 "

Some time ago, I saw a news:

A girl in Jinzhou City posted the word "goodbye" in the circle of friends at 1:11 in the morning.

The netizens in her circle of friends felt wrong and asked her to see him with him.

Her answer is: the whole world.

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Netizens decisively called the police.

As everyone knows, at this time, the girl had swallowed a lot of sleeping pills.

Fortunately, the police worked hard to find, and finally found the girl where the girl was.

After the girl's father opened the door, she found that the girl was in a coma, and there was a sleeping pill box next to her.

The doctor said that if it was later, life may be difficult to recover.

The girl's father did not believe that her daughter would commit suicide.

But no one knows what this girl has experienced, it will be so decisive.

It's emotionally not smooth;

It's not good at work;

Still embarrass yourself, can't live with yourself ...

What is worth thinking is that a sudden night, a sudden decision may take his life.

I have read a sentence:

"10 o'clock is a watershed. After 10 o'clock, the person's mentality will change with the night, and the energy of the moonlight will produce more negative energy and negative factors." The sensuality in the middle of the night is often greater than rational, and it will automatically enlarge the loneliness and fragility. It is easy to make impulse decisions.

There is such a plot in the movie "I'm Not a Medicine God".

"When I first found out, his mother was pregnant for 5 months. At that time, I wanted to die every day.

"As soon as he was born, I didn't want to die when I saw him at first glance."

Picture source: movie "I am not a medicine god"

Fortunately, some decisions were not in a hurry to complete, and it came over from that night without any regret.

But not everyone is so lucky.

There were readers left a message:

On one occasion, he was angry with his family and decided to run away from home at night. The mobile phone also changed the number. I haven't contacted my family for two years. When the mountain poverty returns home, my grandma is gone.

He said that this was the last thing he regretted his life, but it could no longer be made up.

Picture source: Japanese drama "Anone"

Have you ever had such an idea. Every time I made a decision in the middle of the night, I felt that I was neuropathy the next day.

Decide to pull a person, decide to resign, and decide to divorce ...

The thoughts of major decisions seemed to grow crazy late at night, but most of the consequences brought us were contrary to our intentions.

Haruki Murakami once said:

"If you encounter annoyance, cover the quilt to sleep. Anyway, this is the best countermeasure."

Bi Shumin also wrote in "Female Psychologist":

"Remember, don't make a decision when it rains. If you must do it, at least you have to dry your hair. Otherwise, your decision will always have a cold taste.

"The best decision is made at the moment of the sun and highlights. It will have the taste of dry wheat, safe and full."

Therefore, don't rush to make decisions when you are in a bad mood, don't let the negative emotions late at night led you away.

The decision in the middle of the night is the trap set by the devil. Do not plan.

"Life is hard to you,

But you have to spoil yourself "

Are you tired?

tired.

Have you ever thought about giving up?

certainly.

But you have persisted from all the moment you think you ca n’t stand up, it ’s great!

Dazaizhi wrote in "Lost in the World":

"Today, I can't talk about happiness, nor is it misfortune. Everything will pass.

"So far in the so -called human world, the only thing I am willing to regard is the truth, only this sentence: everything will pass."

Picture source: Japanese drama "Anone"

A writer I like very much. Her self -healing ability is super strong. Every time I have any troubles, I will find a way to quickly let myself come out of this emotion.

Go to eat a delicious meal, buy a bouquet of fresh flowers, or place something that you like for a long time ...

In short, she is absolutely attentive in love.

For a while, she was not very good at work, and there was a problem with her emotional problems, but she still smiled and welcomed people every day, pretending to be happy.

One day, a friend asked her, "Is okay?"

She stubbornly said, "It's okay ..."

My friend said, "‘ It's okay ’to say twice, it’ s okay. ”

She laughed "了": "I recently found a Yunnan cuisine, not far from us, do you want to go?"

The friend didn't listen to her and agreed.

You see, there are so many truths of life, so that we all ignore the most important one: we are all pretending to be normal.

Even though his heart was already full of sores, he still insisted on gritting his teeth.

Fortunately, we have the ability to love ourselves so that this world is not bad.

When the bitterness of life exceeds the standard, don't be enemy with yourself, learn to add some sugar to your life.

You are not sad alone, everyone is bitter.

Life will be unreasonable, but you have to be indomitable;

If you want to make every way you want to make you difficult, you have to do your best to love yourself.

At the end

Like San Mao's words:

"Today's things, do their best, do their best, and do their best. No matter what the grades, you should be happy to sleep on the bed."

It ’s hard to eat and sleep well. Only when it is supported can there be everything later.

For the rest of your life, don't leave early.

Whenever I love myself, I love myself a full score answer.

May you have the perseverance of death and the right to cry;

May you have the courage of your lover and the ability to love yourself.

It doesn't matter if you are bitter, everyone is working hard and seriously. Occasionally, the sadness is joking.

Although we are ordinary, we have carried these little noise.

Although life is strong, it will still be merciless and will not kill them.

It is the first time to be a man, not greedy, not taking advantage, and not asking for life.

As for the remaining sufferings, let go!

Follow [Reader], let's accompany to the end together!

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