Facing those who are embarrassed, don't turn your face

Life is alive, there are always people who do not wait to see you, embarrassed you everywhere.

Facing this naked maliciousness, if you are worried, you will undoubtedly hurt yourself with the mistakes of others.

After suffering all kinds of grievances, I realized that it was a very unwise measure to turn their faces when they didn't agree. People who are really amazing often do so.

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Look at it, listen to it.

I have seen a famous sister -in -law:

Han Shan asked: The world slanders me, deceives me, humiliates me, laughs at me, laughed at me, light me, cheap me, evil me, 恶? Pick up the cloud: Just tolerate him, let him, by him, avoid him, resist him, respect him, ignore him, wait for him to see him for a few years.

In the face of those who are embarrassed, this attitude of his aunt is difficult to understand, identify and accept when he is young.

Because there is always an unevenness in my heart, people are willing to make a choice of "killing the enemy for one thousand and damageing 800" in order to "get a bad breath".

My distant cousin A Yun, after graduating from the normal school, taught in a rural school, and soon married a teacher in the same school. The teacher had a good family. The in -laws looked down on A Yuan who was born in rural areas and made trouble everywhere.

For example, Ayun returned to school on the afternoon of Sunday. If he took out his clothes, he only waited until Friday to collect himself. The wind blows the sun and the sun, wherever it is hung.

For example, Ayun and her husband eat and live at home on weekends will be asked by her in -laws and when to pay for living expenses.

In this regard, A Yun's husband disagreed. The two people who had been deeply affectionate finally made a noise. A Yun agreed to divorce because he was "angry", and he took away his son.

In a blink of an eye, more than ten years later, Sister A Yun remarried again. She and her current husband were very loving. At present, the children of the two people are in adolescence. They had to frequently communicate with their predecessors frequently, and the contradictions gradually became more. Ayun suddenly felt that after turning around, the current and predecessor were almost the same. He really didn't know what the picture was.

In life, no one can not help but be aggrieved. The real strength is not to fight for a moment, but to endure the burden of humiliation and accumulation. In a short life, less meaningless tossing can make life more creative possibilities to create wonderful possibilities. Essence

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Don't argue, ignore it.

In the face of those who deliberately embarrass you, the more you care about and care, the more you are in your arms.

Like the classic comic:

The father and son rode the donkey into the city. The people on the road kept pointing at each other. They did not blame them not to know how to be sympathetic. They rode a donkey together, or they accused them of being stupid. As a result, the father and son seemed to be wrong, and the original happy trip became a bad thing.

It can be seen that the reason why people feel that someone is embarrassed is that a large part of the reason is that they care too much about other people's opinions and opinions.

For example, in the workplace, the more serious and responsible you are, the more cautiously, the more someone will find the fault, picking problems everywhere, and the big things that can be rendered like the couch, just to see you are nervous. , I ca n’t make a mistake in busy, so I fell a big heel.

For example, if you take care of the feelings of others everywhere, even if you face unfair treatment, you will adhere to the attitude of "peace and peace", suppress your anger, and strive to make big things, but the other party has to go into a foot, and he can't wait to swallow you.

In the final analysis, in the final analysis, it is because they are not strong enough, they are not hard enough, they have neither strong inner strength, nor a strong aura that is full of external confidence.

In fact, every time you experience a difficult time, you can restrain your emotions, throw them back to the other party one by one, and appear in front of everyone in a kind of indisputable and ignorant gesture, others will be in front of everyone. I can never hurt myself anymore.

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Broken the boat and grown up.

A actor once said: "When you are weak, the wicked people around you are the most."

They are jealous of your ability, and they want to "step on their feet" severely when you are not yet in the beginning, so as to prevent you from "being out of place."

Such "plots" are common in many romance dramas and workplace dramas. Those who are "evil" are always deliberate and unwilling to tear up with them.

However, everyone knows that when a text is not named, it is most needed. Just like the actor in the movie "Great Shanghai", because of grabbing the local "boss", he had to kneel on a road full of glass residue to show the most sincere apology.

The flesh on the body is blurred, which makes people unbearable, but even more terrible is the thorough collapse of the psychological defense line.

People who are really amazing often choose to "fall off their teeth and swallow."

They started to learn from people, and they would say something that made people feel good, and did some "confusing" actions. Of course, it was not compromise, but to save themselves.

Let yourself be not as good as others, and let yourself be a "marginal person" quietly, so as to "cover", study hard, quietly pull out, and make a lot of money. , I can't afford it anymore.

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End words:

As the saying goes: unsatisfactory things are often eight or nine, and they can say nothing with others.

Especially when encountering embarrassment of others, don't have to be like a Xianglin.

These are the practice on the road of life. After being able to withstand, life will be sublimated, and they will be calm, generous, and lively.Author: Rufeng is light and cloudy.

Your happiness, my blessing.

The picture comes from the Internet.

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