Want to make your child grow up well, is this wishful wish?
Author:Wisdom as a teacher Time:2022.07.03
For parents, you need to prepare a variety of preparations for your children. Whether it is to let children learn virtue, wisdom, physical, beautiful, and labor. Still prepare clothes, food, living, and behavior for children. Or, if the child goes out to play, he will worry about his social networking.
People always think that children study hard and take a good university, even if the child has achieved something. However, I was unemployed when I graduated from college. I found out that if I did not adapt to this society, it would be difficult to integrate into the society no matter how good it was.
Therefore, if you want to learn socially, you can't just graduate from college, and you need to cultivate slowly from an early age. How good is it to be as good as a book like a book?
Not to mention, I really found it. The social social socialization of Sunshine Blog is really raining in time. The "Growing up: Growing up: the first campus interaction of elementary school students" published by Beijing Daily Publishing House is a good book that can help children solve social difficulties, and can get along with many people from it.
I am confident, but I don't bear myself.
Perhaps the communication between parents and children in life is about learning. For children's lives, it is not just learning.
In terms of many other things, if the child cannot know himself correctly, then he will have a lot of doubts.
I know I can be divided into 4 me correctly. There are open me, blind me, hidden me, and unknown me. Combining these 4 parts is to be able to truly understand yourself correctly.
In this book, you can see the impact of self -confidence. A high confidence will bring a positive cycle. Thinking that I can do it, and then do a good job in expectations. Finally, I think I do well and bring high confidence. A low -confidence person will bring negative cycles. I think I can't do it, and I think I have failed again.
Believe that you are valuable, deserve to be valued, and have the ability, this is self -confidence.
We can improve our self -confidence through some methods. Self -confidence, understand yourself, and accept yourself. If you like yourself, you will see a more and more confident self. In this way, no matter what you encounter, you can do a high -confidence positive cycle. He always believes in yourself, but he does not bear it and will not blindly believe it.
1. Practice positive self -dialogue
A positive, positive person will improve his self -confidence.
Don't speak those negative languages, they will attack your heart like an arrow. For example: I won't say I won't, but it can be said that I just can't. Not to mention, I am afraid that I will fail, but it can be said that I can always learn from failure. I don't say I gave up, but it can be said that I can try other methods.
Not to mention the negative vocabulary of complaints, but to solve the hint of the problem.
2. Organize your advantages list
Everyone has advantages and disadvantages. If they just stare at the shortcomings, the advantages will slowly disappear and turn a blind eye. Sort out your own advantages.
You can also find your advantages in your eyes.
3. Write down your successful diary
For me who was inferior, writing a successful diary is really a good way to improve my confidence. Originally, I always don't believe that I can do a lot of things. I think I have no advantages.
But after recording a successful diary, you will find that there are many advantages.
After knowing yourself correctly, you can be happy to socialize. "Growing up: the first campus community interconnection book of elementary school students", I look forward to the dream of social affairs.
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