Half of life, don't be weak anymore

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In this world, if you have no reservation, the other party will be so bad

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Author: Liu Xiaoshang

Source: 10 o'clock reading (ID: gxsh789)

Lin Qingxuan once said: "Life is like writing on the water. The second stroke has not fallen, and the first stroke has flowed into the distance."

Turning around, the years have pushed you and me for half a lifetime, too late to remember and sigh.

On this way, we have encountered many people, suffered a lot of things, have been white eyes, laughed at, and never covered with heat and indifference.

Later, I finally understood in countless ups and downs and ups and downs: the more you do, the more you do, the more sad; the more you give up, the more aggrieved.

Only by putting away the weakness of the heart and facing the injustice and falseness in the reality, can we fully fulfill myself and enlighten joy.

Don't be aggrieved for yourself to fulfill others

Last time I saw her girlfriend Xiao Xi, she just renovated the new house half a year ago, and everyone went to lively.

Recently, she took her child to Disney and said four consecutive times, and she did not agree.

It wasn't until last week that she took care of my mother and said the truth.

A while ago, the cousin called Xiaoxi aside and said that Erbao had to change the car and asked her to borrow 50,000 yuan.

She paused for 3 seconds: "Okay, turn it to you right away."

Because she was afraid of her cousin, she was also worried that she couldn't get angry because she couldn't change the car. Xiaoxi lent her savings to her cousin.

But when you ca n’t take your daughter out to travel, you ca n’t arrange a campaign for your mother, but at the birthday party of his cousin ’s daughter, he found that the brother -in -law bought a new watch and the child changed the new tablet. Not mentioned.

Xiaoxi turned to the bathroom and looked at himself in the mirror, and he swallowed all the grievances.

In life, we are not the same. Carefully maintain every relationship, and even get used to looking at other people's faces. It is obviously sad, but don't say a word.

But to yourself, you really don't need a good acting skills, you don't need to support it, pretend to be happy.

It is time to refuse, because he has his excuse, and I have my reason.

There are not so much, it is most important to understand the heart.

"Silent Confession" said: "In the end of our lives, we want to get rid of the expectations of others and find our true ourselves."

Life is not easy, do not lose yourself in order to follow the minds of others; you don't have to be grievances for the whole person.

Proper rejection is not selfish, but understanding and honesty in life.

Don't treat you for yourself for someone who is worthless

At 11 o'clock last night, my neighbor Dan knocked on the door and put the key of her own house on my hand.

She said, "I have taken it all the valuables. If there is an urgent matter, you can take a look at me."

I nodded and agreed, and saw the loneliness in her eyes, and the bruises on her face.

She decided to return to her hometown in the south for a while, leaving the husband who always quarreled with her and even at her.

Yesterday, Sister Dan was busy for an afternoon, prepared a large table of dishes that husbands loved, bought gifts and cakes, and waited for him to go home from get off work to celebrate.

Unexpectedly, her husband didn't even call a phone call. He arrived at home at 10 pm, drunk, and accused her of waste, saying that she had married a defeated wife.

Sister Dan looked at his helpless expression and whispered: "Today is the anniversary of our 10 years of marriage. I hope you can be happy."

"It's better to buy a few packets of cigarettes with this money. What are these useless things?" The husband walked towards the bedroom and complained.

Sister Dan stepped forward to help him, but was impatiently shaken away, her face hit the wardrobe fiercely.

This time, the pain was sober.

She looked at the man in front of her, and did not cry, turned around to clean up, and left the two of them.

Writer Wang Xiaobo said: "The most unfortunate thing in this world is to do a stupid thing after thousands of hardships."

When those willingness to be taken for granted, those who are attentive are disgusted, no matter who it is, it is inevitable.

For ten years, since I can't wait to treat it sincerely, I chose to leave.

This bravery is to put away the humble wisdom and embrace your own free and easy.

I have seen such a sentence:

"You always focus on those who don't like you, which is very unfair to those who like you."

If you don't let others ignore it, you can meet better people and a better future.

Choosing to leave is not to escape, but really face the problem and return yourself to yourself.

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Don't need to be in a deliberate group, to embarrass yourself

A question has been mentioned on the Internet: How important is Hequn? A high praise replied: "If you understand you, you do n’t cooperate; those who do n’t understand you are not in the group.

But in reality, too many people lost their freedom and lost their ability to please themselves.

A few days ago, a circle of friends in the early morning of the classmate Haozi was deleted and deleted, but it happened to be seen by me.

He wrote: "I don't want to force myself to force myself that I don't like the dislike, it's so stupid, it's too tired."

The picture is a rainy day, a curled figure under the street light.

This was his true mood, but helplessly chose to hide it secretly. Without the courage to declare to the world, he could only bring the mask again to continue disguising.

At the time of graduation, Haozi first found a job. As soon as he entered the company, he took the initiative to add each colleague's WeChat. In the circle of friends they visible, more than 70 likes.

Every day, he will boil hot water in advance, put coffee beans, and even prepare a smile on everyone.

But behind this smile, the rejection and restrained freedom.

During the Mid -Autumn Festival holiday, the department K song party, he did not want to go at all, but agreed "without hesitation" under the persuasion of his colleagues and the manager inquiry.

Knowing that he would be embarrassed, but he participated in his head hard, because he was afraid of others to say that he was arrogant, alternative, and uncomfortable.

But as a result, he lost decentness and was even more uncomfortable.

In life, we often make such mistakes, thinking that with everyone's heart, we will be happy.

But after a long time, I found out that only if I put away this disguised disguise and boldly be myself, can I truly relax.

Don't ignore yourself in order to cater to others, don't have to spend time and energy, and in the end, you have to ask yourself "why".

Yang Yan once said: "We once looked forward to the recognition of the outside world, but we knew it at the end: the world is ourselves, and it has nothing to do with others."

Brave alone, not aliens or wrong, just choose another way to present yourself.

The writer's fog blocked the river and said:

"In this world, if you have no reservation, the other party will be so bad.

Therefore, please take care of your kindness, it is best to let it be like a blooming rose to protect its beauty with thorns. "

After half a lifetime, we have given it and forbearance. I always look forward to being able to make all others, but forget to please ourselves.

After the rest of our lives, I hope that we can all put away weakness, listen to our hearts sincerely, and give it as sweet as you pay, and the income is also attributed to joy.

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