People who return to your WeChat like this really don't care about you

not

Compare your heart to your heart, and you get people's hearts

not

Author: Li Yanjie

Source: Night Listening (ID: Yetingfm)

Have you ever heard a sentence: a person, what response to you, what is your attitude towards you. not

Those who love to answer are perfunctory you

In the year I just graduated, I once liked a boy.

He is humorous and gentle and considerate.

We talked to the world for a while, and the relationship was ambiguous, but I didn't pick it up. I thought we were very different from him.

Until he suddenly became indifferent: he suddenly became indifferent:

WeChat was swallowing slowly, and I talked blindly without a word;

No longer good night greetings, no longer sharing without any detail;

A large gap appeared in the dialog box. He always appeared coldly and disappeared coldly ...

not

I thought he was busy, and had no time to talk about daily topics with me, talking about the trivial life.

It wasn't until later that he took a girl and came to the party between friends that I realized that it was nothing special to him.

Think of that line:

If one day he disappeared inexplicably, don't spend huge energy to solve the "Mystery of the Missing Man". No matter how much evidence and excuses you find, the only fact is that he no longer wants to be with you.

Those indifferent words that love to answer are the best excuse for perfunctory resistance.

Then forget it! Even if he contacted you again, don't pay it stupidly.

Just like what they said: the most hurt in this world is the perfunctory after the freshness, the most useless thing is the retention after turning.

No one wants to be a lingering person.

There have been such a pair of young people in the movie "Weiyou".

A man named Sha Guo cannot love a woman named Chen Xi.

Chen Xi is beautiful and funny, and there are never many pursuers around him. However, Sha Guo firmly believed that he could move Chen Xi with sincerity and companionship.

So when Chen Xi was on a business trip, he enthusiastically helped take care of his favorite;

When Chen Xi suddenly wanted to eat dumplings in the middle of the night, he rolled his noodles without saying a word;

When Chen Xi was troubled, he did not want to protect people behind ...

However, Chen Xi's performance of all this would be accompanied by Sha Guo, but refused Sha Guo's confession. Later, even Sha Guo's WeChat just replied.

The last time Sha Guo sent Chen Xima to Chen Xi's frustration, his friends fell down, and when he had nothing but nothing, he hoped that Chen Xi could comfort himself, but after all, he didn't wait.

At that moment, Sha Guo lacked Chen Xi's WeChat and chose not to say goodbye.

Many people say that Shaguo is too decisive, but I think it can be understood.

There is a saying that said this, and I will compare my heart. If I treat you in the way you treat me, I am afraid you have already left.

So don't blame others ruthless.

Don't feel that you won't lose a person a few times. This is like this. It will be disappeared by some disappointing trivial things, and will be wiped out by those indifference that have not responded.

Sometimes, I do n’t love, I just do n’t want to love.

As they said, many light turns turned around, behind the affection that everyone could not understand.

Those who are falsely affectionate are coaxing you

Love is not the same.

When trusting a person, we do not pay attention to the same understanding and cherishment.

Such things happened in me.

Last year, because of work, I was transferred to Chengdu for a while. I first arrived. I was alone. I was helpless. Later, when I went to a ceramic class, I met a friend who could talk about Xia Xia.

I am from Hunan, Xia Xia is native of Chengdu, and neither of them are spicy.

I like Yue Yunpeng. Xia Xia also said that I often listen to the cross talk of Deyun Society; I love adventure, and Xia Xia also said that she was in love with exciting things.

The taste is similar and interesting. At that time, we talked hot on WeChat.

Everything was normal until later, Xia Xia introduced a bunch of expensive beauty products.

I rejected huge sums of money. I was allergic to the whole face. I noticed that I was right.

In the future, I had to send WeChat to question in the past, and I found out that I did not know when she had been quietly pulled into the blacklist by Xia Xia.

Disappointed? certainly. Are you angry? Also.

When you are favorable, you can coax you to be happy.

But instead of saying that you are not encountering people, you should not say that you are too naive. Regardless of the investment, you pay your heart and give your lungs, but you will find that there are more things you do n’t know where you ca n’t see.

There is a saying in "Speaking of Yuequan": Tiger and Leopard are unbearable, and people's hearts are separated from the belly.

Sometimes I really have to admit:

Many sweet words may not be from sincerity. Many booing and warmth may not be out of their original intentions. Many WeChat greetings may be known in the back.

But it doesn't matter if you think about it carefully.

Over time, you will understand who is the person who really treats you, who is worthy of your sincere treat. In the movie "The Inner Integrated Detective Zero", I was particularly impressed by the scene.

The zero hair played by Zhou Xingchi, if there is something unhappy outside, there will be no one to vent his wife to his wife regardless of the blue and red soap.

When his wife is angry, he will point to his nose and rebuke: "Who offended you, you go back to scold him back, don't take me as an air cylinder!"

But I turned around but couldn't help but ask him: "You are hungry or not, I can cook your bowl noodles?

Zero hair originally wanted to lose his temper, looking at his wife's tearful eyes, but suddenly woke up:

Only the woman in front of him.

Think about it, why isn't this real life?

When you are proud, all kinds of people in WeChat come to bless you. Only those who are close will tell you to drink less.

When you are down, all kinds of people in WeChat are disappeared, and only those who are close to cook a bowl of noodles silently.

There is a saying that said this: getting along with others, it is really impossible, it is really impossible.

We used to be silly, thinking that what was seen was all, and what he heard was everything.

Now we pretend to be stupid, although we do n’t know how to wear it, but we wo n’t say through it.

But I slowly learned to leave the heart to the most worthwhile person, which is enough.

Those who can’t read back are rejecting you

Converge with others, invest in nine points, one point of dignity.

If you really change your heart, of course, you can get happy, and you become dead when you ca n’t change it.

Some time ago, I had a small time that had been hacked for many years, not out of impulse, but was really chilling.

I don't know if you have experienced such an experience?

I am very concerned about a person. Even for many years, Tiannanhai and the North are still in his heart. However, the reality is always a good head.

I deliberately sent a message greeting many times, and I was ignored there;

I have also said a lot of it many times, and after a long time there is a "um" without temperature;

There are many times I want to narrate the old, talk about the past, and their own recent situation. There is no words over there, but I have updated several friends in the circle of friends in a row.

In the end, the thing that made me determined to blacken him was:

At the beginning of the year, he suddenly asked me to borrow money on my WeChat, and I agreed without saying a word.

Until recently, because of some things happened at home, he was not very abundant at hand, so he tentatively asked if he could pay some money first. He pushed left and right to find an excuse. Later, he ignored me at all. This person is not friends enough ...

not

At that time, I was really complicated, I just felt like I was in my throat, but I completely saw him.

Without returning the news, but active in the circle of friends, it actually shows that I received your news, but I was unwilling to reply?

I owe money, but there is no explanation. Not only is it disappearing in the chat dialog box, but also vilifying in real life. In fact, it is the performance of the character that does not cost?

There is a sentence that says:

Appreciate a person, start with the value of the face, respect the talents, meet the personality, and have a long -lasting personality, and finally the character.

I didn't believe it before, but now I believe it.

After all, any relationship in this world gets along with the character.

Personal character, everything is done, the character is not good, nothing can.

Speaking of which, thinking about some time ago, when the European Commission Chairman Juncker talked about the peace process and trade in the Middle East at the press conference, the mobile phone suddenly sounded.

Originally, they should not be interrupted by the phone, but Juncker took it immediately.

I apologized afterwards that my wife came.

The implication is that I dare not pick up.

After the video burst out, some people teased that the chairman was also very low at home.

I don't think so. In my opinion, this is a man's instinctual response, and it is also a man's good performance in marriage.

Actually, where dare not pick up? I just don't want to make people anxious.

There is a saying: those who love you are free for 24 hours. People who don't love you are busy during the day and night.

Don't believe that a person's attitude to reply to your news often represents the temperature of your relationship.

You have to know: there is no news that you can't receive, only people who don't want to reply.

Sometimes, no reply is actually the biggest reply.

Sometimes, there is no reply, but it is not worth the entrustment at all, and you don't care so much about you at all.

For those who don't care about you, why should you ask him to ask for him and get his heart and lungs?

People's hearts are better than people's hearts, and the saying goes well in eight or two pounds: people's hearts are better than people's hearts, and they change half a catty.

Both friends and lovers should have less routine and more sincere.

Don't be perfunctory; do n’t have any good things, there is nothing to do with Xia Yingchun; let alone ignore the waiting of others, and do n’t return the news of others.

The truth behind this is to put it bluntly.

I have heard a word:

The most comfortable relationship between people and people is not to follow up, and talk about it every day, but that I send a message. You will reply sincerely when you see it.

No one is stupid. It is true or false, it is a false sentiment, it is true, and it can be felt.

Are you always treating people with sincerity?

If so, please keep it.

Does anyone around you always treat you sincerely?

If so, please cherish them, because they can not do so.

For the rest of my life, I live up to every sincerity.

You have to know that in this world, you can find a person who really treats yourself, even if you live up to this life!

Time -limited benefits

Summer Solstice Zen Raiders Light Valley Camp

Raise your body and mind, rejuvenate your vitality

Restart life energy

Meet yourself

not

- END -