Never force a person into a garbage person

Author: insight allergy

When the rotten people can hurt you, there is no gap between you.

01

When I was in college, I often listened to the public classes of a professor.

Once, when he told the ancient Chinese etiquette in the class, some personally disrupted the classroom. As soon as he opened his mouth, he slandered ancient etiquette. He also accused him of waste education resources.

I couldn't listen to the classmates present, and they thought that the professor would get the person who listened to the class.

Unexpectedly, he laughed and said:

"I believe you are willing to listen to this lesson, and this lesson has its value.

If you can't accept it, you can choose not to listen. After all, there are still many people here to listen. Do you say it? "

These words made that person self -confidence and hurriedly left the classroom.

Afterwards, a few classmates and I were very puzzled: "That man is clearly coming to trouble. Why are you so polite to him?"

The professor said with a smile and said to us that it was more important than letting this lesson go smoothly than to let this lesson go smoothly?

"You must remember, never forced a person into a garbage person."

We rarely see people who have a pattern, wise and wise people who are entangled, not because they are lucky and not encountered, but because they can do not care.

02

Writer Zhang Yixi said:

"We should learn not only far away from garbage people, but to learn how to avoid pushing each other into a garbage person, stifling conflicts and contradictions in the cradle. This is a science."

In fact, there are many things in life that can be avoided. The garbage people we usually encounter are likely to be caused by ourselves.

It's like the incident of the security guards who shocked the country.

Originally, the owner only needed to cooperate with the security measurement to measure the temperature.

Unexpectedly, the owner yelled at the security guard, causing the security guard to stab the owner to death with a knife.

There is a saying that it can't afford it and can hide it.

In this world, there are both good people, but there are also some bad people who are unreasonable and suffocated.

Trocked them, wasting time and energy, and the heavy life will affect their lives and threatened their lives.

A few days ago, Douban netizen@前 前 took a walk outside the child's community. At this time, a person suddenly ran over and almost knocked him and the child.

Before he spoke, the other party began to scold: "You fucking blind, it's really obscure."

Obviously, the other party hit someone, but instead bite a bite.@明 明 明 明 明 明, but smelled the alcohol that came from, he immediately pressed the anger, apologized to the other party with a smile, and then left with the child quickly.

Later, I talked to my friends about this. Some people admired him too to bear it, and some people said that he was too counseled, but he laughed and said:

"I took my child at the time. If it was troubled with them, it would not have a good impact on the child.

Furthermore, the other party drank. Once they irritated them, they did something out of control. It was not just that I had a child, but it was not worth it. "

You will never imagine how bad a person can be. We always think that everyone is reasonable, but the reality makes us fear.

Perhaps we cannot avoid we encounter bad people, but we can prevent people who are before they occur and stay away from those who may hurt you in time.

As the saying goes, those who have a strong person to solve the people are strong and prevent the suffering from the immortal god.

When encountering bad things, it is a great wisdom to kill the conflict in time.

03

I saw a video of "The Law of Trash" on station B. There was a paragraph in it:

"Rotten people are like garbage trucks, and they want to find a place to pour garbage everywhere. If you ignore him, his garbage will not pollute you. Therefore, when someone wants to do this, don't accept it. Wave, I wish them good luck, and then continue your way, believe me, you will be happier to do so. "

The best way to deal with bad people is to laugh at it.

Writer Shi Odo once said such a story.

Duo Duo met a young man selling newspapers while having breakfast with his friends.

The young man provoked the Daobo to shout: "A writer, will you not buy newspapers?"

I heard Our talking to him like this, and didn't care too much. He smiled and said, "I really need to buy a newspaper."

After buying the newspaper and said "hard work" to the young people.

Unexpectedly, the young man vomited a sputum towards the ground and said, "Have you worked hard? Are you ridiculed me?"

When I heard these words, I couldn't help but want to come forward to argue with the young people, but theododo pulled a friend to leave.

Friends asked with Ai Duo angrily, why not scold back?

Suohaha laughed and said:

"I bought a newspaper for him, but for myself. If I care about him too much, he will be led by his nose and quarrel or even fight with him.

The best way to overcome the rogue is not to scold him to be speechless and beating him to kneel for mercy, but to keep friendly and always maintain friendship. "

Just like Lincoln had said such a sentence after being injured by political enemies:

Rather than fighting with a dog, let it take it first.

Because it is not glorious to defeat a dog, but it is unlucky to be bitten by a dog.

The general rushed and did not chase the rabbit. Your life is very expensive. Do not use it to entangle things that are not worth it.

04

There is a classic line in the movie "Princess Diary": "One day, I will grow up, and you will always be a bad person." In the face of rotten people who deliberately find faults, the best revenge is to grow up.

The Queen of talk show, Lives, was always blocked at the beginning.

Once, she performed in a restaurant in New York for less than 3 minutes, and the restaurant owner pulled out the power of the microphone and bombarded her down the stage.

Since then, every place in Rivers, there are always various accidents that have occurred and interrupted her performance.

She quickly discovered that she was a peer named Sophie and secretly stumbled.

Rivers' friends were unhappy and planned to go to Sophie's field to make trouble, which was stopped by Rivers in time.

Later, every time Rivers performed, she avoided the occasion of Sophie's performance.

Even if Sophie did not give up, he instead intensified the agent of Rivers.

Not only did Rivers not furious, they took the initiative to find the agent and shared the agent with Sophie. With the intermediate coordination of the agent, her performance was no longer troubled by others.

Six years later, Rivers became popular through "Tonight Show" and became the "first lady" in the American talk show.

Sophie became an artist because of a performance mistake, and faded out of Rivers' world early.

Venus once said that when rotten people can hurt you, there is no gap between you.

Life is not long, instead of competing with bad people, it is better to use energy and time to improve yourself.

When you grow up with growth, those garbage people are just a trivial passenger on the way when you come. ▽

Someone once asked Zou Shiming, the Olympic boxing champion: "In life, what would you do if someone stepped on you?"

Zou Shiming replied with a smile: "Of course it is forbearance. If you don't, you will apologize to others."

Stop loss in time, do not let your emotions dominate yourself, and do not waste your energy on what consumes you.

In this way, you can live well.

Like a praise and encourage friends.

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