Xiahongshu has a husband's clothes on the fire, and his wife voiced in the third trimester to unveil the marriage in the marriage.

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A few days ago, Xiaohongshu was on fire.

The screenshot is a photo taken on the balcony. You can see many unknown clothes hanging on the hanger, twisted together like twist.

Seeing the explanation of the netizens who posted below learned that it turned out that this was her husband's clothes.

"Do you have the same pig teammate? I can't cry and laugh when I see it."

Netizens also attached a few topics to see some of her related information, such as she is now in the third trimester, and she thinks this is "a happy moment in daily life."

It seems that the netizen did not be disgusted with his husband's such things, and even felt a little funny.

However, other netizens don't feel funny, and even a little angry.

"Obviously don't want to do it. Such people look angry. If it is me, I will throw out his clothes in the future.

"If you don't want to drew your clothes like this, you don't want to bear the housework, or it is pure and pure, you should be sent to the hospital."

"Don't cry and laugh, this is not to work intentionally. Normal people will not dry their clothes like this."

Some people say to the woman bitterly, "If you think about it, you are in the late pregnancy. He is still like this. How much can the child be born to help you?"

Yeah, this should not be a happy daily life worth showing off, but a "rot" attitude of a husband who is afraid.

I have to say that netizens in the comment area are sober than the wife in the picture.

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Women and housework seem to be a binding relationship.

In 2017, the Social Science Literature Publishing House "China Women's Life Report" shows:

The daily housework of Chinese women reaches 2.6 hours; the wife has become the main undertaker of the housework with a 65%overwhelming proportion, which does not include the elders of the elderly as the elderly in the family.

(Picture source: Xinhuanet)

In terms of breeding offspring, 91.1%of women believe that they have assumed the responsibility of most and even take care of their children.

The director of the documentary "Shengmen" Chen Weijun said:

"It is said that fertility is a matter of two people, and it is a matter of husband and wife. In fact, it is not.

Only women who really face everything. "

Whether it is family labor or parenting, it seems that women should bear and have to face.

And men who are also the founders and members of the family can have the opportunity to avoid these responsibilities perfectly. Over time, it seems that they have also defaulted. It is a natural obligation to bear all this.

I once knew that a question was widely discussed.

A husband talked about his wife: "My wife is too lazy to do housework, what should I do?"

After reading the description, the slot is full.

For her husband, the wife's washing machine was not cleaned like her parents' house.

But he ignored that his wife also had to go to work, and he had to get off work at 10 pm every day.

Even so, he has to compare his wife and full -time mother at home, blaming his wife as good as his mother.

I can do n’t like to wash dishes, but I refuse to ask his wife to ask for a work. For him, he was washed, washing dishes, laundry and mopping.

For such remarks, netizens are also unable to vomit. Most of more than 300 comments are:

"I want to change me. If I get home at 10 o'clock every day, my husband said that I am lazy and do not do housework. ","

Faced with the negative comments from the face, the husband finally deleted the dissatisfaction with his wife, leaving three words:

"I did not expect that there would be so many sharp criticisms, I read it with an open mind. It seems that the two people still have to understand each other. In any case, thank you everyone."

This husband who did not expect such a husband is the epitome of tens of thousands of husbands.

And those wives who endure in such a marriage also make the illusion of these husbands deeper.

03

Do you remember the aunt Su Min who left home and driving and traveling?

She endured the AA -made marriage that has not been loved for more than 30 years. After completing her "wife" and "mother post", she was really reluctant to wait for her husband who would be expected to do anything, so she drove away from home.

But at the beginning, she was not so free.

In her first half of her life, the keywords of life can almost be said to be "patience".

As a child, the two younger brothers slid down on the hillside of Qamdo, Tibet. She had to hold back the impulse of the same indulgence. The task was to help the younger brothers clean the dirty pants;

When she was young, in the face of her husband's violence and indifference, she continued to endure for her daughter;

When she graduated from college in college, she wants to find an object.

The two grandsons were born, and she had to endure the child's child.

Su Min also tried to find the reason in this failed marriage, "Is it because I don't look good?" "Because I gave birth to my daughter?"

She has also been depressed because of this. In the worst, she often shed tears at home unconsciously and began to take medicine to treat depression.

In the end, she couldn't find the answer. She finally gave up her attribution and no longer had any expectations for her husband.

Subsequently, it was the self -driving bank that had been "long -planned".

Su Min no longer finds the reason from himself, so he got the chance to breathe himself.But many women are still trapped in the intimacy of self -deprivation of themselves without knowing themselves.

Therefore, don't take the definition of the outside world as yourself.

Nothing, "You are a woman, you are a daughter, you are your wife, what should you do", you will always be you.

If you can have the opportunity to choose and break the game, don't sleep unconditionally.

Reading the Jun Tongjia Dictionary "Social Character" said: "Social characters are shaping our behavior in a subtle way. Even invisible, we have become the role of the character, and no longer the master of its."

Don't be a slave to the character, think about what you want, to reject those who make you uncomfortable, be a beautiful person.

As said in "Silent Confession": Our life is to get rid of the expectations of others and find our true ourselves.

Whenever you can lose yourself in various roles.

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