Knowing that I had a daughter, my mother -in -law turned back to the countryside. After 18 years, the daughter of 985 refused to see her.

■ Author: Uncle Nanshan

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01, the first saying.

Heavy men and women are the thought of tumor in feudal society. Although the era of feudal tradition has long been far away, some of the bad ideas it remains remain on some people. Especially from some places from remote rural areas, "heavy men and women" can still see its shadow. The terrible "heavy men and women" is that in severe cases, it even destroy a girl's healthy and beautiful childhood. The native family is a shadow of life that is difficult to get rid of them.

As parents, we must not have the thoughts of men and women. As a girl's grandparents, once with the thoughts and ideas of the male and female, as a parent of a girl, we must know how to do a good job of ideological education for their parents. If the ancestors of girls do not accept it, then, as the parents of a girl, they must know how to take the child away from the kind of heavy male and female environment. Only in this way can their children avoid being harmed by men and women, their children can grow up healthy, and even become materials.

02, I came to work in the city from the countryside and met Li Xiaodong, who was honest and honest.

Dear friends, my name is Song Chunlan, a girl from the countryside. Because I did not enter high school, I just entered a middle school to study, so I was hard to find after graduation. Later, under the introduction of an acquaintance, I came to work in the beautiful Jiangcheng City. My unit is a private company. Although this company is not large, the boss is very good for employees. Therefore, I am very satisfied with the working atmosphere of this private company.

However, I was happy that in this private company, I met Li Xiaodong, who was also working in this company. Li Xiaodong, like me, also comes from the countryside, but he reads a high -vocational college, so his post in the enterprise is a management position. Because I often contact Li Xiaodong when I work, we are familiar with one or two times. Later, he secretly asked me to add WeChat. Slowly, we became affectionate and became a male and female friend.

03, after getting married with Xiao Dong, she sang a woman and lived a quiet and happy life.

After a year of falling in love with Li Xiaodong, we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to receive a marriage certificate. Li Xiaodong was very good to me. Every day, he would take me to the streets and alleys in Jiangcheng. We have eaten the food in Jiangcheng and watched the large and small attractions in Jiangcheng. It can be said that I am very satisfied and happy to marry Li Xiaodong. We enjoy the fireworks that belong to us. I think this is the happiness that marriage brings to me.

When I come back from get off work every day, Xiaodong and I will do housework together. I like flower arrangement. Every day I arrange the family warm and fragrant. And Xiaodong likes to cook. His stewed "pork ribs" and "papaya catfish soup" are what I like to drink the most. I often say to Xiaodong: "Husband, I feel happy to marry you. We have children in the future. Whether it is a boy and a girl, you must treat him or her. Said seriously: "No, I prefer girls. Because my daughter is our little cotton jacket."

04. After half a year, I was pregnant, and my mother -in -law took the chicken and duck to take care of me.

I married Xiao Dong for half a year, and I soon became pregnant. I heard that I was pregnant, and the mother -in -law in the country was bad. She looked at the natives and chickens and ducks with big bags, saying that she would make up for her future grandson. As soon as I heard it, I laughed: "Mother -in -law, how do you know that the child in my stomach is a man?" The mother -in -law also laughed: "Feng Shui, this is Feng Shui, all of our families in our family are all men. Your first child must be male. If you have a daughter, what else do I have? "

My mother -in -law's words made me very speechless, but I didn't want to argue with my mother -in -law. After all, I had to raise a good tire at the moment, so that my child's healthy and smooth birth was king. After my mother -in -law came to our house, she washed and brushed every day, and actively bought food and cooking for us. She often looked at my stomach with a smile: "Grandson and grandson, you want to be healthy, and you will be grandma's sky in the future." Li Xiaodong sighed and shook his head and walked away.

05, the night before giving birth, her mother -in -law also bought black chicken and cuttlefish.

Under the care of my mother -in -law, I and the fetus were healthy. I am very grateful to my mother -in -law. I also asked my husband to include 10,000 yuan to my mother -in -law, as my mother -in -law to take care of my hard fee. The mother -in -law said with a smile, and said that the money would buy snacks for my grandson. On the night of my due date, I was going to go to the hospital for delivery. My mother -in -law also went to the supermarket to buy black chicken and cuttlefish dried soup for me to drink.

Li Xiaodong took me to the hospital, and I was going to give birth at the hospital. In the hospital, I was a little worried, and said to Li Xiaodong: "Xiaodong, your mother always thinks that the child in my stomach is a man. In case I have a girl, then your mother will not see me in the future?" Xiaodong comforted me and said, "Chun Lan, you can rest assured, no matter whether there are boys and girls, I like it, I will always raise him or her. Our child, my mother can't do the Lord." With my husband's promise, I have my husband's promise, I have my husband's promise, I have a promise of my husband, I have a promise of my husband, I have a promise of my husband, I have my husband's promise, I have a promise of my husband, I have a promise of my husband. Just rest assured.

06, the next day I gave birth to a daughter, but my mother -in -law returned to the country with the black chicken.

In the early morning of the next day, I gave birth to a girl. When I got out of the delivery room, my mother -in -law was outside. When I entered the ward, I saw my mother -in -law's face ugly. Listening to the nurse said that I had a girl, and it seemed to have changed. She hurriedly said a few words to Li Xiaodong, and then left quickly. I know that my mother -in -law must be unhappy because I gave birth to a girl. When I was discharged, I saw that the refrigerator was empty. It seems that my mother -in -law took away the black chickens and cuttlefish I bought that day. Li Xiaodong saw that the refrigerator was empty and very angry. He shouted angrily: "My mother is too young and the girl? How can she do this? Take away everything in the refrigerator, what do we eat?" Looking at it My husband was angry, and I was also very frustrated.

07, my mother -in -law has never been there since then, and Xiaodong and I just occasionally return to the countryside.

After the mother -in -law returned to the country, she never returned. During the lactation, my husband was helping alone. When my maternity leave was over, Xiaodong called to let her mother -in -law come over to help take the child. I did not expect that my mother -in -law decisively refused. No way, we had to invite a home nanny to help bring their children. Our daughter is very cute. We gave her a niche named Xiaozao.

As Xiaomi Jujube grows up slowly, we sometimes take our children back to the countryside, but my mother -in -law has never given me a good look. Sometimes I even said that Sang Huai said: "A loss of money, I lost my face." Listen If my mother -in -law is a bit vicious, I am always sad. So every time we return to the countryside, we are in a hurry. Even after the New Year, we will not stay for a long time, but we will come back after finishing some ceremonies and find an excuse.

08, Xiaodong and I worked hard to educate their children. After 18 years, my daughter entered the 985 university.

Under our elaborate care, Xiao Mianzao went to kindergarten, went to elementary school, went to junior high school, and went all the way. The children performed very well. We feel that education is the most thing we should do as parents. As for giving birth to boys and women, they are actually the same. In order to allow children to have a good educational environment, we also let the children go to the most expensive tutoring institution to tuition. After all the way, although it is difficult, the harvest is also rich.

Eighteen years later, my daughter, Xiao Mianzao, entered a 985 university with a high score of 665 points. The news passed to the hometown in the countryside, and his hometown was sensational. Li Xiaodong's vice 电话 called and shouted excitedly: "Xiao Dong, your daughter's daughter is awesome. She is the only person in our hometown to enter 985. By the blessings and praise of Erji, my husband and I felt very gratifying. We were happy for ourselves to have such a hard -working and smart daughter.

09, her mother -in -law looked at the child with a lot of gifts, but was launched outside the door by her daughter.

The next day, my mother -in -law held a lot of gifts to see Xiaozheng dates. She knocked on the door of our house, and when I saw that it was my mother -in -law, she stunned. And Xiaozao saw her grandma, but she didn't give her grandma good. She changed her face and asked, "What are you doing?" As soon as her mother -in -law asked her like this, she answered strangely: "Xiao Dao, I am your grandma, you have been admitted to 985 university, and you will be a very ability in the future. People are, you are the pride of our family, I will congratulate you deliberately. "

Xiaozao jujube launched her grandma out of the door: "Grandma, don't blame me for being ruthless. For so many years, you always treat me as a loss of money. Every time I return to the countryside, you always scold me with sand and scold my mother. Don't think I don't know. Now that I have been admitted to 985, you want to come almost. Where did you go? Where did you go? Blessings, you go back to the countryside. "After that, she closed the door.

10. End words.

Friends, my mother -in -law knew that after giving birth to a girl, she returned to the countryside with black chicken and cuttlefish, and never came again. She does this, is it too heavy for men and women? Later, my daughter was admitted to 985, and her mother -in -law came to visit the child. Is she too realistic? My daughter doesn't like grandma, and she launched her outside the door. Is my child doing this? Now, how do I deal with the contradiction between my daughter and her grandma? Please leave a message in the comment area, thank you all.

[About the author]: Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories, and emotional beauty writing, published 6 emotional, beautiful texts, storytelling books. The original self -media platforms created the authors of V, and the major platforms accumulated a total of millions of fan authors. Uncle Nanshan aims to give you more positive little stories through simple text, tell you some truthful truths, and realize some beautiful little luck in life.

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