"Introverted girls can also love bravely"

At first I thought it was a TV drama plot. As a result, I opened a look at the scene of a reality show.

Once again, isn't it just a small workplace epitome.

The whole atmosphere was suffocating. I couldn't support it after watching it for two minutes. I quickly exited the video.

Later, some netizens sorted out the text version of the text, only to know that there were more suffocating scenes later.

As an elder, Song Dandan, in order to let everyone get closer and understand each other, it is proposed to hold a bonfire party to let everyone prepare their talents.

The leadership is very interesting and said that they want to arrange benefits to their subordinates. As a result, the benefits are built on the weekend.

As soon as the proposal came out, all beings in the workplace came out.

Some people who write emotions on their faces, boldly express dissatisfaction, have insights and watches, and they have a smile, and they are also unpleasant but silent.

What makes people read directly is the period when Wang Chuanjun refused to perform.

When the incident developed to "Everyone had a show", Wang Chuanjun, who did not participate in, was suddenly CUE, and was asked if he wanted to dance together.

Wang Chuanjun explicitly answered: "I don't want it, I have answered me." I don't want it. "

The other party still did not give up, and continued to persuade: "Eleven people are better for formation."

Wang Chuanjun refused again: "I don't want to." He sincerely said his thoughts, and many people were not daring to say.

Seeing this, I thought of a typical scene in the workplace:

The leader issued a notice that was obviously dissatisfied in the group, and then many "1" of the top popup continuously popped up in the dialog box.

We all want to become Wang Chuanjun, or colleagues like Wang Chuanjun.

But in fact, most of the time, we will only silently return "1" in the company's group.

But in actual life, we seem to have really encountered such 00s.

More newcomers in the workplace, the moment they leave the campus, are willing to put themselves into the "professional" model -well -behaved, obedient, and high -efficiency closed loop.

Because the real workplace survival law is that there is no choice but to have no choice but to have no choice.

Most ordinary people in the workplace often can only be passively rolled into the huge vortex composed of KPI, interpersonal relationships, and various meaningless consumption.

The Korean drama "My Liberation Log" I have recently watched has a realist dilemma in the workplace.

Many people left a message after watching, "My soul concealed me in this play."

In the process of watching this drama, I also deeply remembered the situation and encounters of the heroine in the workplace.

In the female lead pursuing self -liberation, I found some effective inspirations other than "becoming the king of the workplace".

It is the three sisters who are bullied by my brother and sister and can only swallow.

As soon as she appeared, she was exhausted, my eyes were gloomy.

She spends three hours a day to commute and go back and forth on the bus and subway.

Compared with the physical load, what makes her exhausted is spiritual consumption.

Her company is popular with a corporate culture called "Tongxian",

It is to divide people with the same hobbies to a group, and after get off work, each group is built.

For the introverted Lian Meizhen, this is simply suffering.

She couldn't be interested in any fellow club. Once a colleague was pulled to participate in a collective event, and finally left the scene on the grounds of "living too far away".

There are two people in the company in the company, because they did not participate in any fellowship, and the three were often talked about by personnel.

In her opinion, all interpersonal relationships are like working.

She was too lazy to join the small group of colleagues, and she was not good at flattering leadership.

Coupled with the general work ability, she is often arranged and degraded by colleagues.

Her station is very close to the supervisor. Each time she finished the plan and returned to the station, she could clearly hear the sound of the supervisor sighed heavily and with a red pen on the paper.

In such a life, I can't find a little reasonable reason.

But in such a funeral tone, I slowly noticed that the power of the heroine's heart began to wake up and surge.

She is not the same as the ordinary people. Everyone is restless and panic, but she looks particularly calm.

Below the waves that are not shocked, she actually has a heart that wants to break through the siege.

On one occasion, the three -person group was called by personnel.

Because I really can't stand the feeling of being interrogated and persecuted, someone finally proposed:

"Do you want us to set up a fellow meeting ourselves?"

Just when everyone's hard -to -like what is suitable for doing it together, Lian Meizhen's tunnel flashed, "Would you like to call the Liberation Tonghui?"

As soon as the three were shot, there was a classic conversation below.

"Why do you need liberation?"

"Because although I don't know where I was locked, it seemed to be imprisoned, I wanted to break through the siege."

"What is liberated?"

"What you are trapped, what you liberated."

After that, the three people often gathered together to analyze themselves and exchange their attempts and progress on the road of liberation.

This is a spiritual awakening of Lian Meizhen in the workplace. She first realized:

Even if you are humble and small, you can do something to fill your heart.

Facing all kinds of life that makes us unwell and painful,

Coping methods do not necessarily destroy these roots that make us feel uncomfortable and painful, but we can find another way to make ourselves better.

For example, one of the men said that the most thing they did every day kept looking at the watch.

It seems that I have been chased by time, and there is always a compulsive psychology that must be better every day.

But when I found that I didn't do anything in one day, I would blame themselves.

So his liberation never blame himself.

"Take a break after doing work, and find the rhythm that suits him" is the first small step he tried.

The liberation of the heroine is that it is enough to survive every day for five minutes to breathe.

She said that she would be grateful for helping students open the door of a convenience store, and she would be excited for seven seconds.

Opening my eyes and found that today is Saturday, I will be heartbroken for ten seconds.

If this goes on, it will be satisfied for five minutes every day.

When asked if he was liberated some, someone answered:

"Sometimes I feel liberated, and sometimes I was beaten back to the original shape, but I can't say it."

This sentence comforts me many times I want to break through, but after a few attempts, I seem to have nothing to change my anxiety.

It made me realize that from the moment we wanted to break through, it was different from the past, but it was difficult to highlight this change in a short time.

At the end of the play, the heroes of the protagonists did not make a successful end, and at this time, it was precisely the beginning of their remaining life to liberate.

I think, when I return to real life, our lives are also.

Maybe we have no way to become a person who has the courage to express dissatisfaction and fight back on the front of Wang Chuanjun.

But there will also be other gentle and effective responses.

Not everyone has to become a "king of the workplace". Compared with the pursuit

Seeking a small spirit of self -consistent self -consistent self -consistent self -confidence on the road to withstand twists and turns may be more practical and sustainable.

Even if you just create ten seconds of heartbeat time for yourself every day.

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