After the pattern is big, the work is smooth

I have seen such a topic on Weibo: What collapse encounters have you encountered in the workplace?

The problem is a neat row of long -term vomiting, which is nothing more than:

The overshoot workload, the suffocating working environment, the leader who does not laugh, only the colleagues who will laugh, and the poor salary ...

Once upon a time, these well -known workplace encounters made people unable to defeat them again and again. Only by knowing how easy it was.

After hearing a word, "The pattern is great, and the work will be smooth."

When you know how to put away your emotions and enlarge the pattern, you can harvest your own growth.

I have seen a news:

Chen Chen, a platform staff member, found that a woman was sitting on the ground on the aisle for half an hour without response.

Chen Chen was afraid of accidents, so she stepped forward and asked, but the woman kept talking.

Chen Chen wanted to comfort her, and touched the woman's head with her hand.

Unexpectedly, her emotions collapsed and held Chen Chen crying.

It turned out that she had worked overtime for a month and had to face the criticism of leaders every day without venting.

At home, complained to her husband that her husband suspected that she had a lot of things and could not get comfort. She could only digest it outside. After dealing with my mood, I went home before going home.

She said: "The work is too tired and bitter, I dare not cry at home, I am afraid to scare my young daughter."

It is not easy to work, and it is difficult to make money.

In fact, the salary and growth brought by each job will always be accompanied by grievances and hard work. Who has not struggled in the muds of work?

In "The E hearty Offer1", the trainee lawyer Li Chen was unfavorable. The first task was at the bottom of the task because of the late time.

This is a great blow to him who entered the workplace.

With this pressure, he hopes to make up for the lack of lack with hard work.

Therefore, he worked hard every day to return to work and prepare information overnight.

Who knows that there are still obvious small mistakes in communicating with the client.

The second result came out, he was still at the bottom.

Effectiveness is distressing, but the result is so bad that people are crazy.

It was difficult to hide the low emotions, Li Chen couldn't help tearing in front of the leader.

His sentence "I am too difficult", it is not easy to reflect too many people in the workplace.

At the age of 20, looking for a job is like squeezing the subway in the early peak, and it was difficult to get on the car, but it was a three -without white white without experience, no connection, no resources, and could only stand up to stand;

Slowly boiled until the age of 30, promoted hopeless and worked overtime, and if you don't pay attention to it, you will be crushed by a large wave of waves.

After 40 years of age, the vocational and technical change was changed, the salary reduction and reduction followed, and the middle -aged crisis was overwhelmed ...

Life, as if after working, there is no easy word.

The poet Rilk once said:

If there is any victory at all, it means everything.

In this world, no job is easy, and no money is easy to make.

More often, adults can only be moved forward by work.

Writer Zheng Yiqun wrote a story.

One person, when he met an old Zen master, he complained to the old Zen master very hard. It was better to do it as a monk.

The old Zen master said to him, "Why do you want to give up your job to practice? Now you want to be a monk about your school. If you are tired of being a monk, what should you do?"

He was speechless.

The old Zen Master went on to say:

"If you work, you can't deal with it. Can you deal with the temple?

You should know that the monastery of the temple practice is not less than the work at all. Isn't the work itself a practice? "

We always think that only the ancient Buddhas of blue lights and the rules of the precepts can be considered practicing.

As everyone knows, work itself is a practice.

18 -year -old Zirbb, a worker of the Iron and Steel King Kaiki.

When others are complaining about tired work, low salary, and because of this, Qiwabi works meticulously and also learns to architectural knowledge.

One day, Carnegie came to the construction site and happened to see Zirb, who was sitting in the corner.

He looked at the book in Qi Wakberb's hand, and turned over his notebook and asked, "What do you learn these?"

Qiwra said: "I think that our company is not lacking in migrant workers. What is lacking is technical talents with existing work experience and professional knowledge, right?"

The next day, Zaverb was promoted to a technician by Kanegiki.

The same migrant workers, some people sarcastic and ridiculed Zirbb, he replied:

"I am not just working for the boss, but also to make money. I work for my dream and for my own future."

With such a belief, he stepped up to the position of the chief engineer.

At the age of 25, Zirbb became the general manager of this construction company.

Later, Zirbb established his own Bylin Iron and Steel Company, which truly completed the transformation from a migrant worker to an entrepreneur.

Many times, the biggest resistance in a person is not ability, but mental strength.

We were born ordinary. Work is not necessarily our love, nor can we always stand at the peak of the industry.

The real workplace is not an amusement park, but a trial field.

If someone falls, someone will top it immediately.

Enjoymenting others' promotion and salary, it is better to cultivate their own ability.

Work hard is the living truth of ordinary workplace people.

Just do work as a job, just do it casually. When a monk hit a day, it is deserted. It is his own life.

Some people say: The pain of work is not pain itself, but that your pattern is not enough.

When you can't figure it out, can't say, or not see through, try to magnify the pattern.

Philosopher Whitehai proposed:

The pattern is not nothing, but a thinking container composed of a time pattern+space pattern+cognitive pattern.

The key to growth is how to lay out for yourself.

1. Time pattern

Cousin Dapeng, after graduating from college, he just worked for a long time. He always complained that his work pressure was high and his salary was poor.

He said: "The monthly salary of the workers of the assembly line is 8,000, and I earn more than me. It has collapsed. I don't know the meaning of reading for more than ten years."

actually not.

The dry flow water line is really good in short -term returns, but 5 years or 10 years later, as usual, it is a low -to -dust screw.

Because the assembly line does not have room for appreciation, the salary of this 19800 is more overdrawn.

In contrast, no matter how low the salary of many university graduates is tolerated, it is potential for the potential development space. It is possible to struggle for 5 years and promote salary and increase.

Dai Goghle once said: Where the eyes go, it is a place where successful arrival.

If you do not sting at the moment, your thinking will become wider;

Put your eyes in the long run, and work hard to have the right direction.

The real masters are all living in the future, and they want all on their way.

2. Space pattern

I have seen a story to explain the pattern from the dimension of space.

A gentleman talked about "the first pattern of the big event", and the students were puzzled.

Sir, who came to a pot of peach trees, said to the students, "The flower pot is so big, how can this peach tree grow more than one foot."

Then, he pointed at the leafy peach trees in the courtyard and said, "This peach tree has enough space to grow arbitrarily."

The hardest thing for people is to break away from the restraint of "I". Every time, "I think" and "I think" are doing things.

This world is multi -faceted. Learn to open a larger space. Based on more angles, the pattern will be higher.

In the workplace, people with a space pattern, knowing how to compete with things is white effort, and energy is a waste of energy, and often go further.

3. Cognitive pattern

I believe that every office worker must have come up with such an idea:

"Other people can be late, why can't I?"

"Others can be lazy, I can."

The so -called others are nothing more than three or five colleagues around them.

It is always difficult for people to see a world outside of their knowledge.

A person is accustomed to doing things with past experience. It is often easy to keep the rules and be entangled by the troubles of work.

The cognitive pattern determines how big a person can do.

Have the opportunity to contact the masters in the circle, observe their affairs, and learn their way of thinking.

In the workplace, the greater the cognitive pattern, the more mature your mind, the more serious and responsible the work.

Zen has a word: When it is not different, only the old man is the place.

In the end, whether a person's pilleration is garlic or the sea of ​​stars, depending on the growth of breaking the situation.

I have heard a very realistic words:

The real meaning of work is your life -saving capital, a platform for your self -worth, is to make you have money to eat and raise baby, filial piety to your parents, and let you wake up in the middle of the night and not be afraid.

You know, the workplace road is long, and you still have to rely on yourself.

It is said that work is not necessarily a high salary, but it must be high pressure;

Not necessarily easy, but must be light sugar;

No success, but it must grow.

Be a person who can see both trees and see the forest, cultivate himself at work, and fulfill himself.

Author | Le is in Qi Qi, love the text, express himself, sort out emotions, and pay tribute to life.

Picture | Visual China

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