Every first love is your destined big grievance
Author:Xindi Time:2022.07.01
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Do you remember the first time you love?
Someone told me that the first love was like a person who tasted ice cream for the first time. Since then, there is no ice cream in life that can be comparable to the first stunning.
But I think that first love is more like the "demo" in our love, a template for feelings in the future.
Everyone who falls in love in the future, and every relationship in the journey, is more or less affected by the first native feelings, or compared.
It is always difficult for us to define what the first love is, because no matter who the other party is, we will always look back with a filter named "first love".
But that boy, who is sincere and ignorant, is always worth collecting and remembering.
Finally, I want to share with you an interpretation of "first love" in the Movash dictionary:
"First love, that's a warmth, joyful, unknown emotions."
I didn't know that this was love at the time.
Graduated driving license in high school, unexpectedly fell in love with the car who practiced a car together.
The coach taught 3 times and I couldn't understand how the steering wheel was fighting.
He taught me to go to the warehouse and stop on the side.
On the day of picking up the car last year, the leather smell in the car immediately pulled me back to that summer vacation. I really hope he will share my joy in the co -driver.
Every time she said, "Let's eat some good", I know her hot and sour beef noodles of Master Kang.
Because of her, I learned that the noodles and semi -ripe water eggs were not soft, and the protein was piercing the yellow and yellow stream.
And after half of the vinegar bag, you will get a dual experience of "spicy beef noodles" + "hot and sour beef noodles".
On the day of the breakup, I also cooked a bowl for myself, which was sour enough.
When I was a child, I played in the countryside. I was thrown into the small river ditch by several friends, and the water was actually waist, but I was so scared.
Since then, let alone the water world and swimming pool, even the ocean ball I feel suffocating.
As soon as I went to college, I did not grab badminton and fitness exercises.
At that time, the boyfriend, prepared the drifting and the floating plates that were tied to my body early.
In order to pass the final exam, he entrusted me to walk from the pool side to there, and it was annoying.
Now when I think of, my first love is probably the disinfection water in the swimming pool. It is clean and clean, but it is a big adventure for me.
When he broke up, he said, "At least it will not drowns in the water," he couldn't help tearing.
Girls I like high school like dancing machines. She belongs to the master who will take out her mobile phone video as long as she stands up.
In order to get her favor, I learned a summer vacation with her. Every day, I went home to sweat and did not play with me.
Finally, I won her with a party tonight and fell in love with KPOP since then.
But did not catch up.
I do n’t study hard in high school, but I have a good boyfriend with good grades.
Three years of the crane, the month before the college entrance examination suddenly panicked. With my current scores, the two did not play, let alone the same school with him.
Not only can it be unable to continue together, but even in the future, there will be a huge unwilling elsewhere.
He was holding a pen in his hand, writing my target scores on the paper, and taught me to give up the physics that was unknown. The main attack had a basic creature.
The college entrance examination biology almost scored a full score. The total score was the highest among all the simulation, and one of the pretty good books was available.
Every time I encountered an important choice of life, I wrote the goal with a pen and paper with a pen and paper, and then pushed me step by step, what kind of achievements I need to complete at each DDL.
In this way, I went to 211, graduated from the large factory, and changed my job to enter the management. From then on, every step was as my wishes.
I got married last month, and the groom was not him, but I would never forget that he taught me how to plan my future for the first time.
The first love is a rich and warm boy. Compared with my casual things, he will never feel that there is nothing to do.
When I was in college, I envied other students to go to Yunnan to play, sitting in the bedroom and complaining.
He did his homework list, and it was enough for two people to travel 6000.
Then I formulated a detailed income plan. I made enough money in two months, and I went to play for 1 week in the summer vacation.
It was very good to have fun. It was the first time I knew it very well that everything I wanted to achieve was ways.
If we say no, maybe most of the reason is not to want or think about it.
At least do not designate the standard of "no" before doing.
The first love took place in junior high school. In the age of a little fart, he couldn't wait to pile the good things in the whole world in front of me.
Eight or nine hundred Nike shoes, thousands of watches, small snacks after each get out of class ...
I couldn't give back a gift, and I couldn't use the same enthusiasm to give back to him, and broke up in two months.
He was sad, but in fact I was not happy. There is a panic in intimacy and a sense of burden.
After graduating from high school, he never responded to any person's likes.
Although it is an experience of failure, I also understand: loved people are too full, it is not necessarily a good thing.
The first love is a straight ball, from confession to breaking up, including every intermediate conflict, it is straightforward.
At the beginning, I was also an awkward personality of the little girl. I didn't say the reason for being angry. But every time he pulls me to analyze the cause of my emotional outbreak, understand the point that I am not satisfied, analyze his mood, and finally discuss the countermeasures.
I opened it and shattered it, and I was so embarrassed that I was embarrassed again.
Slowly discover that every time you reveal your mood and needs directly to the other party, not only are you not shameful, but you are even more likely to get the desired reaction.
Don't say "casual" if you want to eat claypot rice;
Dissatisfaction with his colleagues sharing paragraphs and asked directly to think in other places;
Even if the opinions of both parties are left, they can completely discuss this method of "sharing in the group instead of private chat".
Such love is worry -free and smooth. If you do n’t move around, you have to make trouble. For three days, you do n’t know why, and the couple who will continue to have problems next time, my love experience is great.
(PS: The next term is trained.
Dating in college is like a personal KPI. Although I didn't realize that I was looking for my girlfriend at the time, not because I liked it, but because of vanity.
In the three years together, the strategy of going out to play with her, she decided that the restaurant, and even the money for opening the house was AA.
I couldn't win a quarrel before breaking up, because every time she asked me, "What did you do for me?" I would know how to lose myself and stun.
The last time I went out to Jumpy, and the next day, she sent a 3,000 bill for me to pay half.
I made up for the balance of each card, and the full amount passed, as if I bought out of the debt in this relationship.
Until the recovery, I was indifferent to her pain and understood that it was because I never liked her like she liked me.
I have n’t contacted for many years, but the feeling of guilt still remember.
Before every relationship starts, I will ask myself seriously: "Do you really like it?"
Do not use warm swallowing and delaying the love of anyone, is the most important thing I have learned from the first love.
Writing: Chen Xiao sleeps
Material: Xinru
Design: Kuizi
Responsible editor: Yuan Sanzer
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