Innovative practice of grass -roots social governance | Hetian County: The way to get along with pre -marital training for couples

On June 24, at the Psychological Development Center of Hetian County, Abraham Miji made a proposal for his fiancee. Correspondent Nurman Guli Ge Ci Photo

Fang Jiawei Zhang Lei, a reporter from the Xinjiang Legal Daily,

At 15 o'clock on June 24th, at the group counseling room on the second floor of the Psychological Development Center of Hetian County, Awati Township residents and 24 -year -old Abraham Miji Titan held a red rose with one knee kneeled on one knee, and fiancee Ai Ai Ai Li Abdul Yumu confessed affectionately and proposed: "Marry me! I will be a responsible husband." In the other 14 cashier's applause and cheers, Eli took the rose.

This is a happy event that happened every Friday afternoon Psychological Development Center every Friday afternoon. On this day, every prospective couple who is about to receive a marriage certificate will have the opportunity to receive the training of the rule of law and moral education here, and strengthen the prospective couples to the marriage and family. Responsibility education helps newcomers to establish correct values, views, family outlooks, and strive to reduce various disputes in marriage and family from the source.

In Hetian County, pre -marital training began in July 2021. It is a service measure for young people to innovate in conjunction with the contradiction between the local marriage and family conflict and disputes in combination with the local marriage and family conflicts. Relying on the functions of 260 communities (villages) and the director of the Women's Federation in the county, timely understand the love situation of young people in the jurisdiction, inform the prospective couple who come to receive the "Marriage Registration Form", and before the marriage registration is registered, the psychological development of the county must be in the county. The center has a one -day pre -marital training. After obtaining a qualified certificate, you can obtain a marriage certificate. At present, pre -marital training has been conducted for 625 newcomers in the county.

The Chairman of the Women's Federation of Hotan County and the director of the Psychological Development Center of the Hetian County Nurman Guli Nur Buy Tell reporters that in order to let the new people understand the responsibility and obligations of marriage and family, the center tailored the training course for them. Explanation, explain the marriage and family editors of the Civil Code, the Protection of Women and Children's Rights, and the Promotion of Family Education, etc., through interpretation, let the prospective couples understand their roles and positioning in family life; afternoon is a group sharing meeting, focusing on moral education, and moral education, Two steps: First of all, the psychological counselor taught separately according to the gender, and the husbands should be aimed to the husbands, mainly to show them to respect their wives, not domestic violence, and women's legitimate rights and interests are protected by the law. To guide them to establish modern women's values, we must be confident, self -esteem, and self -love. Secondly, the organization's prospective couples sit in front of the round table, and the psychological counselor asked them how to do such questions one by one on the conflict between mother -in -law and mother -in -law and parenting concepts that may encounter in family life.

Through simulation disputes, the professor's prospective couples learn to think in discharge when dealing with family contradictions.

Family is the cell of society. Pre -marital training helped the newcomers to establish a harmonious and happy family environment, guide them to create a civilized family, strive for civilized citizens, and vigorously promote the core values ​​of socialism.

It is reported that there are 3 psychological counselors and 6 psychological counselors of the Psychological Development Center of Hetian County. And resolution. Since July last year, the center has accepted 426 family contradictions and disputes, with 369 settings, and the mediation rate was 82.6%.

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