"Emotional" 2 words, how much liberal arts men who kill love
Author:Xindi Time:2022.06.30
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Can you imagine it? The discipline turned out to be the first Kaner in the post -95s.
Recently, as the editor -in -chief editor, the editor -in -chief editor, I encountered a strange thing.
From the perspective of appearance, income, and academic qualifications, it is a pair of heavenly sets, but when I rushed to bridge the two people, the two sides heard the other party's discipline, which was yellow.
The boy said: I never find a science and technology woman in love, boring.
The girl said: I never find a liberal arts man to fall in love.
I am surprised that in 2022, there are still people who have such deep prejudice to science and technology women and liberal arts men?
I didn't believe it, so I found a group of science and technology women and liberal arts men's "group chat", only to find that prejudice turned out to be true.
But chatting, because of the minority of the group, they even deeply empathized with each other's environment--
The liberal arts man began to understand women's finding jobs, and science and engineering women even sympathized with the science men being said to be "prestigious."
I have to say that the label was killed.
Coinciding with the graduation season, the editors want to present some realistic things to everyone: in the "minority", stereotypes must exist, but we hope that you should not be scared by the word "minority".
It is life in my own hands.
We are a minority group.
Thirty people and 2 girls in civil engineering classes.
One class flower, a school flower.
The teacher focuses on the object of caring.
Go to Ma Zhe, others can skip class, but I can't.
Each lesson will be asked.
There is a public secret in the class:
Four girls in our class are all adjusted.
If you have a special experience,
Taohua is really good?
A female classmate turned to learn the text halfway,
The university never talked about love.
She regretted dying.
But in the top science and engineering colleges,
The gender ratio is smoothed by the academic qualifications.
I read a doctorate in Mathematics in 985,
I thought there were no girls here.
This damn excellent place,
The proportion of men and women is 1: 1.
History of university, 54 students, 8 boys.
When you go to the science and technology college next door,
I shouted like a pervert:
I have n’t seen so many men for a long time.
later,
Boys for computer systems come to ask for friendship,
We are disdain.
Anyway, everyone found a girlfriend.
Go to the law firm to join the job,
I was the only boy when I filled the form.
Later
I am more excited than female colleagues.
Our professional is compulsory 1: 1 move.
Non -compulsory enrollment majors,
There are 1 or 2 boys in some classes.
No boys don't come,
It is the top college of our industry,
Boys really can't get girls.
It's not Versailles!
Q: What do you look like in the science and technology female/liberal arts in your eyes?
Liberal arts men?
It's delicate, it is said that they go out to make up.
I ca n’t, makeup is much more difficult than experiments.
No, I want to clarify:
Not all liberal arts men love makeup!
When I was studying before,
A boy in the Japanese department is made up because of going out,
The school is famous.
Several rough men in our dormitory,
For this reason, a fierce discussion,
The conclusion is:
It's awkward. But this is his freedom.
I found that the liberal arts boy loved to show his muscles.
Pay attention to figure than girls.
We really prefer to run a marathon and play badminton,
I even kick the sister -in -law hahaha.
Professional cannot be qualitative.
Everyone chose their favorite lifestyle,
That's it.
Very tide.
Minghuang's top, pink shorts, hot curly hair,
I thought which little star was thought.
Women's programmers, isn't the plaid shirt standard?
Is it still a bit rough? (Offensive
I'm not rough, I love selfies!
In addition to the doctor of mathematics,
My other identity is "social media bloggers".
Once sharing holiday plans:
Read papers, review software knowledge, find internships ...
Then someone satirized in the message:
Let's take a selfie at home.
Probably they think:
Do not be beautiful?
Q: What is the temperament of the science and technology female/liberal arts man in your eyes?
Milk is screaming, good run.
Does anyone say they are "weird"?
I didn't say it, it's not me.
A previous article was scolded "矫 之".
People write about it
"I want to escape from my hometown,
But how can I escape, and finally reconcile with it. "
It's good to write well, don't understand which prestige.
But some people praise.
Those who feel exaggerated have a higher level of education.
Yeah, who's personality is not multi -faceted?
My sweet sister, no matter how I am "big brother".
But I will also play bass and like Wang Xiaobo.
Sister Royal! My brother loves you.
Find an object to find a science and engineering girl,
She will put the facts with you the truth,
Do not make trouble.
Don't ask me how to know.
It really does not be affected by emotions.
but,
Once I cried and completed an important experiment.
Later, I finished a business plan while crying.
My dad is an engineering man,
Very disliked me, a liberal arts man.
He feels that I always feel sad,
They are all idle.
But when my mother is angry,
Often I discovered and comforted her for the first time.
I will not be comforted next time. Let my dad scold.
Read more, read too much,
Form your own thinking system and worldview.
As long as the world does not follow the operation he wants, he complains.
——I always alert to be such a person :)
Q: When dealing with things,
What daily habits of your discipline rules
There is a SWOT analysis diagram in my head.
It can automatically analyze when encountering things,
What kind of behavior is the most suitable.
Quarry is also the facts and reason.
My boyfriend loves me to death.
I feel girls in the arts and sciences around me,
The difference is obvious.
When I talk about my strange boss:
Liberal arts girl: Sisters toward sisters!
Science and Technology girl: Sisters toward truth!
"I think this is not right."
Educated by science and engineering girls everyday.
Winning "Women's Friends".
Girls have the first to find me with emotional problems.
I can get to their angry points,
You can also provide some information,
About "What are boys thinking?"
Boys have emotional problems and they will be the first to find me.
The general problem is,
How to coax back to your girlfriend.
Every time I go out with my girlfriend,
Two sanitary napkins will be installed in the bag.
Give her a piece of emergency,
The other is spare for the next emergencies.
Is this considerate?
Why is it indecisive?
Can you often "straight steel men"?
We start from entering the discipline,
The "fairness and justice" of humanities and social sciences is pursuing humanities and social sciences.
During the debate, the logic is required to be smooth and clear.
My girlfriend is my defeat.
My girlfriend said,
I was about to lose my girlfriend.
When thinking about the problem,
I am used to thinking about the role of standing on the other party.
You can often have female friends,
Discuss gender issues and social news,
But I can't discuss this with boys.
Especially during the Tangshan incident,
They are really unable to empathize with women's fear.
Q: Because of your choice, what pressure did you bear?
Civil engineering is mainly on -site management of the construction site.
Can't find a job after graduation,
Already transferred.
Older male colleague said,
Our company will specially recruit some beautiful and cute girls,
Responsible for crying when the supplier was angry.
Help to shoot enrollment promotional videos when I was in college:
Student representatives are 7, 8 tall, short and thin boys,
And a beauty.
Wherever you are,
If she can't see her ability, she can only see her appearance.
Go to apply when I first graduated,
The male HR clearly informed not recruiting girls.
"Girls are coquettish,
But boys will work hard to work overtime. "
My current company,
Many high -level positions are women.
The women's programs in the company are not afraid of getting married and having children.
Understood.
If you have a child, you are in an important post before giving birth,
It will not change because of maternity leave.
Must say honestly,
As a liberal arts man,
I really deeply understand the employment of girls.
Hearing the leader responsible for recruitment said:
"Must be a boy,
The screened resume is given priority to boys. "
But this violates the right to equality of the Constitution!
I also observed a phenomenon:
In the junior lawyer assistant,
There are more girls than boys.
But among senior partners,
Men account for the majority.
The eliminated girls are not necessarily not good enough,
What exactly is elimination of them?
"The liberal arts men are not equipped in the inner volume center."
Baoyan 985, I explained my grandma many times, and I have explained it many times.
After graduation, I can only find one after graduation,
The monthly salary is 56,000.
But she didn't believe it.
The pressure of boys to make a family business is even greater-
A male classmate gave up the work of the People's Daily,
Back to my hometown for testing,
Higher salary and stronger happiness.
Q: What kind of effort did you do and try to change?
Not much can be done, but I still want to try it.
If I can go to leadership, more girls can not be discriminated.
He learned a programming language again.
Even if this discipline does not work in the future,
I have another way to go.
Perseverance is what I can do.
I'm going to study immediately,
I still want to adhere to my academic research career.
The law answered some questions deep in my heart:
For example, what should this society look like,
If this is not the case now,
How should we do it in the future.
Now I don't have much economic pressure.
But if you become home,
I will do part -time lawyers to subsidize my life.
My friends who are studying computer have a million annual salary a year.
I am also swaying between the desire of making money and what I like,
Comfort yourself only every time:
From a historical perspective,
Money is just equivalent,
It's just that it is more important in the current stage of development.
But I like humanities and social sciences,
It is to teach me to become a discipline.
If I can't be a real person,
What is the meaning of anything else?
At the end
The liberal arts boy who participated in the interview last said:
"It may be different because of the living environment and various reasons, but the same places must be greater than different places."
"I still don't want to label everyone, labels make people more and more split."
The stereotype itself is related to people's thoughts and "derived needs".Economist Marshall said: There are some fundamental desires or needs in consumers, and companies will cater to this demand.
The stereotype impression is born under this demand.
We are deeply impressed by the stereotypes of some things, so that when the later parties choose, they have become their "specific troubles".
I still hope that everyone can come out of "specific trouble" and look at "specific people".
This is the first step of understanding each other.
Writing: Sister A
Editor -in -chief: What is the second and third
Thanks for the interview:
Key salt and sweet science girl:@sophie,@可 可 可,@可 尾,@迷 可 可,@nicola,@小 可,@可
The gentle and powerful liberal arts boy:@可,@可 可 可 可,@可 可,@小 可,@可@@@千
Late prayer time:
"People who don't know anything and hold such a big prejudice,
It's annoying."
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