Through the moment of a person

Meng Hanqing, a writer of the Yuan Dynasty, said: "It is difficult to draw tigers to paint the skin.

It is difficult to distinguish between the belly and the belly.

Some people have a set in person, a set behind, the true and false are difficult to divide;

Some people have an angel in a second, a second demon, and it is difficult to see through.

Because they can't distinguish who is good, who is bad, and true or false, someone has eaten a lot of money, and she has paid the sincerity, and she has a lifetime.

As a result, everyone in the world hopes that they can have a pair of wisdom, can see through people's hearts, and can distinguish between true and false.

In fact, it is not difficult to recognize a person. It is enough to see a person's character. It is enough to just look at these 3 points.

The attitude towards parents

"The Book of Songs" has a saying: "Mourning parents, give birth to me."

Parents, giving us life, is our closest person.

When we get along with our parents, we have no scruples, without disguise, and we can expose nature the most.

Therefore, the attitude of treating parents is the most authentic character of a person.

Some time ago, I brushed Weibo and saw a story that impressed me.

Colleagues, Zhao Wenwen Er elegant, treats people's affinity, many people evaluate their character.

At first, I also felt the same. Because of my work, we had eaten several times. Old Zhao spoke and gone, humble and polite, and respectfully respect colleagues. Before each smoking, we must obtain the consent of the lady.

But what happened later made me change my opinion.

Once in the unit garage, I saw that Lao Zhao was calling and was angry.

Because I was not far away, I heard the content of Lao Zhao's speech most of it:

"Why are you stupid like a pig, that kind of person is a liar at first glance. I have given you the living expenses this month.

I was very shocked at the time, and this was completely peaceful.

It turned out that Lao Zhao was calling his mother.

The old man who was a gentleman and kind, but he didn't even have the minimum respect for his mother.

The most authentic quality of a person who can talk to his parents and screams is mean.

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Zhou Guoping once said:

"Circularity to close people is instinct, but it is a kind of education to overcome instincts and be non -picky about people who are close."

What a person's character, seeing his attitude towards his parents, knows that a person who can't help but not tolerate his parents will eventually be able to withstand the test of humanity.

Therefore, judging whether a person is really kind and educated depends on how he treats his parents.

If you have no respect for your biological parents and do not know gratitude, even if you respect you, you can't take it seriously.

Such a person pleases you, either the money in your pocket, or the right of deterring your hands, or covet your face value.

Once you do n’t have what he needs, you will abandon you.

You know, people who have a bad attitude of their parents will not be good.

Attitude towards interests

Some people say that interests are human nature's demon mirror and the best test goldstone test.

This is true.

See if a person can be intertwined, you can know from the interests.

My mother once walked very close to a aunt, and my aunt was talking very much, and I liked it too.

But they were almost gone.

I asked my mother, the aunt was so good, why didn't you see the relationship?

Her mother said that she and the aunt had partnerships to buy fruits several times. When they got it back, the aunt always gave all the best to herself, and some of them were given to the mother.

She thought her mother would not find it, but she could actually see it at a glance.

Later, the mother found through a few things that as long as others and aunts have interests, the aunt would try everything to make himself profit.

I have to admit that interests are really like a mirror, and many people are in front of it.

People with a wide range of vision will not be greedy for small profits; people who are kind will not calculate because of the benefit.

Thinking of Chen Jianghe's "Four Four Entering Six" business scriptures in the TV series "Flying on the Heaven".

Chen Jianghe, who was born in the north, went south to the north. No matter what business, every money made, leaving only four for himself as an income. The other six copies were all to the partners and helping themselves.

Even at the most difficult time in business, he has always pursued it.

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It is this persistence that every time he encounters difficulties, he always helps him.

It was also this persistence that he eventually made him from a pick -up Lang to a billionaire.

Shakespeare said:

"Money is a great magic stick that can change the appearance of a person casually."

Yeah, in the face of interests, the person who can see the heart is black and white, and the personality is divided into personality.

Therefore, if you want to see a person's character, he will observe his attitude and practice when facing interests.

Greatly not greedy, there must be a bottom line to be a person; the stingy is too selfish, and there must be no principles to do things.

Under the interests, a person's face knows it at a glance.

The attitude towards the weak

J.K. Rowling once said:

"A person's true education, don't depend on how he treats people with higher identity than himself, depends on how he treats people lower than himself."

Take it seriously.

A person's attitude towards the weak is often his true reflection of the world.

To see the level of a person's education, and seeing his attitude towards the bottom people, you can see it at a glance.

The cousin was studying at the age of 30 and has been single.

Just last year, the cousin was an object. According to the cousin, the other party fell in love with her at first sight, very gentle and considerate, and she could tolerate her small temper, and her family conditions were good. We were very happy after knowing that the cousin finally met a good family and was in love.

But some time ago, I knew they had broken up.

Asked the reason, my cousin said, "Because I see the most authentic him."

He drove on the road. If the old man with a slow leg blocked the road, he must shook the window to scold the old man a few words.

If there is a cheaper car that is cheaper than his car, he must surpass him, and another sentence "poor ghost".

I ate a few times, and he always shouted by the waiter, very rude.

Once, because the waiter poured tea and spilled on him a little, let the waiter apologize repeatedly, he just refused to call the manager, give a discount or exemption.

The cousin said that after experiencing these, she saw the character's character and decisively broke up.

The cousin's decision is right.

Because of a person's attitude towards the weak, he exposed his most authentic line.

There is a saying good:

"When a person faces the weak, the weak is often in a relatively low position and does not have any threat. Therefore, at this moment, how this person's attitude depends entirely on his own education."

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Think of a story about a collector Lawrence.

At an exhibition, after Lawrence was busy, the painting was very unsatisfactory.

Finally, a painting was finally sold, but when the staff took the painting, I was excited to break the frame and tear it.

Everyone was waiting to see how Lawrence dealt with it, guessing how he would lose his temper.

Surprisingly, although Lawrence looked very painful, he did not blame the employee.

Afterwards, some people asked curiously, Lawrence said:

"He is a disabled, he can endure hardships and always actively do things."

Respecting and worship of the strong is human instinct, but the understanding and respect for the weak is the most rare trip.

Do not humiliate with others, and do not be a bitch with your body.

Emerson said:

"Character is an inner power. Its existence can directly play a role without using any means."

Character is a person's strongest backer, the hardest card, and the biggest capital.

One person, the character is positive, will be respected by everyone; good character will love to take care of it.

In the end, the character is character.

Good character is the best passage for walking people.

For the rest of my life, I hope you and I have good morals, and those who meet are all good people.

Pay attention to readers and encourage friends.

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